The discomfort after masturbation

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  1. rm2092

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    I can not stop jerking off to porn I'll get on the web when I get up in the morning before I go to bed and if I could at work I would jerk of I know I have a problem but anyways my discomfort is after I jerk off the head of my dick is sore for several hours after and I have the erge to pee for a while, is there anything that I can take over the counter to stop the discomfort ? I know stop jerking off so much but I can not help my self, I'll go like three times in a couple of hours and then I'll pay for it oh well looking forward to some replys I think ?
     
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    the URGE to pee after sex (with or without someone else involved) is normal. and if you are jerking off nonstop, then yes, the head of your cock is going to get sore. simple cause and effect. even though a good lube might help.

    don't start looking for chemical cures, unplug your computer! go for a walk, go get some coffee (out of the house), who knows you may actually meet a gal or guy to have person to person sex with!!! take a cold shower. see a professional if you have to. you need to get a grip (no pun intended) on this.
     
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    Is the soreness simply from too much friction? If so, use a lubricant. Otherwise, you already know the solution to your problem. Limit your masturbation to maybe twice a day max.
     
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    Perhaps you are using kung-fu grip? Try a lighter touch when you're wanking.
     
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    How tight is your skin when you are erect? If you are circumcised and happy with it fine, but a little bit of the skin stretching from the foreskin restoration or penile enlargement threads can loosen up your shaft skin a little bit, which can help if your skin is pretty tight. I used to have that problem myself.

    Aside from that, the other solutions already given are about all you can do. Try using a lighter grip or lube.
     
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    :aargh4:always with the circumcision-centric view!!:lmao:
     
  7. JTalbain

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    Are you saying it's not possibly an issue? Judging from his pictures he is circumcised, and since I was tightly circumcised, I had the same problem. I found a solution, and I offered the same to him. Circumcision is a surgery that removes half the skin of your penis, and different people heal differently from it. Why are you so convinced that circumcision can not cause issues like this?

    Edit: Of course you might have been trying to be funny. In that case I accept your verbal jab. :p
     
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    of course it is, i would never doubt your circumcision/foreskin knowledge. just fuckin with ya!!!
     
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    Trying varying your masturbation technique. Sometimes focus on shaft/balls, sometimes focus on head. They way, you spread the rubbing instead of asking your glans to bear the brunt of it.

    If your glans is sore, you can try some of the polysporin antibiotic cream that has a numbing agent on it. