The bigger they are...the more likely they are to cheat?

[326807]

nah.. that's like saying the bigger the breasts the more likely a gal is to cheat. silly

it's been my experience (since ive dated several busty woman) that they do get alot of attention..yet I know a girl who has very small boobs and a great ass who get alot of male and female attention too.. as for me I admit Ive had more than one encounter with a woman who came right out and said she'd heard i was huge and wanted to find out...and this always seems to happen when im in a relationship too....which sucks...but im denying that ANYTHING happned..lol
me I admit if i see a girl w/ a huge rack yes,im more attracted but hey ..im a freak

 

[petite]

I don't think so. What causes a person to cheat is so complicated, I don't think it can come down to something like the size of his penis.

Studies have shown that the more attractive a man is, the more likely he is to cheat, especially if he's considered to be more attractive than his wife, whereas if the woman is considered more attractive than her husband, their marriage is more likely to be stable. There was an article about it on the Psychology Today website. I suppose having a large penis could work in a similar way as being attractive, although I doubt many women actually seek out mates based on penis size.

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog...t/200804/why-handsome-men-make-bad-husbands-i

According to this article, I'm screwed! My husband is younger than me and extremely attractive. College-aged women hit on him all the time and I'm in my 30s. But people are more complicated than just the length of his penis and the statistics gathered on marital success, and I think we'll be just fine. I seriously doubt TheBoyfriend would ever cheat on me, and that's because I know that he's a man of very good character who loves me and who is loyal to me.

I was cheated on by a ex-boyfriend who was also extremely attractive, but I think the reason for his cheating had to do with his youth, he was 18, and pressure from his parents to "explore" being a young man. They didn't like me, obviously. They told him that such a young man shouldn't be tied down and committed so young, etc. He did explore, although he didn't break up with me before he did it, and in the end he was very sorry for his actions. He cheated out of social and family pressure to behave the way that other people thought an 18 year old should behave. Did that have anything to do with his penis size? No. His attractiveness made it easier to find interested women, but he was pressured into behaving in a way that was contrary to his actual character, and he's felt guilty about it ever since. We were talking on the phone a year ago, and he apologized to me for cheating on me, just brought it up out of the blue, and I felt sorry for two things: that he still felt so guilty so many years later, and that talking to me made him feel that pain again so that I was a constant reminder of it.

Anyway, I've digressed. My point is simply that the motives for cheating are going to be different for every man, and I don't think having a larger penis gives a man more motivation. I least, I hope so.

 

[D_Champney Cumcannon]

In the movie "Funny People" Adam Sandler says something along the lines of:
"It's easy not to cheat when no one wants to fuck you".

So in a sense, it may seem that a guy with a larger penis is more apt to cheat because he may be more in demand and thus have more opportunities.

You could say this about numerous attributes. Men with more confidence, men who are handsome, men who are in shape, men who are witty, men who are funny, etc.

It may not be that they are more likely to cheat, but they probably have more opportunities to cheat than someone who doesn't have attributes that attracts women to them.

 

[SprinkleMe69]

Arizonametal, are you cheating on me??? boohoo hahaha just kidding
I've been cheated on every damn time. Some knew I knew, some to this day don't know that I knew. I've had 3 inches of hard cock to 8.5 inches of hard cock; pencil pricks to extra thick. Wasn't about their cocks but more their character.

 

[Supersized]

I am 38 now and proud to say I have never knowingly cheated. I slept with someone before they told me that they were in a relationship already. I've turned down married women, married men, married bosses, men and women with significant others, you name it.

 

[nicenycdick]

I don't think so. What causes a person to cheat is so complicated, I don't think it can come down to something like the size of his penis. ...

Yes. It is different for everyone, I think. Of course, you have to have some minimum requirements to be attractive to the opposite sex...cleanliness, personality, looks, etc. But as to why an individual cheats? It is depends very much on his or her beliefs, desires and circumstances. I don't think penis size fits into this at all...

 

[Wrat]

I have never really noticed that there was any social stigma attached to having a large penis that suggests an increased tendency to cheat in a relationship. I don't think I have ever heard, or heard of, any suspicions, allegations, or averments towards anyone with regard to an increased likelihood of their cheating based on the size of that person's dick.
Really.

 

[kocksucking]

Some men who are well endowed may be more likely to cheat because they are confident in their endowment and not lacking...

 

[maxcok]

From my experience the vast majority of men are fascinated by, and want attention drawn to their cock, regardless of size. This site, despite it's success doesn't prove that "people" in general are more attracted to larger cocks. If you think about the vast number who surf the net for porn then compare that to our membership numbers, it's actually a pretty small niche.

I'm not so sure about all that. I don't know the exact number of visitors to this site, but I thought it numbered in the millions? Regardless, my personal experience tells me that a great number of men and women do seem to be fascinated by big cocks, though due to social mores they're not going to be overt about it IRL. I agree with you that it seems to be an obsession for men more so than for women, though admittedly that is conjecture based on random, if consistent, observation. The more time I've spent here and elsewhere on the internet only confirms these observations. In fact, before I started visiting this site I had no idea how widespread this obsession with penis size is, particularly among self-identified "straight" men. I don't think I would characterize this as a "niche" fascination. I also conclude based on observation that the larger a man's cock, the more likely he is to welcome attention on it compared with a lesser endowed man.

