The big deal about kissing?

[Enid]

An hour long make-out session on the couch gets me wetter than a rainforest.

 

[blutrane]

Not gonna lie, Enid, that's incredibly hot.

 

[vergax]

i am not a "contact" person on a daily basis, whenever i kiss friends, my kiss goes to the air.
But when i am into some sex date, kissing is ineludible, i get rock hard by kissing and I do like foreplay in all senses before i finally penetrate my desired women.

 

[Fleur]

An hour long make-out session on the couch gets me wetter than a rainforest.

Me too...I love it. :redface:

 

[Fleur]

As Banister's and Sub already illuded to, usually the lack of wanting to kiss(as with OP) is an indication that the relationship is just physical.

Thats not 100%. Im sure some love their spouse and just dont like kissing. But this isnt the norm.
If a female here announced today she hated to kiss, it'd be a first for me.

I have never met a women that hated to kiss someone they were in love with.
KEY: IN LOVE WITH

Yes, I hated kissing my ex...he also rarely kissed me during sex. Kissing was always a chore to him. I can remember several times we went through sex without any kissing. It was awful...and believe me I tried kissing him and talking to him about it. I think lack of kissing in a relationship or passionless kissing is a major sign the intimacy and love is gone from a relationship and the relationship is not healthy.

There's a lot of intimacy in kissing. There has to be feelings (to me) in order to kiss passionately during sex and even just while making out. To me, fucking is purely physical, doesn't usually involve kissing, if any. Kissing for me is what makes sex really really amazing. I've easily fallen more in love with a guy when we had sex just by the way he kissed me, held me, kissed me some more. Kissed me after he went down on me, kissed me after I went down on him, kissed me while fucking me...etc. It's what makes just fucking cross over into amazing love making. I'd take that over "just fucking" any day.

And I agree...a few thrusts while kissing me drives me nuts and usually makes me cum.

 

[hud01]

not gonna lie, enid, that's incredibly hot.

+100000

 

[ixamxtrouble]

Kissing is so important in having a good relationship ! and a healthy one too

and its FUN! ! !

oh and it makes sex even hotter & more intimate

I have had 2 other serious boyfriends and they did not like kissing, kissing was only in the beginning of the relationship before we ever had sex, once we already had sex it was like they only thought kissing was important/essential to get to sex or like only important for the first 3 months.

Now my bf of almost 2 years, We still kiss before, during & after sex, & even if we're not doing it, or just lounging around. Sometimes we kiss just to kiss & then it accidentily leads to sex when we didn't think we were going to do it.

I think more affectionate guys like to kiss, my other 2 ex's were not that affectionate/ liked to be affectionate

 

[xX_Sarah_Xx]

An hour long make-out session on the couch gets me wetter than a rainforest.

This and ...

I'm very picky when it comes to kissing. It's so nice when you don't have to dread kissing the person or have to show them how to kiss.

... this.

There's no bigger turn on than a man who really really knows how to kiss and doesn't mind taking it slow.
Yum.

 

[blutrane]

Okay, I found a few words.

Kissing is the only kind of intimate interaction where it's equal parts giving and receiving for both partners. It's arguable that sex is close, but it's hard to deny that on some level, even if the girl is doing all the work and being giving in a metaphysical sense, the vagina (or whatever) is receiving the penis. But still, when two people kiss each other, they are doing the exact same thing at the same time, simultaneously expressing their love and being loved.

Kissing can be so wonderful because it's the act of two people opening up to each other. OP, maybe you have yet to experience a good kisser. Or maybe you have yet to figure it out for yourself. I wish you the best of luck in this.

 

[D_Natalie Attired]

Kissing is a big deal. I love love love Kissing. I rock at K-I-S-S-I-N-G! Kissing is where the passion begins. I've made out for four hours before and not had sex. Kissing is magical and emotional. The first kiss is memorable. If it's not good or doesn't have potential...its a deal breaker for the relationship/friendship to continue.

Kissing sets the stage. It's the best foreplay...kissing can make me sooooo wet. Sex without kissing just misses the mark because for me...even though my body may be engaged, I'm not as into it.

I've had guys I've loved to kiss, but they weren't good in bed...so I'd invite them over while on my period...just so I could make out but I didn't have to fuck them.

Here's a few awesome Kissing quotes!

A man's kiss is his signature. ~Mae West

When I kiss you, I can taste your soul. ~Carrie Latet

“Kissing is a means of getting two people so close together that they can't see anything wrong with each other.”

Ancient lovers believed a kiss would literally unite their souls, because the spirit was said to be carried in one's breath.”

http://thinkexist.com/i/sq/4star.gif http://thinkexist.com/i/sq/ThumbsUp.gif http://thinkexist.com/i/sq/ThumbsDwn.gif“Kissing is like drinking salted water: you drink and your thirst increases”

A kiss seals two souls for a moment in time. ~Levende Waters

Kisses are like tears, the only real ones are the ones you can't hold back. ~Author Unknown

Each kiss a heart-quake... ~Lord Byron, Don Juan

im with you on this one!!!

