The Bashful Locker Room Male

[WilliamG]

I'm 65. My gym does not have much of a shower room. Most of us come dressed for the workout. Then leave. I walk to my gym so no need to change. But it is tempting to stroll thru one that has some space...

 

[BigMacattack]

I got bold today and went to the sauna with a small towel covering my cock. Nobody was in there except me but I am not there (sitting with my cock out) yet. Maybe next time. The majority of people wear towels even when the gym isn't busy. Not me in the pic but an example of how I was relaxing in the sauna.

I did it again today and a young guy joined me but he had a towel around his waist. I left before he did, with my ass out back to my locker.

 

[SilentButDeadly]

I don't want to be the creepy older guy, but this was ridiculous.

your entire post was creepy

 

[Marco86]

Worked out at gym in Europe. Mainly guys in the 25-35 age range early in the morning. Not one guy wrapped a twoel around his waist in the locker room, everyone walked naked to the sauna or gym, and sat naked in sauna. It was all totally relaxed and natural and non-sexual.

Worked out at a gym in San Francisco. Figured witht a large gay comminity and a gay friendly city it would be more relaxed in locker room. I waled naked to the empty sauna,sat naked on my towel. Three guys came in and all of them had towels wrapped around them! Oh well ...

 

[BigMacattack]

Worked out at gym in Europe. Mainly guys in the 25-35 age range early in the morning. Not one guy wrapped a twoel around his waist in the locker room, everyone walked naked to the sauna or gym, and sat naked in sauna. It was all totally relaxed and natural and non-sexual.

Worked out at a gym in San Francisco. Figured witht a large gay comminity and a gay friendly city it would be more relaxed in locker room. I waled naked to the empty sauna,sat naked on my towel. Three guys came in and all of them had towels wrapped around them! Oh well ...

Same thing at my gym. I have yet to see anyone walk naked to or from the showers or in the sauna. They have seen plenty of me. I throw a towel over my shoulder and act like I am in my own bathroom.

 

[dannyboy971]

Same thing at my gym. I have yet to see anyone walk naked to or from the showers or in the sauna. They have seen plenty of me. I throw a towel over my shoulder and act like I am in my own bathroom.

maybe they don't want gay men like you perving on them, have you ever thought of that?

 

[Marco86]

Not sure being respectfully observant is “perving”

 

[dannyboy971]

Not sure being respectfully observant is “perving”

you just said how disappointed you were that guys in the sauna had towels around them, why would that be if you didn't want to perv on their cocks?
and the guy i was responding to bragging about flashing his ass to a boy as he left the sauna, it is not a place to be a perv imo.

 

[BigMacattack]

maybe they don't want gay men like you perving on them, have you ever thought of that?

Dannyboy971 is a perfect name for you because grown ass men are comfortable with their bodies. Continue to towel dance Dannyboy.

 

[BigMacattack]

you just said how disappointed you were that guys in the sauna had towels around them, why would that be if you didn't want to perv on their cocks?
and the guy i was responding to bragging about flashing his ass to a boy as he left the sauna, it is not a place to be a perv

you just said how disappointed you were that guys in the sauna had towels around them, why would that be if you didn't want to perv on their cocks?
and the guy i was responding to bragging about flashing his ass to a boy as he left the sauna, it is not a place to be a perv imo.

Look at you...strange how "young guy" becomes boy to you. That would be creepy. Anybody in their 20s, 30s or 40s I consider younger. Also, I didn’t flash the guy, I just stood up and left the sauna. I covered my cock not my ass, which I consider a litter more respectful.

 

[dannyboy971]

Look at you...strange how "young guy" becomes boy to you. That would be creepy. Anybody in their 20s, 30s or 40s I consider younger. Also, I didn’t flash the guy, I just stood up and left the sauna. I covered my cock not my ass, which I consider a litter more respectful.

you go their to perv just admit it and it is creepy

 

[Electric blue]

Same thing at my gym. I have yet to see anyone walk naked to or from the showers or in the sauna. They have seen plenty of me. I throw a towel over my shoulder and act like I am in my own bathroom.

