biggun12345: Being exceptionally well hung is really not as great as you would be lead to believe. Don't get me wrong, being bigger than most guys is a great feeling. . . to a point, but sometimes it's really more a problem than anything else. Case in point, recently I was out at a bar with a co-worker from the office, where the majority of the staff are women. After a while talking about relationships she asked me if she could ask me a personal question. She asked me if I really was "that big" At work I usually wear briefs as boxers are just asking for trouble in dress pants, but she told me that everyone at work makes comments about my bulge and it almost becomes a fun daily routine to see what I'm wearing and how noticeable my bulge is. As much as I would like to report that this is an empowering feeling, it really makes me more uncomfortable now than ever before. Apparently according to her comments, having a bulge is not necessarily welcomed by women, as if it ruins something to know that you are huge, and the mystery is gone. I was always under the impression that women appreciated the aesthetic beauty of a man with a hefty package, you know, found the visual appealing. I definitely don't think it's an obsene bulge, but apparently according to co workers it's much larger than anything most of them have ever seen before, and was seen as a turnoff for just being painfully large, unable to be taken by women. In light of this information, I feel almost obligated to wear looser slacks and ALWAYS wear briefs, but since everyone knows and talks already it almost seems pointless to do anything differently. I am aware that most people will just say be proud of what you have, and I am, but all the same I just wanted to say that it's not all repect and admiration by both men and women, but fear, anger, and probably most of all, whispers and giggles. It's not my fault I have a noticeable bulge regardless of what I wear, though the details may be different depending on what exactly I'm wearing. In a way, now that I know everyone makes comments I almost want to play into it and wear even tighter dress slacks and run that mother down my leg or thigh, and stand tall and proud. It's very confusing sometimes. You know all guys want to have a bigger dick, but sometimes I think they are so caught up with the idea of it just being bigger that they don't realize that they are already way big. I am now fully aware that women are looking at my package at work - all of them in fact, but you know, there's not really much I can do about it, not that I should anyway. A lot of guys would probably welcome a problem like this, but let me tell you to be careful what you wish for. For this is the Curse of the Bulge. Does anyone have any similar stories where someone just hit you with that kind of information? I never woulda thought I'd actually be posting something like that on the lpsg, but you know when it happens, you realize that you have a large penis. . . and you need support.