The best time for sex

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Maybe someone should check one of those presentations where they show the hormones deployed at the different times of a day, and we can get a hold on why sex feels great in the afternoon, is best possible in the morning etc etc. Okay, maybe not for the last, I know there's a hormone boost some time in the early morning, but this afternoon thing is something new to me.

One more interesting thing: I said sex mellows me out and makes my concentration suck in the afternoon. When I've had sex then, usually I stare at the ceiling or doze until long after the guy is gone, then drag my butt to the kitchen to satisfy my other needs, but usually end up eating something cold because my interest in cooking is gone by the time I see the pans, so I stow them away again. I try to watch the news, but after some seconds my mind is somewhere else again. Try to catch up on some work, but sifting thrhough the papers usually gets me down again. It takes me four hours at least until I'm half-way back again.

On the other hand, sex at night is like excedrine. When I've had a guy over and have had sex, I am usually so pumped with energy, when he's gone, i can focus on work better than any given daytime. That is, unless I'm too worked over by the sex, but generally it's true. I don't know where this comes from, but find it an interesting thing. Same activity, different times, different effects.
 

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gg42 said:
Well, I'm a guy, so wood peaks in the morning, but:

Sex with a huge buildup is great - by definition that is at night.
Sex when you wake up at 2 AM and she is awake and wet is cool - you both want it urgently. I've had women orgasm within seconds of being awakened!
The best sex I've had is early night, despite the sex drive being low - 2 hours of foreplay is ideal - 4 hours is too much!

I think im a woman rabit...im always wanting urgent and have no patiente for too much foreplays...i can imagine me having to wait more than 15 min to being penetrated and i do not last long too...

Man for me have to foreplay with me during the day- teasing me and my mind- while we are apart because when he is with me i want him inside...and he has to have a good standing power and be very hard because is not only because i like quick he has to cum quick...no way Jose...its just the oposite!

People i have to learn to enjoy slow sex...i trully have to learn do sessions slow ....:rolleyes:

:confused: How can i learn to enjoy that ?
 

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ClaireTalon said:
Maybe someone should check one of those presentations where they show the hormones deployed at the different times of a day, and we can get a hold on why sex feels great in the afternoon, is best possible in the morning etc etc. Okay, maybe not for the last, I know there's a hormone boost some time in the early morning, but this afternoon thing is something new to me.

One more interesting thing: I said sex mellows me out and makes my concentration suck in the afternoon. When I've had sex then, usually I stare at the ceiling or doze until long after the guy is gone, then drag my butt to the kitchen to satisfy my other needs, but usually end up eating something cold because my interest in cooking is gone by the time I see the pans, so I stow them away again. I try to watch the news, but after some seconds my mind is somewhere else again. Try to catch up on some work, but sifting thrhough the papers usually gets me down again. It takes me four hours at least until I'm half-way back again.

On the other hand, sex at night is like excedrine. When I've had a guy over and have had sex, I am usually so pumped with energy, when he's gone, i can focus on work better than any given daytime. That is, unless I'm too worked over by the sex, but generally it's true. I don't know where this comes from, but find it an interesting thing. Same activity, different times, different effects.

Well, fine. At the risk of sounding desperate, did I tell you I can cook? and it really doesn't matter when...
 

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HickBoy said:
Practice, practice, and more practice...

Hehehe...Thanks Hickboy!

But the problem is to find a man that really really is patiente and enjoy foreplay...because most man that i had seems that they learn to do it slow to please women...and when they find out im aroused fast and enjoy penetration and et...here he goes urgently with me... :post:

But anyways im gonna keep praticing....oh yes!:tongue:
 

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There's something about having sex for a third time that rings my bell (making it better than the first two times), so whenever I can get started so we have time to get to three, that's my best time.
 

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HickBoy said:
Well, fine. At the risk of sounding desperate, did I tell you I can cook? and it really doesn't matter when...

Do I have to paint a number of pimples on my face, and a big fat wart on my crotch before you stop coming on to me?!? ;-)

Now tell me why that difference is there!
 

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Gisella said:
Hehehe...Thanks Hickboy!

