I’m currently taking my last semester in college. Although I’m excited to be earning my first college degree (associate’s degree), I’m feeling very overwhelmed at the moment. I’ve been going to college for 2 and a half years, with only taking a couple of semesters off, which was either because my finical aid didn’t go through or there were no classes I needed to take towards my degree during that semester.
I fell in love with college when I first started attending. I loved meeting new people on campus every semester, always having something new to learn, and most importantly, becoming trained in my field of study. But the closer I got to my degree, the more demanding my classes and coursework got, and the less of a personal life I had, honestly. I’m not going to say my hard work hasn’t paid off, because it really has. I’ve won more awards than I can count on my fingers and have been invited to official dinners hosted by the college to be acknowledged for my achievements. I have a GPA of 3.76 at the moment, which it may be a little less than that by time this semester is over to be honest. So, I’ve been busy and I’ve put my life on hold to work my ass off in college.
While attending school, I lost my girlfriend and the relationship ended really badly, lost my apartment that I loved (I couldn’t afford it on my own when we broke up), and was forced to move back in with my parents. I also haven’t had any luck finding a job. This summer, I worked at an internship without pay, and it was such a horrible experience, like most peoples are. I worked 5 days a week from July 9th until the weekend before the new semester started on September 4th. Now I’m working at the college and going to school full-time. I make $7.40 an hour and can only work 16.5 hours a week. Not a good paying job, and it will end when the semester is over in December.
Lately I’ve been really depressed, have lost a decent amount of weight, and I’m having all sorts of anxiety left and right. I feel that the things that I’ve had to put behind me to focus on my studies and to get my degree are finally catching back up with me. I’m not really over what had happened between my ex, I haven’t had the time to seek new relationships, and my friends have been missing in action, which most likely has something to do with me not having much time to hang out, and because they have their own life issues to deal with. So, I’m a lonely mess at the moment! And to be honest, I’m so tired of slaving away at homework and waking up to go to class on 3 to 4 hours of sleep. My life is well…taking off, yet going downhill at the same time. If that even makes sense.
I should be happy at this moment in my life, because I have so many accomplishments under my belt and I’m about to get my first degree! But the only thing I can think of is how I have to transfers to a four year college and earn my bachelor’s degree, but I’m so worn out! There is a huge part of me screaming to take a year off of school before I go back to get some of my personal problems in check. Get healthy, have some time to spend with my friends, seek new relationships, and to get a job so I can move the hell out of my parents’ house! After doing some research, most people don’t take year off after the first degree, and apparently it looks bad on your resume. *Shakes head*
A part of me feels…weak. Like why the hell can’t I just continue college like everybody else, or maybe like I’m just running away or something. Most people say to me when I bring this up, “Don’t do that, you’ll have a harder time going back!” I know I’ll go back, because I do love the college and I’m not finished. I’m just not in the right state of mind at the moment. I’m not happy, and even though I’ve made it through some tough life shit while going to school, it’s becoming harder to push this shit under the rug any longer. I need to get my life together!
This semester, I'm dreading my homework and going to school. Although, I do like my job even though the pay is bullshit. I don't really know what to do at the moment. I feel just stressed, pressured, and forced to do something my heart is telling me to take a break from, but my "professional" side of me is saying, "Man the fuck up, pussy boy. This is life!"
I fell in love with college when I first started attending. I loved meeting new people on campus every semester, always having something new to learn, and most importantly, becoming trained in my field of study. But the closer I got to my degree, the more demanding my classes and coursework got, and the less of a personal life I had, honestly. I’m not going to say my hard work hasn’t paid off, because it really has. I’ve won more awards than I can count on my fingers and have been invited to official dinners hosted by the college to be acknowledged for my achievements. I have a GPA of 3.76 at the moment, which it may be a little less than that by time this semester is over to be honest. So, I’ve been busy and I’ve put my life on hold to work my ass off in college.
While attending school, I lost my girlfriend and the relationship ended really badly, lost my apartment that I loved (I couldn’t afford it on my own when we broke up), and was forced to move back in with my parents. I also haven’t had any luck finding a job. This summer, I worked at an internship without pay, and it was such a horrible experience, like most peoples are. I worked 5 days a week from July 9th until the weekend before the new semester started on September 4th. Now I’m working at the college and going to school full-time. I make $7.40 an hour and can only work 16.5 hours a week. Not a good paying job, and it will end when the semester is over in December.
Lately I’ve been really depressed, have lost a decent amount of weight, and I’m having all sorts of anxiety left and right. I feel that the things that I’ve had to put behind me to focus on my studies and to get my degree are finally catching back up with me. I’m not really over what had happened between my ex, I haven’t had the time to seek new relationships, and my friends have been missing in action, which most likely has something to do with me not having much time to hang out, and because they have their own life issues to deal with. So, I’m a lonely mess at the moment! And to be honest, I’m so tired of slaving away at homework and waking up to go to class on 3 to 4 hours of sleep. My life is well…taking off, yet going downhill at the same time. If that even makes sense.
I should be happy at this moment in my life, because I have so many accomplishments under my belt and I’m about to get my first degree! But the only thing I can think of is how I have to transfers to a four year college and earn my bachelor’s degree, but I’m so worn out! There is a huge part of me screaming to take a year off of school before I go back to get some of my personal problems in check. Get healthy, have some time to spend with my friends, seek new relationships, and to get a job so I can move the hell out of my parents’ house! After doing some research, most people don’t take year off after the first degree, and apparently it looks bad on your resume. *Shakes head*
A part of me feels…weak. Like why the hell can’t I just continue college like everybody else, or maybe like I’m just running away or something. Most people say to me when I bring this up, “Don’t do that, you’ll have a harder time going back!” I know I’ll go back, because I do love the college and I’m not finished. I’m just not in the right state of mind at the moment. I’m not happy, and even though I’ve made it through some tough life shit while going to school, it’s becoming harder to push this shit under the rug any longer. I need to get my life together!
This semester, I'm dreading my homework and going to school. Although, I do like my job even though the pay is bullshit. I don't really know what to do at the moment. I feel just stressed, pressured, and forced to do something my heart is telling me to take a break from, but my "professional" side of me is saying, "Man the fuck up, pussy boy. This is life!"
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