You hear it alot: The Brain is the Biggest Sex Organ. From my experience though I had the best and most passionate sex when my brain "shut up" completely. When no thoughts interfered. When I was totally present in the moment. So is the brain - the biggest sex organ or - actually the biggest obstacle to superior sex? Discuss!
You know that when people say that they aren't referring to the logical capabilities of the brain, nor any train of thought or ideas you may have during sex about how to have sex.
when they say the brain is the biggest sexual organ they are not referring to frontal lobe activity but moreso the amygdala and limbic system.
I thought of it not only as doubts/ideas/thoughts but more so as in terms of "fantasies". I'm not sure but I think many people engage in fantasies during sex. Sure it may enhance the experience for some to fantasize that they bang their favorite pornstar right now. But for me it's usually the most intense when everything we commonly associate with the "brain" (fantasies, imaginations, thoughts, doubts) just shuts down. When just the most basic brain functions stay on. The brain is so to say the biggest anti-sex organ. Does that make sense?
You said it best when you mentioned "When I was totally present in the moment." I take this to mean you are alluding to the fact that there are higher more Tantric aspects to sex you are experiencing. These of course involve consciousness and we all know consciousness is absent of any mind identified content. (thinking) hmmm how ironic, that in itself is just a thought. :wink:
Yea. That's basically what i mean. Thanks for expressing it more clearly. Regarding Mandingo: By volume his cock is 613 cm3, while the average human brain is 1400 cm3
For me the brain is "the biggest sex organ" but in combination with the body. Without someone engaging my mind we wouldn't even make it to sex. The mind is powerful, most of the seduction for me is about the mind. My desires spring from, what I'll call, a mind connection and sort of takes my body on the journey until I can fulfill them, or on occasion, not. Just to clarify, fantasies do not play much of a part for me - I'm not that creative. I prefer the unknown, surprise little things that happen between two people... hearing their breathing change, how they kiss, trembling... my mind/senses takes note of all of these and draws me deeper into my partner. Like that moment when you're fucking in total sync with each other, faces an inch apart, breathing each other breath, looking in their eyes... total mind/body connection. So I may not be thinking much during the act, but my senses combined with desires take over and they're controlled by my brain. Does that make sense? :shrug:
I would say a lot of people agree with you and that's why they like to get drunk and have sex. But seriously, you say when you are "present in the moment" so that would mean not drunk. When we get good at something it becomes subconscious. Think about driving. Sometimes you can be distracted while driving, then realize you having been consciously looking at the road for the last minute. Your mind is on auto pilot. Maybe this is what you are getting at. But in this case, your mind was actually playing a big role, but just subconsciously. Mandingo never gives the women orgasms, so size must not be everything.
Yes, absolutely. That's actually what I mean. For me that would be a total absence of mind though: "full presence in the moment" without any mind interference. Pure consciousness. But of course that's also a "brain function" so let's not split words here. We both mean the same, just say it differently.
The brain may be the biggest sex organ but I can't remove my skull to stroke it so I will have to stay with the other sex organ that I can feel, my cock.
