The anal opening

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by SassySpy, Feb 1, 2007.

  1. SassySpy

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    :confused: I have posted these type questions in similar threads, but try as I might I can't seem to
    1. find the posts to see if they were answered (well I was hijacking- spank me!)
    2. Find any posts that definitively answer the following:
    (though to be fair, I believe portions of my questions were kindly answered by some members who frequently respond to most posts)

    My main Q is - will the anus become permanently stretched? Dont those muscles lose elasticity if if they are stretched often enough, especially by well endowed men. Ive seen some pretty ugly gaping a-holes on PornoTube, dont want mine to get like thar, if I ever try anal.
    also. how much more enjoyable is it for both thr partners?
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  2. LT17

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    Hey girl - u should try it - u will love it - I love pussy but when i put my
    8 incher up a tight ass i go wild and most boys and girls love it - the whole
    key is preparation - u must lube - I know from experience on both ends
    Getting fucked and fucking!
     
  3. Andrew2500

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    Hey there,

    As to how enjoyable it is for both partners.. It all depends. Some girls love anal more than vaginal (usually not at the first few attempts) because they claim it gives them much deeper sensation when they orgasm. Others don't like it because they are afraid to do it, or because they think it's wrong or whorish, which is ofcourse ridiculous.
    In the end you have to try it to find out. But be open minded. If it hurts, by all means stop, but do try again a few more times next time, because otherwise you'll never fully try it.

    I do anal on my girlfriend quite often. Sometimes 14 times in 2.5 weeks. It definitely feels wonderful. Most of the time we use plenty of lube, but every now and then when we forgot to bring it along, we use a lot of spit, might sound dry, but done properly it won't be, and man... that was the best ever. It's just a million times more sensitive, and feels so great! I could barely hold off my ejaculation.
    For her it felt amazing too, she said she prefers it over vaginal. Ofcourse this still means you have to alternate, can't stick with one when you can have two :p.

    To answer your question, no, your ass won't become permanently loose. Ofcourse I can't speak for people who do it very often for 5 years straight or such. But with my girlfriend there's no difference after 1.5 years of going at it very often. Maybe it might feel a tiny bit more loose, but this would be if it was done very often in a row. As in, if you do it every night for 2 weeks, yes during that time it will be slightly loose because it still hasn't fully recovered. But if you wait 2-3 weeks then it's back to normal. So you can rest assured, no problems.

    Btw, i know you might not like chicks that gape a lot in porn. But for many guys (for me for sure) I love that sight! The bigger the gape, the better. As long as it's a clean gape though, no bloody/shitty/ stuff.

    Regardless, rest assured, with plenty of preparation you'll be fine:

    lots of proper lube
    being excited and not forced (this will ease your muscles)
    cleaned up downstairs
     
  4. Bacchusbigboy

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    You do love it in the ass don't you.

    Sorry I have no idea of the answer
     
  5. DC_DEEP

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    Sassy, regardless of what some members on this board will tell you, the muscles of the anus will NOT become permanently stretched and lose elasticity.

    Think of it this way: The primary purpose of any muscle is to stretch and contract, back and forth. That's what they are designed to do.

    If you are out of shape, and then begin an exercise program, you are always advised to include a gradual stretching routine. The first time you try to touch your toes, you most likely won't be able to. If you continue to stretch the muscles, without damaging them, you will gradually gain more range of motion and flexibility, and touching your toes will become easy. But if the muscles were permanently stretched, or unable to contract again, you would not be able to stand upright again after you touched your toes. It's the same with your anal sphincter. If you gradually work your way up to stretching it, it will go back to its original shape and size. It won't become a gaping gash.
     
  6. Love-it

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    We have been doing anal for about a year, every week or two and I have never noticed my wifes ass "gaping".
     
  7. jordanj

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    I'm sure there's no problem with the regular or even the large cocks seen around here but some of the fisting guys I've seen on xtube and that, are we saying that their asses shrink back to normal because when they bend over, it looks like they have a large flabby vagina instead of an ass.

    .:eek22:
     
  8. DC_DEEP

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    Yes, they do go back to the normal size. Keep in mind that what you have seen on xtube is pornography. What you saw was probably photographed/filmed immediately after the fisting. The tissues would be (as is a penis or a vagina immediately after sex) engorged. Once the blood vessels return to normal, so will the rest of the tissue, usually after a couple of hours.
     
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    Look, if she only opens up once a year I suggest you find a new partner. Annual opening is just not enough for any normal person and

    Oh. nevermind.
     
  10. DC_DEEP

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    You are SUCH a petulant thing. Keep it up, and I will first spank you until your ass is nice and pink, then we will test Sassy's and Jordanj's theories upon you. Repeatedly.
     
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