The 'Average' Guy

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Im actually surprised at the answrs in this thread. Im 5in and most ppl consider that small. There are guys I know who are larger than me but have a hard time getting any. If anything, my confidence has almost always got the girl rather than a dick size. The ppl who have seen my dick but I haven't had sex with have called it small yet i've never had a hard tome pleasing mu partner. I found this forum not too long ago and have read some real interesting things. I honestly thought the answers would be negative but its been surprising! This is a great forum and I/ we my fiance and I need to start contributibg to it now.
 

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I'm just a fan of cock and I love men, regardless of size. Like a lot of women, I couldn't care less about the intricacies of the measurements. I've had intense pleasure with 5 inches and terrible sex with 7 inches. I'm all about chemistry, fearless creativity and lots of oral sex. I'm pretty sure that is the sexual trifecta for me.
 

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There is a disconnect, in many, between what is "average" and what is "adequate." A rusted old Chevy Nova might be the "average" car in the land of Gamma but that doesn't mean the people of Gamma are happy about it. On the other hand an Audi S4 might be the "average" car in the land of Beta and the people there might feel that inadequate too.

If you perceive that you need more than you have to be happy (or in this case be sexually pleasing to others) knowing that you are statistically "average" is not much consolation.
 

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Well, from hearing from several of the experienced ladies that I have been with, they have all pretty much said that 80-90% of the guys that they were with were between 5-6 erect. The big difference in case it matters is when guys are flaccid. I see such a huge difference with flacid guys in gym lockers but when they get hard, the erections are similar. As an example, I am very small flacid but get to a normal 5.5-6 erect.
 

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I really hope there's a change in how we talk about dicks and how we view them. Hopefully this discussion will some day be happening among real dudes.

I found this forum not too long ago and have read some real interesting things. I honestly thought the answers would be negative but its been surprising! This is a great forum and I/ we my fiance and I need to start contributibg to it now.

Who would have thought that the LARGEpsg would be the place that civil, even appreciative, dialogue can happen around this topic, but there you have it. Looks like you've been able to contribute to a more positive discussion. Good on you.
 

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Well, from hearing from several of the experienced ladies that I have been with, they have all pretty much said that 80-90% of the guys that they were with were between 5-6 erect. The big difference in case it matters is when guys are flaccid. I see such a huge difference with flacid guys in gym lockers but when they get hard, the erections are similar. As an example, I am very small flacid but get to a normal 5.5-6 erect.

Ditto. I had a "straight" fuck buddy in college and when soft he hung like a mule. But going hard it just got hard. It didn't grow any more, just thicker maybe. If he was hanging 6" he was hard 6" (maybe 7" but no more). I guess you could say it was disappointing at first because I thought I hit the mother load but it was more or less average - and so was his performance.
 

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He might just think that the truly hot sex requires a big dick to be involved.

While I no longer really fear women turning me away for my size (other than the one time it actually happened) I do feel that truly hot sex does need a guy to be well above average in size.

But I guess I'm content with the idea that any sex I might have one day won't be truly "hot sex" on account of size. At least I would be having sex!
 

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I am 6.25" to 7.25" (nbp to bpel) and in all my experience, I have come to believe that my length is just slightly above average (60ish percentile is my feeling)
I am 5.6" to 6.0" in girth and in my experience I am considered pretty thick (maybe 80-85 percentile)
I think my relatively short length accentuates my girth.
These are just guesses based on penises I have seen and comments and conversations from women I have had sex with.
I just don't believe that the average length of the penis here in the US is under 6", even tho the most reputable studies seem to say that it is.
 
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Don't you think that might be a bit of exaggeration? I'm sure guys will add at least an inch to their real size when talk about it with other dudes. I don't get why guys can't just realize the truth.
Its almost always an exaggeration, and most guys measure at the bottom of their cock or where ever it is that makes them longer. The correct measurement is at the TOP. Measure right, not from your taint forward lol
 

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my penis is 6.2 inches and my first girlfriend (who was a sex freak and had countless of partners before me) told me my penis was small. she said it in a funny way like "so the rumors about finger&penis lenght are true. cuz you know, you kinda have small fingers." and she laughed. i also laughed but afterwards i kept thinking i really do have a penis under the average.

months later i searched the internet and fortunately found out that according to researches i'm definitely in the average category.

still its kind of funny/strange that according to her "research" 6.2 is small (my guess would be she had seen about 100 cocks at that time, including all the blowjobs, handjobs, ...).
well, maybe she found all her boyfriends on LPSG :)

anyway, i'm not saying i wouldn't wish a bigger penis but i'm really ok with my size. i think 5-6 inches are perfectly enough to satisfy a woman (or man).
everything above that is only a matter of aesthetics in my opinion.
 

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I think people just get wrapped up in the math a little too much. The real world difference between a 5.5" long penis and a 6" long penis is barely noticeable. But it seems like a mile of a difference due to the numbers.

To answer the question, I view a 5 or so inch penis to be on the shorter end of average but not small.

That being said, in the distorted (and far to regularly, greatly exagerated)world view of LPSG and porn, 5 inches would be small. But in the real world it isn't.
 
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A metric penis always appears longer. 15cm appears more impressive than 6 inches.

:)
 

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Here is a set of terms I think makes sense.



Yup I would tend to agree to some degree, with these charts. Personally I have always thought :

Under 5" was Small or below average
5" - 7" was Average, b/c I read somewhere that 90% of all men measure in that range.
7" - 8" was ABOVE AVERAGE
8" - 9" was BIG
Over 9" was HUGE

I know several men on here (women too) consider 7" to be BIG and while in the real world this is true I have trouble wrapping my mind around that concept b/c I am 7" when soft and that tends to skew my idea of BIG compared to Reality.


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