The Best Blowjob Techniques

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...even after cumming, your partner needs to continue to go down on you until you can't take it any longer
I can really vouch for this technique and I've only ever experienced it from other men. I have a masseur/suckbud friend who always carries on sucking and licking after I've cum. At first I wanted to push him away, but he stays on me and I'm now conditioned to expect it. Being sucked after orgasm is just mind blowing. When he does it, my legs shake, belly spasms, and I usually whimper out loud in pleasure. Have I sold it?? ;)
 
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Lots of great tips and feedback here. Especially how every guy and every cock is different. Ask your feeder before you start what they generally like, or want more of while you're sucking them. Or tell them to be verbal and instruct you while you're sucking. And for sure find out what they need done, to make them cum.

One other major detail for any good blowjob (and especially a deepthroating) is:
Determining the curve of the cock and where you're positioned to suck it.

Curves down = top stands or sits, you face the guy forward, your head height is at his thighs
Curves up = top is on his back, you're in a 69 position so you're facing his feet
Curves left or right = top stands, sits or is on his back, as long as you're facing the curve
No curve at all = face the cock in any position you want

Essentially what you're trying to achieve is whatever creates a downward curve.

Oh, and for those who dare to do "head off the bed" (see below):
You're best with no curve, or a downward curve.
An upward curve at that angle is just totally opposite of a natural cock-to-throat fit.

Happy suckin' fellas! ;)

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Hi, this was posted on other forum some years ago.
I don't know why is no easy to be successful if you try learning it yourself, when it was very easy when DW taught.
Try and enjoy!


Darkwhite technique :

Dry orgasm while receive a blowjob


"Though I have always considered myself a talented head-giver, one of my previous partners changed my perceptions of oral sex forever!

Most guys believe that the most sensitive area of the cock is on the under-side of the shaft where it meets the head. There's no doubting that sucking cock while licking this area with your tongue is indeed very pleasurable, and can easily bring most men to ejaculation. However, as our purpose is to achieve orgasm without ejaculation, we need a different technique:

Laying on my back on the bed, I was thoroughly enjoying the headjob I was receiving.
"Getting close" he asked me?

"Ughh Huhh .. " I replied, feeling the pleasure building in my groin.

"Good", he replied, as he suddenly changed his position from sucking the under-side of my cock which I was enjoying so much. Instead, he began rubbing his tongue firmly
back and forth across the broad flat top-side of the head of my cock.

"Whooaah!" I let out a yelp! "Too sensitive! Stop!"

"Nuhh Uhhh", he replied, and continued rubbing his tongue forcefully across the top of my head.

"No, really, stop!" I cried, pushing his head away, "I can't stand it!"

It was much like the feeling of being held down forcefully and being tickled against your will.

He explained that his ex-girlfriend taught him this technique, and that I should try to relax and accept the feelings, instead of fighting and resisting them. It might take some practice, but once I achieved it, it would be like nothing else I had ever experienced!

I was sceptical to say the least! How could this relentless tickling be considered pleasure? But I agreed to keep an open mind and keep trying for as long as I could stand it .. which wasn't very long!

Over the next week or two, he tried this technique on me several more times, without much success. Sometimes, he was relentless at it, sucking my cock in the traditional fashion, building up the pleasure, then without warning, switching to his tongue firmly rubbing across the head, leaving me literally panting my lungs out trying to resist the sensations, before he'd give me a reprise by swallowing my cock deep into his mouth again.

He'd switch back and forth between pleasure and unbearable sensation in this way, time and time again, until ..

I don't know how, but suddenly, by focusing on the sensations and relaxing my body, WOW!!! I can't explain it any other way, other than to say that I felt one long, continuous orgasm reach out and fill my entire body which lasted as long as he kept licking the head, in wave after wave of intense pleasure! Even after he stopped, I was still filled by tingling energy, which took a short while to dissipate. It was like I was somewhere else, in a trance-like state. It was incredible! And after I'd tasted it once, I definitely wanted more!

