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Another example of communal showers being common in the media and popular culture in the 1970s is from Mad magazine which was extremely popular at the time and sold on news stands everywhere to kids. I remember when this issue hit the news stands at the time when I was a kid. I used to buy every issue when it came out because I loved the magazine so much (as did everyone else). What was considered so strange and funny about this picture wasn't the fact that 3 guys were using the communal shower together, it was the misplaced tan lines.

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Another example of communal showers being common in the media and popular culture in the 1970s is from Mad magazine which was extremely popular at the time and sold on news stands everywhere to kids. I remember when this issue hit the news stands at the time when I was a kid. I used to buy every issue when it came out because I loved the magazine so much (as did everyone else). What was considered so strange and funny about this picture wasn't the fact that 3 guys were using the communal shower together, it was the misplaced tan lines.

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1978=0.60 cents per copy.
2020=$6.00 per copy.
Talk about inflation!
 
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1978=0.60 cents per copy.
2020=$6.00 per copy.
Talk about inflation!

I know! Crazy, isn't it? I don't know what minimum wage was in 1978 because I was too young to work then, but I do remember at my first job in 1982 that minimum wage was $2.65 per hour. Today it's $14.00 per hour where I live. I guess it's all relative.

I didn't know that Mad magazine is still available today. I haven't bought a magazine (or newspaper) in years now.
 

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I know! Crazy, isn't it? I don't know what minimum wage was in 1978 because I was too young to work then, but I do remember at my first job in 1982 that minimum wage was $2.65 per hour. Today it's $14.00 per hour where I live. I guess it's all relative.

I didn't know that Mad magazine is still available today. I haven't bought a magazine (or newspaper) in years now.
I ended up on their website and the latest issue is from August. Their issue dates seem rather sporadic. The latest post, on the site, appears to be from June.
 

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I think that when locker rooms and open showers were normalized and common in popular media in the 1980s, there was less modesty going on. Somewhere along the line, it became sexualized and taboo to some guys.

I think, at least to me, the entertainment industry (i.e. more than likely the porn industry) has contributed to this sexualization. Also, add in the fact - and this is just me thinking out loud here - that in the mid to late 1980s it seemed like molestation cases were pretty rampant, so modesty may have crept in due to this. At any rate, with the way technology is advancing and you see lots of "voyeur" or spy cam videos of locker rooms, it's no wonder that some young guys go to certain measures to shield their body - or it could be that a) they're just generally private about being nude in front of others b) they think others around them will be looking their body up and down with perverted thoughts or c) they're not confident about their body.
 
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I have swum in local swimming pools and always simply carried a towel, showed naked and felt ok with it. I am average sized, average build so don't have anything to flaunt lol. But I too as may have posted, seen many shapes and sizes and goes with everyone is different. I don't mind seeing a bit of nakedness in men, and while not perving, if I notice, I notice!. Have seem it all - from completely sunken into ones pelvis to completely 100% erect - yep it happened on more than one occasion and THAT is not really a sight you expect and it kinda takes you back. I have seen well built, well hung guys covering up a bit and I guess we need to be respectful of peoples space but why worry what your build or size is? We are too fixated on size of the manhood when in fact we should be focused on the whole person!
 

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Another example of communal showers being common in the media and popular culture in the 1970s is from Mad magazine which was extremely popular at the time and sold on news stands everywhere to kids. I remember when this issue hit the news stands at the time when I was a kid. I used to buy every issue when it came out because I loved the magazine so much (as did everyone else). What was considered so strange and funny about this picture wasn't the fact that 3 guys were using the communal shower together, it was the misplaced tan lines.

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I always liked the pages that folded to create a different illustration.
 
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Another example of communal showers being common in the media and popular culture in the 1970s is from Mad magazine which was extremely popular at the time and sold on news stands everywhere to kids. I remember when this issue hit the news stands at the time when I was a kid. I used to buy every issue when it came out because I loved the magazine so much (as did everyone else). What was considered so strange and funny about this picture wasn't the fact that 3 guys were using the communal shower together, it was the misplaced tan lines.

