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hey guys, what do you do when you want to feel manly? Do you have get that masculine urge? I never know what to do with it so I jerk off like a crazy dude. Do u hunt, fish, wrestle? do squats? Would love to hear some suggestions. Bonus points for things you do by yourselves as I live alone. Thanks brothers!
 

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hey guys, what do you do when you want to feel manly? Do you have get that masculine urge? I never know what to do with it so I jerk off like a crazy dude. Do u hunt, fish, wrestle? do squats? Would love to hear some suggestions. Bonus points for things you do by yourselves as I live alone. Thanks brothers!
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I've known I was gay since I was young, and I'm now 68, but I have never had this worry.

I am very much interested in design and cooking but I never feel less "male" when doing those kinds of things. I play classical piano, but I feel quite masculine when I'm doing that, too.

I never feel aggressive in the sense of needing to show power over others. I've never played a competitive sport at all, so "winning" is not part of my vocabulary, BUT I'm all about good form in the gym with deadlifts, squats, etc. That's just taking care of my body!

Maybe a good story about me illustrates where I'm coming from:
At my 20th HS reunion a former classmate who had been an annoying jerk but was now a successful businessman, took me aside and said, " P____, I have to tell you that I have always admired how you were always fearlessly yourself in high school."
I was definitely the bookish need, playing piano in front of school gatherings, and obviously not a jock.

Just being yourself is the most "manly" thing I can think of. As I have said in other threads on here, some of the most masculine guys I have ever known were bottoms. Conversely, some of the most insecure guys I've ever known insisted they were only tops!
 
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Not sure what you are looking for here???
I've known I was gay since I was young, and I'm now 68, but I have never had this worry.

I am very much interested in design and cooking but I never feel less "male" when doing those kinds of things. I play classical piano, but I feel quite masculine when I'm doing that, too.

I never feel aggressive in the sense of needing to show power over others. I've never played a competitive sport at all, so "winning" is not part of my vocabulary, BUT I'm all about good form in the gym with deadlifts, squats, etc. That's just taking care of my body!

Maybe a good story about me illustrates where I'm coming from:
At my 20th HS reunion a former classmate who had been an annoying jerk but was now a successful businessman, took me aside and said, " P____, I have to tell you that I have always admired how you were always fearlessly yourself in high school."
I was definitely the bookish need, playing piano in front of school gatherings, and obviously not a jock.

Just being yourself is the most "manly" thing I can think of. As I have said in other threads on here, some of the most masculine guys I have ever known were bottoms. Conversely, some of the most insecure guys I've ever known insisted they were only tops!

Well said dude.
 
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I can't say if I have ever isolated a masculine urge. Peeing standing up? Outside?

As Popeye and Yahweh have said "I yam what I yam," and if it comes across as masculine then that's someone else's duty to define.

My luck with women has been fantastic until we make vows. My luck with men has not been too shabby, and what's more masculine than two XYs in a room?

Seriously, aside from hair everywhere except where it's traditionally been, I can't think of a trait that would define me as manly except for a sex organ.
 
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Great thoughts guys. I dono, when I watch a baseball game and crack a beer i just feel manly and dont know what to do with my self sometimes. Maybe im the only one that gets this feeling haha.

What other stuff do you guys do that just makes you feel like men? Piss standing up is a great one, I think pissing next to other men is the same thing. Thanks dudes!
 

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I dunno, when I wake up with morning wood. I always feel manly because well, I'm a man. I guess the thing that makes me feel the most manly is having a woman orgasm on my dick. That is a pretty amazing feeling.
I cook clean do laundry wash dishes, but I live alone and if I don't do it it doesn't get done.
 
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I dunno, when I wake up with morning wood. I always feel manly because well, I'm a man. I guess the thing that makes me feel the most manly is having a woman orgasm on my dick. That is a pretty amazing feeling.
I cook clean do laundry wash dishes, but I live alone and if I don't do it it doesn't get done.
Hey dude, do you get wood everyday? doe sit come and go when you don't get enough sleep or workout enough etc?
 
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Hey dude, do you get wood everyday? doe sit come and go when you don't get enough sleep or workout enough etc?


If you mean morning wood ? Just about. At least semi on mornings I'm not completely boned up. I like most men get hard several times throughout the day. Sometimes I hang heavy all day. It's not like I keep a constant erection though. Usually when I go to bed I'll get hard too. If it doesn't go away I beat the fuck out of it until it shoots off biggrin.
 
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If you mean morning wood ? Just about. At least semi on mornings I'm not completely boned up. I like most men get hard several times throughout the day. Sometimes I hang heavy all day. It's not like I keep a constant erection though. Usually when I go to bed I'll get hard too. If it doesn't go away I beat the fuck out of it until it shoots off biggrin.
haha nice. I actually dont get boners during the day at all. is that weird? what do they stem from, like are they just random, when youre in a meeting or something? I do get morning wood tho, especially if I beat off the night before ive found.
 
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haha nice. I actually dont get boners during the day at all. is that weird? what do they stem from, like are they just random, when youre in a meeting or something? I do get morning wood tho, especially if I beat off the night before ive found.


Usually random can't say why I get boners unless it is just my dicks way of stretching out. They usually don't last a real long time.

On nights I stroke one out I'm especially hard the next morning. I also sleep naked. Drink lots pf water and I'm pretty active on my job and after I get off work too.
 
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