More was not a problem, for even though I'd just experienced perhaps the most powerful orgasm of my life, I hadn't ejacluated! So I was ready to jump right back in and experience it again! In fact, throughout this entire head-licking episode, not once did I feel even close to ejaculating .. orgasming yes, ejaculating no. It was only whenever he switched back to traditional cock-sucking that I was ever in danger of ejaculating.

So, after I'd experienced it once, I instinctively knew how to re-focus and achieve it again. It is a mental state as much as a physical one. And in no time, we were both serving each other continuous multiple orgasms 69-style, only coming up for air long enough to moan in pleasure, before diving right back onto each other again!

We could maintain this state for extend periods at a time, often ½ hour or more without a break! I clearly remember one time we were locked in 69 giving each other continuous orgasms for over 3 hours!

These are no ordinary orgasms either: they aren't localised to your groin, rather they spread out to energise your entire body! This is not an unusual achievement.
I have since passed on this technique to other guys I have met, and most recently to my current boyfriend.
As with my own experience, some guys need some practice, patience and repeated attempts to achieve this;

As with my own experience, some guys need some practice, patience and repeated attempts to achieve this; while others, to my surprise, responded the instant my tongue rubbed their cock-head!

As a rule, uncircumcised guys tend to be more sensitive than circumcised guys, so uncircumcised guys may find this technique waaay too sensitive at first. Meanwhile, circumcised guys may need repeated attempts to feel anything at all! But my advice is to be patient, relax, and don't give up. After all, you have nothing to lose, and everything to gain! I've personally experienced even the most sensitive guy discover how to focus and relax into this; as well as the most unresponsive guy suddenly surprise himself with these sensations! It may not be achievable by everyone, but it is certainly achievable by a great many more than knew it were even possible.

A couple of important tips, though:

breathing is very important in order to control the sensations; and
keeping your legs spread (feet together if you like) helps prevent any need to ejaculating; if you lay with your legs stretched out together, however, you're much more liable to ejaculate.

It also helps to communicate with your partner when you're getting close, so he can ease off, or change his technique.

Giving the tongue-rubbing isn't as difficult as you might think. Having a firm, strong tongue helps, but often it takes much less effort than a regular cock-sucking.
You only need to stimulate the head with your tongue, you don't even have to take the whole

news for those facing a monster cock .. you can give your guy extreme pleasure, without giving your tonsils a beating!

Though women can certainly use this technique on their men (who will be eternally grateful!), I believe that true exhilaration occurs when two men can perform it on each other!

It is a talent and experience that will bond the two of you together.

Once you have experienced it, you'll wonder how you ever enjoyed sex without it?

"
I would love to met other guy who be able to give this bj
 
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Does anyone have any techniques or advice for blowing guys with upward curves? Im dating a dude with a thick cut dick that curves up and has a big head! I'm always gagging! I can deepthroat thick 8 inchers but the shape of his dick ive never experienced so its been difficult!
 
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I have been giving blowjobs to my gay sexual partners almost like Vander does in the attached video, and I have received praise from my former sexual partners for giving them a good head. You will notice in the video that Vander used a combination of lip and tongue techniques sucking his partner, Ronin. ;)

This technique requires a bit of rhythm for it to work. In an alternating fashion, I glide my lips down my partner's shaft about five times, and on the last one down, I roll my tongue three times around the cock's head. I would vary these numbers to increase the sensation. The important thing is that you would need to give the cock head time to recover. Doing otherwise is a common mistake amongst the guys I've experienced receiving a BJ.

Oh! Did I mention that I don't use my hand? :blush:

I would only deep throat only once or twice, sometimes never. The guys that I gave head to were happy as it is with how I suck their cocks. However, I would warn that I should be in control. I do make them cum just by sucking them.

I don't make sounds when I suck a guy - those funny sounds are a turn-off, to be honest. You don't need to work hard to satisfy your partner. An enormous girth could be a problem, but the trick is always to check your partner's physical and verbal responses. Most of the time, I don't end up with a teary eye. It's all in the technique + the love you give to your partner's cock.