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This cover photo depicts how casual it was to be nude with other guys in the showers.

I’ve always liked this pic of Pele and Franz Beckenbauer. Again, naked guys, open showers, very casual.

I caught the tail end of the open shower design. I wish it was as prevalent as it was 20-30 years ago.

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There was a towel rack adjacent to the shower room. You could hang your keys there if you wanted. Most guys just shut the door to their lockers while showering. As a rule, I have never brought valuables into the gym. The exception would be my car keys -- but most guys looking to steal stuff aren't gong to steal anything that obvious.

It's been a while, but I think most of the showers had shelves. Typically if you were bringing bar soap -- you kept it in a soap-sized travel container -- and could set it on the shelf and then close it when you were finished.
 
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ive never been to a gym with open shower design. I always wondered: where do you keep your stuff (towel, soap, keys to locker) ?? would it be easy for someone to just grab your keys and take stuff out of your locker (wallet)??

I just lock my stuff up in a locker as do most other guys. The only thing I bring to the shower room are my toiletries and now towel because with COVID, my gym is no longer providing them. I leave my toiletries bag outside of the shower room, and just bring in my mini shampoo bottle, bar of soap and face wash. No one has ever stolen my bag before. If it ever happened, I wouldn't care. They cost less than $10. My gym attracts an upper middle class clientele, so theft of any kind is very rare in the plus locker room. Many guys don't even bother locking up their locker.
 

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I just lock my stuff up in a locker as do most other guys. The only thing I bring to the shower room are my toiletries and now towel because with COVID, my gym is no longer providing them. I leave my toiletries bag outside of the shower room, and just bring in my mini shampoo bottle, bar of soap and face wash. No one has ever stolen my bag before. If it ever happened, I wouldn't care. They cost less than $10. My gym attracts an upper middle class clientele, so theft of any kind is very rare in the plus locker room. Many guys don't even bother locking up their locker.

In my experience, the worst for gym theft (I've been the victim many times) was a rather upper-crust city, which beats its chest and claims to have the lowest crime rate in the nation (utter bullshit, they have a nuanced definition of "crime"). By contrast, at the same time I would also use a crappy location of the same gym chain, in an area considered somewhat "bad." I noticed that many guys didn't bother to lock up there, even while working out-- they would just tuck a bit of paper towel through the lock hasp to indicate that the locker was taken. At first I thought that maybe they had noting of value in there, but then I discovered they would leave their wallet, house and car keys, etc. It really came down to a code of ethics-- they might tag property, distribute drugs, shoot each other in the street, or do other things we generally call "criminal," but messing with somebody's stuff at the gym is just so low, something no real man would ever do.

On the other hand, in the city that considers itself almost crime-free, there was a rampant credit-card and cash theft problem at an upscale gym location. (Yes, I know, you aren't supposed to bring valuables, but practical considerations don't leave you much choice sometimes.) Combination locks are popular, because there is no key to loose, but this is when I learned that most of the common models in the USA are almost as easy to open without the combination than with it. Sometimes they would actually steal your physical cards. When I tried to report this to the police, to get a report in case of possible identity theft problems later, the police refused, telling me that gym locker theft was not a "reportable incident." (Ahhh, now we know how they get that lowest crime rate in the nation statistic...)

More often, however, in the days before "chipped" cards, they would open you locker and make duplicates of the card's magnetic stripes, then put everything back. A very nice lady at the fraud department of Amex explained to me exactly how they do this, from opening the lock without damaging it, to reading the card data so they can make a duplicate, to photographing your driver's license so they know your zip code (used to authenticate some purchase, such as at gas pumps) and have a specimen of your signature. But they don't take anything physical, they put everything back and lock up again, so you have no way of immediately knowing what happened, giving them more time to go on a spending spree, unless the credit card fraud monitoring catches it. On at least two occasions, I've had my phone ring as I was leaving the gym, and it was the bank, asking if I was 300 miles away at a Best Buy in Las Vegas, buying a $5000 TV or some such thing. Took them less than an hour to email the card data, make a duplicate card in Vegas, and go shopping.