But the problem is to find a man that really really is patiente and enjoy foreplay...because most man that i had seems that they learn to do it slow to please women...and when they find out im aroused fast and enjoy penetration and et...here he goes urgently with me... :post:

But anyways im gonna keep praticing....oh yes!:tongue:

I'm known as the human tackling dummy!!!:smile:
 

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In practical terms, the best time for sex is when you both have the time, the energy, and want to do it! :biggrin1:

I will happily have sex with the woman I'm with at any time of the day or night, but I do prefer the morning, as I seem to get extra hard, extra fast, in the morning. Yes, even after emptying my bladder. :tongue: Extra hard usualy means I'm also maxed out size-wise, so that can add to the proceedings too.

I've had fantastic sex morning, noon and night, but just not all in the same day (yet!) I love weekend mornings as there is the potential there for multiple rounds and I've never had too much sex yet. I also love foreplay, so having extra time available is a good thing.

I've only had a few experiences with waking up in the middle of the night /early morning and going at it. Those times were fantastic, but usually once asleep, we've stayed asleep.

Evening sex is also great as others have mentioned the build up that can occur by teasing/flirting with each other during the day or early evening. Late night sex after a long day at work or whatever is still good (99% of all sex is good!) but tired people doesn't make for the best experience.

As for afternoon sex, it is most likely going to be on a weekend, or while on vacation together. I've had great experiences in the afternoon as well.
I don't think I've suffered the 'funk' that you seem to get with afternoon sex Claire. Maybe you need round two (or three, or four) to get you going again.:wink:

So, long story short: I'll have sex at any time of the day or night you want it ladies! :biggrin1: (with a slight preference for mornings.)
 

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LapDog...U are the man: always ready !!! Hmmmm....:cool:

A big 10 for your performance !!! :fing02:
 

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lapdog2001 said:
In practical terms, the best time for sex is when you both have the time, the energy, and want to do it! :biggrin1:

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I've had fantastic sex morning, noon and night, but just not all in the same day (yet!) I love weekend mornings as there is the potential there for multiple rounds and I've never had too much sex yet. I also love foreplay, so having extra time available is a good thing.

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As for afternoon sex, it is most likely going to be on a weekend, or while on vacation together. I've had great experiences in the afternoon as well.
I don't think I've suffered the 'funk' that you seem to get with afternoon sex Claire. Maybe you need round two (or three, or four) to get you going again.:wink:<.>

I guess I have to remember that, but usually I never have less than two go's with a guy, and still I'm down. Guess I have to try to squeeze the one or other lap de plus out of a lover ;-) Well, now that I'm fully integrated in the job world again, I only very rarely have sex in the afternoon. I guess you'd have liked to help me out with it? ;-)

Anyone here has experience with business lunches that require drinking a bit more alcohol than usual, and found it hard to get back to work afterwards? Maybe that's the best picture I can give you for the "Funk", as LapDog puts it.

Sex in the middle of the night can actually be very hot too, I agree with that. But it takes some to get me awake at night, usually I have a very tight and fitful sleep.
 

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ClaireTalon said:
It doesn't always have to be evening/night, doesn't it? I admit that sex in the course of the day gives some difficulties, for example if you're at work, but just imagine you have a free day.

I have found out that sex in the afternoon mellows me out so I won't be able to get anything done properly for the rest of the day, whereas in the morning (early or late), it gives me a surge of energy I can run off for the rest of the day. Funny, isn't it?

During my short time as retiree, I have had that often: Male visitor, early afternoon, some sex, and afterwards I could spend hours looking at the ceiling, or if I was up, I couldn't focus on what I was doing any longer. Not because my thoughts still were in bed, I'd found it hard to focus my thoughts on anything, it was a state maybe like I was drunk. Albeit, sex in the afternoon feels best, I think.

So, who can relate to similar experiences, and what time is the best for sex, in your opinion?


PS: I know three, four, five times the day, morning, noon, evening, night and all between is best, so save that response for the fun category! ;-)
Hi Claire, for me is the same. Sex made on the morning transform me on a totally charged battery, while on the afternoon i became "drunk", altought i prefer during this moment of the day, cause usually during the afternoon i am more active. An other moment that makes me very active is the night... When i have finished, i don't need to sleep at long to feel myself relassed. And when i wake up, i want to do sex again... and at that point is morning again! Eheheh...:biggrin1: