The best sex ever that will not happen ever...

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  1. D_Ellerby Eatsprick

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    Has anyone ever shared such an intense oh-my-god sexual attraction with someone who is your almost exact sexual match. And let's say the sexual chemistry is perfect between the two of you and the two of you KNOW that you are destined to have the best sex ever... and despite all that powerful sexual attraction / chemistry / tension... the sex can not happen for such reason(s)?

    If you knew that the two of you were destined to have the best sexual experience that likely would not ever happen...would it not frustrate you ? (Granted, the sex still could happen if both people wanted it to but were constrained by social / moral / personal values)
     
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    Oh yeah, been there and its a horrible place. All i can say is Masturbation helps fusteration
     
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    Yes. The difference between you and I is that I (we) ignored the "constraints" and the sex was everything we thought it would be and then some. We got together a few times, then parted ways due to our "constraints". We know inside we're a total match but our life paths are well underway and so we must live them apart.
     
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    a one way attraction sure, who hasn't

    a mutual thing? twice, once was love the other was just an instant BANG but there was alot of eye contact talking, playfulness and even an american beauty breast exposure moment, but thats it..... the lady is right masturbation helps
     
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    How does the song go?

    "Have you ever needed someone so bad?"
     
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    Quoting hair metal bands.. I LOVE YOU
     
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    yah I've been there
     
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    If you knew that the two of you were destined to have the best sexual experience that likely would not ever happen...would it not frustrate you ? (Granted, the sex still could happen if both people wanted it to but were constrained by social / moral / personal values)[/QUOTE]

    Wow, that's a really intense post......I can't really identify with your situation, the closest thing I can think of has been illicit one off or brief encounters that couldn't be repeated......I can think of a couple that left me feeling empty....hollow that it was over.

    Could you tell us a little more about your situation?
     
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    I don't think so. I don't quite see how I would know that someone is my sexual match without having had sex with her.
     
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    I've experienced it. Next time I think I'll just get my foot caught in a bear trap and chew it off coyote-style to escape. Far more fun.
     
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    Dirty messages, texts, conversations, shared likes and dislikes. When it all sounds perfect but it isn't ever going to eventuate into anything more then verbal foreplay
     
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    Oh, no question it can seem that way... but the proof is in the fucking, and I've been let down by big talkers in the past.
     
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    Oh, now I get it. Yes, I have been there. I remember, after a night being with her, my buddy looked at me the next day with a half smile. I said, "Nope."

    Funny, we knew exactly what the other was thinking.

    And it never did happen, ever. That was a first for me. I have never had a girl do all that stuff and then not give it up. WTF?
     
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    Oh baby, not only can I quote them, I can play them on guitar. 80's hair metal rules!!!! That whole cycle should be making a comeback anyday now because things tend to go in 20 year cycles. I cant wait!!!!:cool:

    Firehouse
    Bon Jovi
    Winger
    Warrent
    White Lion
    Great White
    White Snake
    Poisen
    Faster Pussycat
    Mr. Big
    Cinderella
    Motley Crue
    Kix
    Europe
    Scorpions
    Bad English

    Fuck, I could keep going. And I am in my mid 30's.
     
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    Mr. Big!!!

    I'm not the only one... :biggrin1: lol.

    As for the topic at hand, I don't know how I would know if I was sexually compatible with someone without having sex with them.

    And most of my sexual experiences have been...restrained. With shy, timid and inexperienced/'hung up' women.
     
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    I was furtunate enough to be able to act on the feelings i had with this other person and we had the most amazing sex. I have tried to duplicate the intensity with other people but it will never be as good as it was with that one person.
     
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    Yeah. This has happened a few times. Man, the sparks are flying and the tension in the air is so thick you know you'll both explode if you come in contact. It aways seems to happen with the untouchable ones. They are married or in and committed relationship, or I am, or it's a professional situation and you know things will just get messy. How to deal with it?? Nothing to do... just move on.
     
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    i think ive had it, but that said it might have just been me. we both want/ed it, but im now committed and so is she. oh well, best to think of what you have.
     
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    Been there - the frustration totally screws with your brain :sad:
     
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