hey guys, what do you do when you want to feel manly? Do you have get that masculine urge? I never know what to do with it so I jerk off like a crazy dude. Do u hunt, fish, wrestle? do squats? Would love to hear some suggestions. Bonus points for things you do by yourselves as I live alone. Thanks brothers!
Not sure what you are looking for here???
I've known I was gay since I was young, and I'm now 68, but I have never had this worry.
I am very much interested in design and cooking but I never feel less "male" when doing those kinds of things. I play classical piano, but I feel quite masculine when I'm doing that, too.
I never feel aggressive in the sense of needing to show power over others. I've never played a competitive sport at all, so "winning" is not part of my vocabulary, BUT I'm all about good form in the gym with deadlifts, squats, etc. That's just taking care of my body!
Maybe a good story about me illustrates where I'm coming from:
At my 20th HS reunion a former classmate who had been an annoying jerk but was now a successful businessman, took me aside and said, " P____, I have to tell you that I have always admired how you were always fearlessly yourself in high school."
I was definitely the bookish need, playing piano in front of school gatherings, and obviously not a jock.
Just being yourself is the most "manly" thing I can think of. As I have said in other threads on here, some of the most masculine guys I have ever known were bottoms. Conversely, some of the most insecure guys I've ever known insisted they were only tops!