Why is this a problem , the gym where I go to has guys walking around naked , so far no one has tied any one to a bench and screwed their brains out , some say ,, how's it going and move on

 

[Thom Hewson]

Probably he suffers from internalized homophobia.

I would say he's not keeping anything inside at all. He's very wrongly venting on the gay vibe that Mr 51 was exuding without even knowing it because that's just who he is, an older gay gentleman very comfortable with himself. There might have been something happening unsaid here which caused him to feel hit upon... but I'm more likely to conclude just a coarse dude who has other fears as well like closed spaces or a need for excessive personal space in which case what the hell are you doing in there at all.

 

[web-shooter4]

Worked out at gym in Europe. Mainly guys in the 25-35 age range early in the morning. Not one guy wrapped a twoel around his waist in the locker room, everyone walked naked to the sauna or gym, and sat naked in sauna. It was all totally relaxed and natural and non-sexual.

Worked out at a gym in San Francisco. Figured witht a large gay comminity and a gay friendly city it would be more relaxed in locker room. I waled naked to the empty sauna,sat naked on my towel. Three guys came in and all of them had towels wrapped around them! Oh well ...

A lot of it is cultural differences.

I have several cousins who grew up in Finland and Switzerland and now live in the US.

I was a little surprised at a family reunion when they just casually changed into their swim suits in front of me outside next to the hot tub. Most Americans would have probably gone inside to the bathroom to change, but it was no big deal to them.

 

[QRS]

A lot of it is cultural differences.

I have several cousins who grew up in Finland and Switzerland and now live in the US.

I was a little surprised at a family reunion when they just casually changed into their swim suits in front of me outside next to the hot tub. Most Americans would have probably gone inside to the bathroom to change, but it was no big deal to them.

I lived in Germany for a few years. German men and women will change into swim suite in the open and not bat an eye. Europeans are very different than Americans!

 

[Electric blue]

I lived in Germany for a few years. German men and women will change into swim suite in the open and not bat an eye. Europeans are very different than Americans!

Yes , when it comes to any thing sex , here In The US 99% ot the people have their collective heads-up their asses ,,," wait . I'm so holy , let me kill off a bunch today " but don't show any T&A

 

[ILoveGames48]

During my years going to locker rooms / showers / anywhere else a lot of guys were naked .. I wasn’t shy at all.. never had been never will be..


Now I see the younger generation of guys cover their asses and cocks like they are ashamed of their bodies .. this has to be cause by certain things in their lives to teach them to be covered and all.. which triggers inside their minds that no one should see them naked ..


So to some people it may make a person a perv to try looking but there’s nothing wrong with the male form.. it’s a wonderful thing to look at ..

I say to these shy guys.. if home and live alone .. walk around house naked all time .. sooner you are not ashamed to see yourself walking around naked.. sooner it won’t bother you that others see you..

 

[deleted21414851]

Had a shower today at a local beach changing room. A bit of a mix of dudes showering with speedos on, some showering nude but covering their cocks with a face washer and then me and 3 other dudes were cocks out no worries talk. Even a younger dude came in and asked if naked showering was allowed as he had never stripped off before and I told him yep go for it. He was fucking excited and let it all hang out.

 

[Stephenmass]

Cell phones owned by others. Ask me how I know.

 

[BigMacattack]

I agree. I usually hit the gym in the late afternoon. At that time the gym isn't usually that busy but I am the only "towel over the shoulder " guy while everyone else wraps a towel around their waist. I used to be bashful but know I let my dick get some air moving between the showers, sauna and locker. I will have to check out the morning and lunch crowds to see if there is a difference.

Went to the gym this morning around 10 and did see a difference. Older members this time and the towels were over the shoulder and not around the waist. It seems to be true that the older you get, the less you stop caring. Carry on, Gents!