I work in the same delusional "low-crime" city as that gym location, which is not only right by my office, but had a couple of truly outstanding personal trainers, so I wanted to continue using it. The solution was simple-- I bought a lock that none of the upper-middle-class-white-collar-asshole crooks had ever seen before. I mail-ordered it from the website of a hardware store in the UK. While doing this, I discovered that in Europe, consumer locks are rated with a security level. The same store also sold the Master and other common brands found in the USA, which were labelled "unratable" I bought a cheap lock with a medium security rating. My theft problem stopped immediately, and has been gone for 5 years.
 
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In my experience, the worst for gym theft (I've been the victim many times) was a rather upper-crust city, which beats its chest and claims to have the lowest crime rate in the nation (utter bullshit, they have a nuanced definition of "crime"). By contrast, at the same time I would also use a crappy location of the same gym chain, in an area considered somewhat "bad." I noticed that many guys didn't bother to lock up there, even while working out-- they would just tuck a bit of paper towel through the lock hasp to indicate that the locker was taken. At first I thought that maybe they had noting of value in there, but then I discovered they would leave their wallet, house and car keys, etc. It really came down to a code of ethics-- they might tag property, distribute drugs, shoot each other in the street, or do other things we generally call "criminal," but messing with somebody's stuff at the gym is just so low, something no real man would ever do.

On the other hand, in the city that considers itself almost crime-free, there was a rampant credit-card and cash theft problem at an upscale gym location. (Yes, I know, you aren't supposed to bring valuables, but practical considerations don't leave you much choice sometimes.) Combination locks are popular, because there is no key to loose, but this is when I learned that most of the common models in the USA are almost as easy to open without the combination than with it. Sometimes they would actually steal your physical cards. When I tried to report this to the police, to get a report in case of possible identity theft problems later, the police refused, telling me that gym locker theft was not a "reportable incident." (Ahhh, now we know how they get that lowest crime rate in the nation statistic...)

More often, however, in the days before "chipped" cards, they would open you locker and make duplicates of the card's magnetic stripes, then put everything back. A very nice lady at the fraud department of Amex explained to me exactly how they do this, from opening the lock without damaging it, to reading the card data so they can make a duplicate, to photographing your driver's license so they know your zip code (used to authenticate some purchase, such as at gas pumps) and have a specimen of your signature. But they don't take anything physical, they put everything back and lock up again, so you have no way of immediately knowing what happened, giving them more time to go on a spending spree, unless the credit card fraud monitoring catches it. On at least two occasions, I've had my phone ring as I was leaving the gym, and it was the bank, asking if I was 300 miles away at a Best Buy in Las Vegas, buying a $5000 TV or some such thing. Took them less than an hour to email the card data, make a duplicate card in Vegas, and go shopping.

I work in the same delusional "low-crime" city as that gym location, which is not only right by my office, but had a couple of truly outstanding personal trainers, so I wanted to continue using it. The solution was simple-- I bought a lock that none of the upper-middle-class-white-collar-asshole crooks had ever seen before. I mail-ordered it from the website of a hardware store in the UK. While doing this, I discovered that in Europe, consumer locks are rated with a security level. The same store also sold the Master and other common brands found in the USA, which were labelled "unratable" I bought a cheap lock with a medium security rating. My theft problem stopped immediately, and has been gone for 5 years.

Wow! Where do you live? I always lock my stuff up with a standard combo lock and I’ve never had a problem with locker theft in the 30+ years I’ve been using gyms. I never leave my things unlocked even when I’m in the shower. I’m just not that trusting of a person. I believe an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. That being said, I’ve never heard clients or staff at my current gym complain that things have been stolen from their locker. Overall the city where I workout is a small city and generally has a low crime rate. Of course nowhere in the world is 100% crime free.
 
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Wow! Where do you live? I always lock my stuff up with a standard combo lock and I’ve never had a problem with locker theft in the 30+ years I’ve been using gyms. I never leave my things unlocked even when I’m in the shower. I’m just not that trusting of a person. I believe an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. That being said, I’ve never heard clients or staff at my current gym complain that things have been stolen from their locker. Overall the city where I workout is a small city and generally has a low crime rate. Of course nowhere in the world is 100% crime free.

Orange County, California. I live in a city with a so-so reputation, but is actually full of decent and honest people, and nothing bad ever happened to me in over 20 years. I work in a city that pretends to be Camelot, claims low crime, but constantly experience bad things there. It doesn't help that it is in the part of the county that attracts entitled assholes, many of which are miserable and seek redemption by doing things to make everyone else more unhappy then they are.
 

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Wow! Where do you live? I always lock my stuff up with a standard combo lock and I’ve never had a problem with locker theft in the 30+ years I’ve been using gyms. I never leave my things unlocked even when I’m in the shower. I’m just not that trusting of a person. I believe an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. That being said, I’ve never heard clients or staff at my current gym complain that things have been stolen from their locker. Overall the city where I workout is a small city and generally has a low crime rate. Of course nowhere in the world is 100% crime free.

Only once did I leave my locker in locked. Luckily my stuff was intact.
However my gym switched to programable lockers which you set the pass code when you close the door. You can also latch with a pad lock.
I’m a creature of habit, go to the gym at the same time, park in the same spot, and take the same locker. One day, I worked out, stripped down, wrapped a towel and hit sauna and showered. I went to my locker, punched the code, opened the door and the locker was empty. I freaked out! Tried the lockers on either side. Nothing. Fuck! Here I am in just a towel and all my shit was gone. I asked a guy to hit up one of the attendant. He opened the next locker with the master gadget. Nothing. I was freaked out. Some older guy stark naked said to me, you were on the next row of lockers. I saw you when you were changing. Voila! I was relieved. I thanked him again. He said he sees me all the time in the shower and changing and thought it was unusual I took a different locker.
i didn’t realize I had someone who noticed me!
 
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Orange County, California. I live in a city with a so-so reputation, but is actually full of decent and honest people, and nothing bad ever happened to me in over 20 years. I work in a city that pretends to be Camelot, claims low crime, but constantly experience bad things there. It doesn't help that it is in the part of the county that attracts entitled assholes, many of which are miserable and seek redemption by doing things to make everyone else more unhappy then they are.

The worst problem I've ever had to deal with in the locker room are the weirdos who camp out in there for hours (never exercise) and ogle every guy that walks by who isn't over 60, or try to get inappropriately and unnecessarily close to other guys while naked or changing (I hoofed one old fat disgusting fuck in the steam room for doing this a couple of years ago). I once saw a fight break out in the open shower between 2 guys. They were both being dicks TBH. Other than that, it's pretty vanilla in my locker room.
 
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Only once did I leave my locker in locked. Luckily my stuff was intact.
However my gym switched to programable lockers which you set the pass code when you close the door. You can also latch with a pad lock.
I’m a creature of habit, go to the gym at the same time, park in the same spot, and take the same locker. One day, I worked out, stripped down, wrapped a towel and hit sauna and showered. I went to my locker, punched the code, opened the door and the locker was empty. I freaked out! Tried the lockers on either side. Nothing. Fuck! Here I am in just a towel and all my shit was gone. I asked a guy to hit up one of the attendant. He opened the next locker with the master gadget. Nothing. I was freaked out. Some older guy stark naked said to me, you were on the next row of lockers. I saw you when you were changing. Voila! I was relieved. I thanked him again. He said he sees me all the time in the shower and changing and thought it was unusual I took a different locker.
i didn’t realize I had someone who noticed me!

Actually I think this is pretty common. Every gym I’ve belonged to I’ve used the same few lockers in the same bay of lockers. When I’d go at the same time, morning, during lunch or after work, I’d see the same guys and even guys I didn’t know would say, “Hey.” Whenever I’d have to use another bay of lockers it felt a little odd. I’m sure those guys around me noticed that I was in a different area of the locker room.

Part of this is creature of habit. Part of it is so I wouldn’t forget which locker I chose.
 
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