The big dick attitude

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Excuse me forgetting about your Mr. Seurrat with his great paintbrush ;-) I was more referring to my own experience, from younger years, when I really fell more for the "cock talk" and the size a guy claimed to have. Could say I've become wiser by now. Your cock artist would definitely fall among the confidence crowd, those who know what pleasure they can give women, and I think who enjoy this knowledge. If anything, I could call those my favorites. Maybe talking about sex gets me hot, but I still need the real thing to be satisfied. And if that's what a guy can provide, I think he earned his confidence.

Sure :smile: . I don't mean to overdo the talk about the paintbrush. I keep feeling the need to bring him up on this site, just to remind people that attitude and skill can make up for a certain lack of size. My point was only that a guy can be genuinely cocky without having a big cock. It doesn't mean he's bluffing, just that his confidence comes from something other than his size.
But you really nailed it with one thing in particular - the confidence crowd: those who know what pleasure they can give women, and who enjoy this knowledge. A guy who knows he can make me cum relentlessly, and who thinks this is the greatest thing ever. (I'm a greedy one, I must say :biggrin1: )
But of course, in the end, as you alluded to m'dear, the cockiness is only worth anything if he backs it up in bed. And ultimately, 'tis I who shall be the judge of whether that occurs :biggrin1: :biggrin1: .
 

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I've typing a response to this for like 45 minutes, and it's just hit me that I'm not even sure what's being asked. I don't talk to other guys and think, "hmm... he's hung!" as I'm not looking for dick to begin with :tongue:.

But, I like the title of this thread, and I so desperately need my post count to go up another notch, so I'm just gonna ignore the parameters and talk about my favorite part of having "The Big dick Attitude" :biggrin1: (And that part is the bedroom part.)

I had the pleasure of being with a woman of some (putting it mildly) experience lately, and it was such a turn-on when she got that joyful look as she tried to fit her hand around it the first time (I'm longer than average, yes, but what I really obsess over is my girth, I admit it). I could feel her hand clench to really try and get her middle finger and thumb to touch, but still, no suck luck. And all I did was look down and smile, confidently saying, "ready?" (Once a smartass, always I guess).

As much of a dumbass as I can be online and off, there's no doubt in my mind that I can satisfy another completely, and that self-confidence is tied directly to the size of my dick. It most certainly left her satisfied by the way, and I noticed at a bar just last night that the whole encounter is still on my mind, and remembering her 'glowing review' afterwards most certainly gave me extra confidence when talking to girls last night as well.

So that confidence that you speak of when talking to a guy isn't from him thinking, "yeah, I got a big dick." It's from him thinking, "yeah, I got a big dick, and I know what it's capable of." And that's what the big dick attitude means to me. :rolleyes:

EDIT: I almost digressed into masturbatory fantasy there... sorry if I offended anyone.
EDIT TO THAT EDIT: All true though, still.
 

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I think that is the big dick attitude. Big dick guys are usually more secure in themselves. You can always tell when a guy has a small cock because they have that 'napolean' type complex. A more interesting thread may be, "small dick attitude". They tend to be 'haters' more often than not. A big dick guy is more willing to give people props and respect for their accomplishments, whereas an insecure fella might tend to belittle or put-down said accomplishment, only because of their own failures or short-comings in life. I might catch some flak for this but in MY experience it is very true. I bet there would be a strong correlation between small penii and the amount of 'hatorade' one drinks.

Well, okay. I've always been a hot head, long before I had any idea about size or even sex. Personaly, I feel this statement is too broad and could be easily turned around to mean the exact opposite. I work two customer intesive jobs, and their have been many times when I SHOULD HAVE BITCH SLAPPED THE SHIT OUT OF SOME ONE to remind them that I'm not their "house nigger". (This is not a racist coment, but there have been some people who think it's okay to treat others in a lower tax brackit like a non-person,and it's the best way I can describe the situation.) I've haved many down falls and short-comings. but something in my head physically stops me from hitting or even sometimes raising my voice most of the time. I feel others should be treated with honesty and respect. I don't mind burning bridges, but I hope I'll never tell some one that my problems are too great to not atleast try and help them in some way. As far as either one of these "attitudes" are concerned, you would have to know every detail of a persons daily life to understand why they act the way they do, maybe the last guy who freaked out that you got to close to him had been beaten and robbed a couple days ago and is still jumpy. Other wise, this guy might be the one who gives his liver or something to one of your family members, and he's never met anyone of you! Most people are good people, the rest are just assholes in their own right.

P.S. Sorry, stepping off my soap box now.:confused:
 

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Perhaps he knew he could make me cum till I turned into a flustered jelly-legged mess, :biggrin1:

I would agree with this observation - what I think happens when guys are sexually confident, big cock or otherwise, is that we stop being nervous or intimidated by women. Boys need better sex-ed.
 

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I have a big dick. But I don't think I I have a strut in my walk, I have had a big dick my whole life so it's just a part of who I am. Nor do I go around purposefully showing it off in tight clothes. I don't wear underwear most of the time, so I thinks it's always visible to some extent. I just don't pay much attention to it, unless I start getting a semi in a public place. Underwear or not, it's hard to hide a bick dick.
 
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A big dick attitude revolves around having an alpha mentality. I try not to have an overbearing dominant personality but I can light up a room with my personality because I am such a people person. I have no problems connecting with individuals. When it comes to my sex appeal or so I have been told by women, my confidence in myself as far as being myself is just right and that gives me the edge. The loudest person isn't always the one taking command.
 

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A big dick attitude revolves around having an alpha mentality

Maybe that is what is meant by big dick attitude, but the alpha male stuff is such total bullshit. I can't think of a single time I've heard, "I'm just an alpha male," without it being said by an obnoxious ass making excuses for his poor treatment of others.
 
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Maybe that is what is meant by big dick attitude, but the alpha male stuff is such total bullshit. I can't think of a single time I've heard, "I'm just an alpha male," without it being said by an obnoxious ass making excuses for his poor treatment of others.

This is true which is why I wanted to explain it in further detail. You can be an alpha without being a total ass hat you know.
 

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Confidence is the key. If you have a big average or small dick. Confidence, attitude, how a man carries himself. Whether or not he walks with his head held high. How he carries himself. How he treats others around him. It's the whole of all these characteristic's. Taking pride in yourself whether you are a small, average, or big.
 

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I was a closeted 19 year old virgin when this thread started and you could still smoke in English pubs. :joy:

I so miss smoking in pubs @englad , there's a little pub down in Penzance where people still light up which is awesome. I fucking hate standing outside freezing my tits off just so I can have a ciggy, I smoke a lot and drink a lot so I've spent a lot of my life in shitty doorways Lol. however the heatwave we've just had has been great, spent loadsa time supping in beer gardens! :p:yum:innocent:xx