 

[D_Edwin Eatser]

Kissing is important for me because that's how i got into sex; it wasn't usual to fuck at an early age when I was younger, so you did lots of kissing and petting with girlfriends. When it eventually happened, girls wanted to be kissed before, during and after their fuck, so it's been part of that activity ever since. Funnily enough I had fucked several men before I felt comfortable about kissing one, but now that is a normal activity too.

 

[B_curiousme01]

It is so sad to hear that you don't like kissing! It's so intimate and sexy to me. My husband gave me some serious kisses one day in the kitchen while we were both standing up and I almost fainted. I got the black spots, spins, and everything. It's never happened before or after, but I'll never ever forget it. Maybe one day you too will enjoy it. I so hope so. Nothing like it in my book. Nothing.

 

[Qua]

I have spent entire nights with a girl just kissing. Both before and after first having sex.

It's the intimacy involved that does it. A good kisser can express more degrees and types of passion than those that can be done through sex (or at least, express different ones, often lighter affectionate ones). I'll often stop mid fuck leaving my dick in and kissing my girlfriend. It's an incredibly hot thing, but I'm obviously a total kissing fiend.

If it's not your thing it's not your thing, but I will say this: there is NO easier way to get a girl in bed then to surprise her with a very good kiss. It is THE single best tool of seduction. If you get to the point of kissing and you nail it you're golden.

 

[IntoxicatingToxin]

I agree with MB, when she said it isn't a "girl" thing, but just a "not you" thing. I know many many men who are as much into kissing as women, my boyfriend included. We can lay in bed for hours and just talk and make out and hold each other. It's awesome. :biggrin:

 

[episcalo]

I think if I had to choose between no more kissing for the rest of your my life, or no sex, I'd choose no sex. It would be a big dilemma but honestly I think i would take kissing for all the reasons said in the thread...

To me, kissing is the most intense binding thing I can do with my partner and that's why I kiss her frequently during the intercourse!

 

[RawDog]

Kissing is almost mandatory foreplay with my wife and I. The few times we didn't kiss before having sex turned out to be somewhat lackluster. I saw an episode of Cathouse on Showtime where one of the workers said she'd do anything with a client except for kissing. Too personal, too intimate.

Sex gets so much more intimate when kissing is involved. I was searching for something I wrote a few months ago and found it:

Three nights ago, my wife and I were going at it drunk and somewhat stoned. It was surreal in that we just couldn't get enough of each other. Sucking each other's tongues, sliding our lips together, swallowing each other's spit, shoving my dick into her, grinding me in as far as possible. Hands probing every inch of each other's bodies, thighs caressing, starved for touch.

At one point, exhausted and still hard as a rock inside her wet pussy still craving for more, she lays still on top of me and we kiss so deeply, so passionately, we forgot we were having sex. The hunger was overpowering. I could feel my motionless cock swell, reaching into the hot depths inside her ever tightening dripping cunt pulling me in, yet we do not move. I could feel her sucking me in from both ends, reaching for her innermost core. We briefly part, our eyes catch each other's gaze and we begin to kiss again, muffling the words, "I love you so much".

The sex was great, our simultaneous orgasm memorable. But the kiss, that kiss, was indescribable.

 

[xX_Sarah_Xx]

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Three nights ago, my wife and I were going at it drunk and somewhat stoned. It was surreal in that we just couldn't get enough of each other. Sucking each other's tongues, sliding our lips together, swallowing each other's spit, shoving my dick into her, grinding me in as far as possible. Hands probing every inch of each other's bodies, thighs caressing, starved for touch.

At one point, exhausted and still hard as a rock inside her wet pussy still craving for more, she lays still on top of me and we kiss so deeply, so passionately, we forgot we were having sex. The hunger was overpowering. I could feel my motionless cock swell, reaching into the hot depths inside her ever tightening dripping cunt pulling me in, yet we do not move. I could feel her sucking me in from both ends, reaching for her innermost core. We briefly part, our eyes catch each other's gaze and we begin to kiss again, muffling the words, "I love you so much".

The sex was great, our simultaneous orgasm memorable. But the kiss, that kiss, was indescribable.

Wow... just wow. :redface:

 

[tg1000]

i love reading your replies!

 

[tg1000]

I have spent entire nights with a girl just kissing. Both before and after first having sex.

It's the intimacy involved that does it. A good kisser can express more degrees and types of passion than those that can be done through sex (or at least, express different ones, often lighter affectionate ones). I'll often stop mid fuck leaving my dick in and kissing my girlfriend. It's an incredibly hot thing, but I'm obviously a total kissing fiend.

If it's not your thing it's not your thing, but I will say this: there is NO easier way to get a girl in bed then to surprise her with a very good kiss. It is THE single best tool of seduction. If you get to the point of kissing and you nail it you're golden.

THIS!

 

[D_Mona Samore]

Sex without kissing? That would NEVER happen with me. Kissing is such an important part of sex. Sometimes, when I'm reminiscing about a sexy night, it's the kissing that I dwell on the most. It gets my heart racing for more!