Well to have a true comparison of all the factors you'd need multiple studies. All things being equal except for endowment, all things equal except for personality, all things equal except for appearance, etc. The point is in the real world things aren't all "equal except for" situations so a guy with a big dick has to compete with other more obvious factors like personality, appearance and money.

True, and I believe I made that clear in my post. As I said, "all things being equal". Still, with a large enough random sample, I should think those other attributes would mostly be factored out. Unless, of course, there is some statistically significant correlation between bigger dicks and overall appearance and/or financial success, which I wouldn't rule out on the face of it. There is, I believe, some correlation between physical attractiveness and levels of success - sexually, socially, professionally, financially, perhaps even evolutionary - that has been studied and documented. Furthermore, if you look at the evolution of the human penis over the long haul, proportionately larger than any other primate, one concludes that natural selection has played its hand -- meaning men with larger cocks have had more breeding opportunities, meaning they were more promiscuous.

All that said, I doubt we'll ever have an answer to these questions based on anything more than informed conjecture and logical inference. Hell, we can't even get an accurate survey of the distribution of penis sizes that comes anywhere near standing up to scientific scrutiny. How the heck are we then going to compare penis size with incidents of infidelity, which has it's own set of accurate reporting problems?

Some men are showers some are growers. I do consider myself a sizequeen and having been on this site for years I've made a concious effort to try crotch watching and in all honesty haven't seen more than 20 vpls in all that time. That includes meeting people from this site whose pics I've seen and know are packing. It's really not that easy to tell in clothes unless they're fully hard and it's trying to escape.

Girl, maybe you need to to perfect your spying techniques, or you need new glasses, or you live among phallic pygmies. ;-) As the actual owner of some large equipment, I can testify that my experience is very different from yours. I don't generally go out of my way to put my wares on display, in fact, out among the general public in everyday life I tend to 'dress down' somewhat, to make it less than obvious. Still, it's not at all unusual for me to catch women and men, regardless of orientation, surreptitiously checking out my package even in street clothes. I could be in a gay bar intentionally packing some tight levis where I halfway expect someone to notice, or at the counter of the convenience mart taken completely by surprise as I catch the downward glance of the woman at the "check-out" counter. ;-) There are other situations, e.g. wearing more revealing sports apparel, in lockerrooms, gang showers, at nude beaches, etc., where it's plainly apparent, if not obvious. Unless he's wearing the equivalent of a potato sack, believe me, it's not that unusual for a well endowed guy to attract attention in virtually any situation, whether he's looking for it or not.

On the internet, no. I guess I was thinking more of an immediate situation like two people meeting at a bar. I hadn't even factored the internet into my consideration.

Opposite to what seems to be the current trend, I don't post pics of my dick on the internet, though I have no qualms at all about being seen naked in normal situations IRL, e.g., the sort of settings I just referred to above. And I have most definitely been checked out in bars by both sexes. Frequently.

Are you a broke, ugly asshole who happens to have a big dick? I doubt it. I've read many of your posts and I'm betting conversation has been what draws in your suitors with your endowment being a bonus prize.

Your supposition is true in certain situations, but it presupposes that my sexual encounters derive mainly from those sorts of conventional social interactions. I am a man of some significant sexual experience, and I will tell you that a vast number of my liasons have occurred simply because someone was attracted to my "energy", my overall physical appearance, and/or my endowment - frequently, and sometimes exclusively, my endowment. More times than I could even begin to count, actually. On some of those occassions it was my other 'charms' that became the "bonus prize" later on, but more often they never entered into the equation or the seduction. It's a matter of individual perspective what was the 'icing on the cake', so to speak. Believe me, there have been plenty of occasions where a guy walked up to me in a bar, grabbed my crotch, and blatantly asked, "Can I suck that?", even though we weren't discussing quantum mechanics or deconstructing Proust at the time. ;-)

I think the difference of opinion we're having here is based in us arguing two subtly different points. Are hung men more likely to cheat, meaning the desire to do so? I say no. Vs. Are hung men more likely to cheat, meaning the ability to succeed? I'm at 65% agreement at most.

I thought I had made that distinction clear already. As to the second point, my observations and my own personal experience inform me that a better hung man would certainly have more opportunities, and it would be easier and therefore more likely for him to cheat - if he had the intention and the desire. I have no doubt about that. I would also say based on my own experience, he may very well have more temptation come his way, even when he's not looking for it.

As to the first point, would he be more inclined to cheat, I would not rule that out entirely either. To reprhase and reiterate what I said way back when: It's possible a larger endowed man might be more sexualized psychologically and more focused on his cock, as a result of conditioning and the extra attention given to it by strangers and acquaintances alike. Most likely he'd be more confident about it too, as kocksucking observes in his post above, and as I also observed previously. Could this lead to more promiscuous sexual behavior in general, including a tendency to cheat? I think it's quite possible, though I have nothing but conjecture here.

At the end of the day, it does come down to the individual though and his ethical nature. Despite what I hope is not misread as bravado here, despite a rather colorful sexual history, and despite many easy opportunities thrown my way - I don't believe I've ever cheated outside the confines of a clearly understood monogamous relationship, at least to the best of my recollection.

 

[mephistopheles]

It'll always be the person with the penis.

Some guys think: "I have a big dick, I'm gonna use it as much as possible." and there are other more traditional guys who just don't cheat... because it's a fucked up thing to do.