Hmm. . . I had a great relationship with my father. I know he definitely respected me, especially when I had the guts to "come out" with a vengence when I was about 14 years old. Industrialsize, as usual, made a perfectly legitimate comment when he wrote earilier in this thread,"Again, someone remind me why we need to find a cause for homosexuality?"
When I was waiting for for the boarding call for my flight back to the Southern Hemisphere I had the dumb luck of listening to the University of Ewetaws' PBS Saturday news show. It's their local attempt at being enlightened. The program was an entire hour of a mormon homosexual (sort of an oxymoron, if you ask me) and some straight mormon guy with Ph.D. in education (there's a caution flag, right there) from BYU. They discussed a book made up of their e-mails arguing for and against gay marriage. The mormon homosexual was such an apologist regarding everything, not just his sexuality, that he probably should work for Phyllis Schlafley. The mormon "educator" had created some "family values" think tank in or near Provo, Ewetaw. The educator was actually given credence to his claim that "In all of my research I've yet to find that there is such a thing as sexual orientation." And along those same lines of intellectual pursuit I'm certain he discovered at an early age that his shit didn't attract flies.
I listened to these two weenies play "how many angels can dance on the head of a pin" for almost 45 minutes. That's 45 minutes I'll never get back in this life! And I blame only myself for that problem. I should have known better than to waste my time with a radio broadcast discussion on something so ridiculous and annoying. But that's Ewetaw. Several have sent me messasges that I "flame" mormons too much. But I dump them in the same broad class as stupid conservative christians. Therefore, if this posts annoys your sense of fair play, it should really offend your sense of "christianity." Like lot of things that turned out to be complete bullshit, time and experience has proved to me that religious types are weak, prone to fear mongering, and more often than not cannot discern the truth when it slaps them up side the head.
Those two lofty angel counters that morning on KUER, Salt Lake City, really had no business pushing their particular stupidity on publically funded radio, especially since BYU has its own version of National Public Radio. But still, there they were; blathering on and on about the "truth" as filtered by their religious-based world views. Had I the power to magically neuter them both and rescind their respective children, I would have. But if wishes were fishes . . . etc. And once again, my need to leave the USA -- especially the Intermountain West -- was reinforced. The air actually got a bit better once I was on a connecting flight out of LAX.
The causes of homosexuality? What's wrong with homosexuality? There is nothing wrong with being homosexual (note: I wrote being homosexual instead of being a homosexual). Unlike the McPain versus Obama bleching that was vollyed back and forth, the issue never got to the point that one side felt it necessary to kill the other for "spiritual" reasons. However, there are many stupid people who think that homosexuals are some sort of world threat. In fact, one might conjecture that among Muslims, christians, and Jews there is a majority opinion that homosexuals need to be wiped out of society.
The Good News! It ain't gonna happen. Although it has happened too much. I'm sure that Sarah Palin's soon-to-be Nazi-like son-in-law enjoys nothing better than doing a bit of fag bashing on the weekends with his friends. But then, consider his geographic location and upbringing. Certainly, his parents nor the Palins are exactly pillars of mental stability and intellectual prowess. Fortunately, since the mid 50's there are enough of us who have been willing (eager, actually) to be out and open and show that we're not the great threat to Western or Eastern culture the fear mongers insist that we are. We don't molest your little girls and boys. However, your pastor, rabbi, scoutmaster and or "other" special person in your neighborhood is more likely to do so.
Personally, I like to think that what causes homosexuality is a good eye for design, being a fabulous dancer, and 2 inches taller than most. But that's just me.