Hi, this was posted on other forum some years ago.
I don't know why is no easy to be successful if you try learning it yourself, when it was very easy when DW taught.
Try and enjoy!
Darkwhite technique :
Dry orgasm while receive a blowjob
"Though I have always considered myself a talented head-giver, one of my previous partners changed my perceptions of oral sex forever!
Most guys believe that the most sensitive area of the cock is on the under-side of the shaft where it meets the head. There's no doubting that sucking cock while licking this area with your tongue is indeed very pleasurable, and can easily bring most men to ejaculation. However, as our purpose is to achieve orgasm without ejaculation, we need a different technique:
Laying on my back on the bed, I was thoroughly enjoying the headjob I was receiving.
"Getting close" he asked me?
"Ughh Huhh .. " I replied, feeling the pleasure building in my groin.
"Good", he replied, as he suddenly changed his position from sucking the under-side of my cock which I was enjoying so much. Instead, he began rubbing his tongue firmly
back and forth across the broad flat top-side of the head of my cock.
"Whooaah!" I let out a yelp! "Too sensitive! Stop!"
"Nuhh Uhhh", he replied, and continued rubbing his tongue forcefully across the top of my head.
"No, really, stop!" I cried, pushing his head away, "I can't stand it!"
It was much like the feeling of being held down forcefully and being tickled against your will.
He explained that his ex-girlfriend taught him this technique, and that I should try to relax and accept the feelings, instead of fighting and resisting them. It might take some practice, but once I achieved it, it would be like nothing else I had ever experienced!
I was sceptical to say the least! How could this relentless tickling be considered pleasure? But I agreed to keep an open mind and keep trying for as long as I could stand it .. which wasn't very long!
Over the next week or two, he tried this technique on me several more times, without much success. Sometimes, he was relentless at it, sucking my cock in the traditional fashion, building up the pleasure, then without warning, switching to his tongue firmly rubbing across the head, leaving me literally panting my lungs out trying to resist the sensations, before he'd give me a reprise by swallowing my cock deep into his mouth again.
He'd switch back and forth between pleasure and unbearable sensation in this way, time and time again, until ..
I don't know how, but suddenly, by focusing on the sensations and relaxing my body, WOW!!! I can't explain it any other way, other than to say that I felt one long, continuous orgasm reach out and fill my entire body which lasted as long as he kept licking the head, in wave after wave of intense pleasure! Even after he stopped, I was still filled by tingling energy, which took a short while to dissipate. It was like I was somewhere else, in a trance-like state. It was incredible! And after I'd tasted it once, I definitely wanted more!
More was not a problem, for even though I'd just experienced perhaps the most powerful orgasm of my life, I hadn't ejacluated! So I was ready to jump right back in and experience it again! In fact, throughout this entire head-licking episode, not once did I feel even close to ejaculating .. orgasming yes, ejaculating no. It was only whenever he switched back to traditional cock-sucking that I was ever in danger of ejaculating.
So, after I'd experienced it once, I instinctively knew how to re-focus and achieve it again. It is a mental state as much as a physical one. And in no time, we were both serving each other continuous multiple orgasms 69-style, only coming up for air long enough to moan in pleasure, before diving right back onto each other again!
We could maintain this state for extend periods at a time, often ½ hour or more without a break! I clearly remember one time we were locked in 69 giving each other continuous orgasms for over 3 hours!
These are no ordinary orgasms either: they aren't localised to your groin, rather they spread out to energise your entire body! This is not an unusual achievement.
I have since passed on this technique to other guys I have met, and most recently to my current boyfriend.
As with my own experience, some guys need some practice, patience and repeated attempts to achieve this;
As with my own experience, some guys need some practice, patience and repeated attempts to achieve this; while others, to my surprise, responded the instant my tongue rubbed their cock-head!
As a rule, uncircumcised guys tend to be more sensitive than circumcised guys, so uncircumcised guys may find this technique waaay too sensitive at first. Meanwhile, circumcised guys may need repeated attempts to feel anything at all! But my advice is to be patient, relax, and don't give up. After all, you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain! I've personally experienced even the most sensitive guy discover how to focus and relax into this; as well as the most unresponsive guy suddenly surprise himself with these sensations! It may not be achievable by everyone, but it is certainly achievable by a great many more than knew it were even possible.
A couple of important tips, though:
breathing is very important in order to control the sensations; and
keeping your legs spread (feet together if you like) helps prevent any need to ejaculating; if you lay with your legs stretched out together, however, you're much more liable to ejaculate.
It also helps to communicate with your partner when you're getting close, so he can ease off, or change his technique.
Giving the tongue-rubbing isn't as difficult as you might think. Having a firm, strong tongue helps, but often it takes much less effort than a regular cock-sucking.
You only need to stimulate the head with your tongue, you don't even have to take the whole
news for those facing a monster cock .. you can give your guy extreme pleasure, without giving your tonsils a beating!
Though women can certainly use this technique on their men (who will be eternally grateful!), I believe that true exhilaration occurs when two men can perform it on each other!
It is a talent and experience that will bond the two of you together.
Once you have experienced it, you'll wonder how you ever enjoyed sex without it?
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