Unfortunately, though, most of the partners that I had sex with were not able to reciprocate the same way I gave head. They're like Ronin in the video. o_O Watch mark 6:25.

How about you? What are your BJ techniques? :blush:

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Pretty similar. Tongue and lips. I do suck but it's just part. The first time ever I just did what I thought I would like and that seemed to work well. I can be a bit naughty when they cum and want to be let go but I keep at it and make them squirm.:p But hey, I love sucking it 'till the last drop!:yum
 
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It doesn't. I'm not quite where you are on taking your throat with force, but I am really understanding why you say that because slowly that's the kind of man pleaser I'm becoming. I feel I get more pleasure out of pleasing men than I get from being pleased, and somehow there is a LOT of pleasure in that.
Excellent! I’m a very physical guy—look strong and stronger than I look. Was maybe too careful …….well, as I let instinct kick in I discovered that me being more dominant, more controlling/demanding—-my cocksuckers absolutely bloomed!
 

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Excellent! I’m a very physical guy—look strong and stronger than I look. Was maybe too careful …….well, as I let instinct kick in I discovered that me being more dominant, more controlling/demanding—-my cocksuckers absolutely bloomed!
I believe that is what sub cocksuckers definitely want. They are addicted to sucking cock and there's a lot to be said about that. I believe for most anyway, when addiction is present dominance and forcefulness only lend a hand to making their service to a man's cock only that much better. My alpha top is so fucking hung, and I have no complaints really, but he is not dominant and is non-verbal. It would set me on fire if he were more dominant and demanding of me pleasing him.
 

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Yup! Took me a long time —-still learning.
I believe that is what sub cocksuckers definitely want. They are addicted to sucking cock and there's a lot to be said about that. I believe for most anyway, when addiction is present dominance and forcefulness only lend a hand to making their service to a man's cock only that much better. My alpha top is so fucking hung, and I have no complaints really, but he is not dominant and is non-verbal. It would set me on fire if he were more dominant and demanding of me pleasing him.
one of my life’s basics Is:”hurt no one”
so I tempered my urges and instincts with cocksuckers.

now, I follow them. New cocksuckers.
I’ll rub cock and balls all over their face—I want them imprinted on my scent.
and tell them why, I’m rough doing it and quite verbal
often there’s strings of precum before I’m done cock slapping them

comanche Indians were superb horsemen, could basically dominate a horse in one or two rides
new cocksuckers I don’t handle with kid gloves anymore—if there’s gloves involved :) they’ll be rough leather and used aggressively

i tell them what I want, I praise and acknowledge them—-and make my expectations that they’ll be better next time plain

if they’re invited back, there’s often new knee pads, collar and leash——it’s about dominance and control

the quicker and more I take control, the more submissive and better cocksuckers they become
 

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Yup! Took me a long time —-still learning.

one of my life’s basics Is:”hurt no one”
so I tempered my urges and instincts with cocksuckers.

now, I follow them. New cocksuckers.
I’ll rub cock and balls all over their face—I want them imprinted on my scent.
and tell them why, I’m rough doing it and quite verbal
often there’s strings of precum before I’m done cock slapping them

comanche Indians were superb horsemen, could basically dominate a horse in one or two rides
new cocksuckers I don’t handle with kid gloves anymore—if there’s gloves involved :) they’ll be rough leather and used aggressively

i tell them what I want, I praise and acknowledge them—-and make my expectations that they’ll be better next time plain

if they’re invited back, there’s often new knee pads, collar and leash——it’s about dominance and control

the quicker and more I take control, the more submissive and better cocksuckers they become
Boned..
 

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I can really vouch for this technique and I've only ever experienced it from other men. I have a masseur/suckbud friend who always carries on sucking and licking after I've cum. At first I wanted to push him away, but he stays on me and I'm now conditioned to expect it. Being sucked after orgasm is just mind blowing. When he does it, my legs shake, belly spasms, and I usually whimper out loud in pleasure. Have I sold it?? ;)
A good cocksucker will realize how super sensitized you are now. An outstanding one will be totally in tune with ‘ his ‘ cock !
after a bit, I like to be almost picked up by my cock (it’s an Eastern training thing) my cock will resist—but knowledgeable cocksucker will persist.
 

