shortchanged: Hi all......being new to this site and not of the stature that most seem to be here, i must say i need all the help i can get at 4 1/2 X 4 1/2. .....that said i have noticed a phenonom when i measured once with a full erection on. From tip of head to base of shaft was 4 1/2 inches........ BUT......if i pushed on my pubic area around the shaft i gained another full inch! The reason i bring it up at all is because this is what happens when we shorter tooled members have sex.........that extra inch becomes "workable" since we don't bottom out like you bigger guys. In fact.....i like to grind when fully inserted on the down stroke, left to right and then back out. The gals like the clitoral stimulation and i enjoy the "look" in their eyes! Since this technique only works when you leave none of your package out in the cold........it's not available to most on this site. :-/ ....... we need some advantages! ......just curious if you bigger guys get that extra inch when "measuring" ,or pressing the base?