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TG/TS Top or Bottom?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by 947530, Apr 21, 2015.

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    I read ads every so often looking for a TG/TS. It seems like the genuine ones are always a bottom. I'm a guy looking for a top TG/TS or at least versatile. Am I asking for too much? Is it wrong to think I might meet what I'm looking for? Are the odds slimmer than I realize?
     
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    I can't speak for all of us, but as a non-op transwoman, here is my position on this: while I enjoy being fondled & orally pleased, taking the "masculine" role in intercourse doesn't appeal to me because I don't identify myself in a masculine way at all. My guess is that most tg/ts probably feel similarly, but there are always exceptions to the rule. In my experience, most of the men I've been with wanted me to top them. I see personal ads on various websites from men who say they are looking for a tg/ts to top them, but I would wager that many of these men just don't know quite how tg/ts differ from a cd in the sexual arena. Where a cd may just as well be any heteroflexible cisgender man who just wears women's clothes for kink, transwomen live & identify as women and dressing as such is just a normal daily part of life. My short answer (I know, too late for that!) is that I would say that most of us have little to no interest in topping.
     
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    Looking for a top too.
     
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    I dated a trans girl and she was a vers. She was smoking hot too.
     
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    It has been my experience that the bottom only trans have small dicks, the verses that love to be a top and bottom are usually hung big. If I'm wrong then let me know.
     
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    In general I think I would have to agree with you. Of course, more than a few TS escorts will be happy to top any man. But if we are talking TS women not in that life style, than I'd have to agree--that's my perception.
    I did date a TS woman for nearly a year (not an escort). It was a very positive experience. She was versatile and often enjoyed topping me....which I learned to love. She was a fantastic lover. To one of your point--neither of us felt that the act of her topping was "masculine" per se. Maybe she was unique in this thinking--but she remained very feminine, giving and sexy in this role as a top. Not sure, but have to think that she was a little unique on this. Regardless, it was a good experience and I miss her. Never should have let her go....Peace.
     
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    just too much generalization/stereotyping in this for me. my experience has been all over the board. what i have found is that the gals that are top only, usually relent and enjoy being topped once they get to know you. i had one jackhammer top who was only about 5 inches, but boy did she know how to use it. sienna grace is bottom only and she is nicely hung.
     
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    "...the gals that are top only, usually relent and enjoy being topped once they get to know you." LOL. This was my experience.
     
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    Thanks for all the replies. Much appreciated.
     
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    =] I've only recently admitted to myself that I'm transgender, but that's how I feel too. I hate it when people try and make me fill masculine roles or especially on grindr when people are like "hey stud.." "I'd love to s your d" etc, lol
     
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    there are some out there, but then you have to look hard.
     
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