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I have been giving blowjobs to my gay sexual partners almost like Vander does in the attached video, and I have received praise from my former sexual partners for giving them a good head. You will notice in the video that Vander used a combination of lip and tongue techniques sucking his partner, Ronin. ;)

This technique requires a bit of rhythm for it to work. In an alternating fashion, I glide my lips down my partner's shaft about five times, and on the last one down, I roll my tongue three times around the cock's head. I would vary these numbers to increase the sensation. The important thing is that you would need to give the cock head time to recover. Doing otherwise is a common mistake amongst the guys I've experienced receiving a BJ.

Oh! Did I mention that I don't use my hand? :blush:

I would only deep throat only once or twice, sometimes never. The guys that I gave head to were happy as it is with how I suck their cocks. However, I would warn that I should be in control. I do make them cum just by sucking them.

I don't make sounds when I suck a guy - those funny sounds are a turn-off, to be honest. You don't need to work hard to satisfy your partner. An enormous girth could be a problem, but the trick is always to check your partner's physical and verbal responses. Most of the time, I don't end up with a teary eye. It's all in the technique + the love you give to your partner's cock.

Unfortunately, though, most of the partners that I had sex with were not able to reciprocate the same way I gave head. They're like Ronin in the video. o_O Watch mark 6:25.

How about you? What are your BJ techniques? :blush:

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Practice
 

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First off your partner has to love doing it (my wife does). He/she has to swallow (my wife does and enjoys every drop) and finally, even after cumming, your partner needs to continue to go down on you until you can't take it any longer (again, my wife passes that test). There are also those times when I want to beat off into my wife's mouth rather than her continuing to jack me off (there are also times where she wants me to as well), and she is all for it.
You`re describing heaven on earth ribbyboy...glad for ya, congrats...great description...whew!
 

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Lots of great tips and feedback here. Especially how every guy and every cock is different. Ask your feeder before you start what they generally like, or want more of while you're sucking them. Or tell them to be verbal and instruct you while you're sucking. And for sure find out what they need done, to make them cum.

One other major detail for any good blowjob (and especially a deepthroating) is:
Determining the curve of the cock and where you're positioned to suck it.

Curves down = top stands or sits, you face the guy forward, your head height is at his thighs
Curves up = top is on his back, you're in a 69 position so you're facing his feet
Curves left or right = top stands, sits or is on his back, as long as you're facing the curve
No curve at all = face the cock in any position you want

Essentially what you're trying to achieve is whatever creates a downward curve.

Oh, and for those who dare to do "head off the bed" (see below):
You're best with no curve, or a downward curve.
An upward curve at that angle is just totally opposite of a natural cock-to-throat fit.

Happy suckin' fellas! ;)

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I always love deepthroating.
I love to be throat fucked while on my knees.
A gentle approach never gives me the satisfaction that a guy inserting his entire manhood in your throat and cheeks give you, while you are sitting on your knees face down knowing he has all power over you and uses you as his pleasure tool.

Deepthroating is something that gives me a feeling of submission no other blowjob technique can ever compete with.

But the guy needs to look very alpha for this to work.
Very tall, very muscular and very dominant. I hate it when he cares about my pleasure. I prefer for him to take what he wants without permission.

Hope this doesn't sound too weird.

Samantha.
Well I'm a male cocksucker cum slut. However, we both agree 100% on our love of deepthroating a large cock, and being sexually dominated like a slut by an aggressive alpha male when giving a blowjob! I also agree that for that experience to really work for me as a cocksucker, then my feeder has to be a well-endowed and very masculine alpha male. For me there's just something absolutely amazing, intensely happy, and very sexually satisfying in being treated as a cocksucker like that. It's difficult to explain that intense sense of happiness and sexual satisfaction to someone who is not a cocksucker like me. That's exactly why giving other men blowjobs and doing kinky things with their cum is honestly my favorite type of sex by far!