i was talking to one of my close friends, and she said when she first saw me, she thought i was gay, coz i looked too clean cut. i don't grow any facial scruff (i only grow some in the moustache & goatee area and i shave that), and to be honest i just think i kinda dress well (started doing so during my 2nd year in college). and i personally think i'm not too clean cut. does anyone get that reaction from people? does anyone think that the majority of gay men is very clean cut? i think it is such a generalization of the gay population, and an effect how they are portrayed in the media. does my look give the impression that i am gay? and no, i don't have anything against looking like a gay man, as long as i am associated with the fashionable (but not over-the-top) ones.