Oddly, I don't get many "cock rating requests" and I've been about for a while. The PM's I've obtained tend to request more information about me, or where I have other writings. I find it to be a nice ego boost.
Either do I. In fact, have yet to receive an abusive PM. They are more along the lines of "tell me about you" or something like that.
Anywho, I chimed in on Cinnamon's thread regarding this same topic.
Online or not, everyone, but particularly women, must remain aware of predatory behavior. People who engage in this type of behavior are simply stepping over the line and there is not excuse for it. There's certainly no reason to trot out the old "she's asking for it" justification - blaming the victim is totally unnecessary, all responsibility falls on the actor.
I think what some guys do in real life or online is confuse seeing some skin with intimacy. It is this sense of familiarity, or "knowing" the type of woman you are or what you "need" that makes them behave in a way that's inappropriate. But that does not mean women should lower hemlines or not feel free to show their bodies. What is does mean is these assholes need to mature. Further, that it is women who refuse to be categorized, or forced in a role of modest woman that will drag them to the realization that they, their gaze, or their thoughts do not own a woman's body or nor what she chooses to do with it.
The top I have on in my gallery pic, I have worn out on the street, in fact wearing it today, and I did get the occasional look or stare. That's fine. What is not appropriate is touching me or otherwise invading my personal space.
In real life, if someone acts inappropriately I can retaliate by whatever means available or appropriate for the situation - usually just saying something is enough. Online, the ability to retaliate is not there, but that does not mean a woman on LPSG or any site should alter the way she presents herself.
Just be aware when someone steps over the line, tell them they have, and don't give so much power to other's thoughts. People who do not respect you as a person will not do so on the street or on the internet. Keep close those who do respect you, are decent and supportive. The rest? Fuck them.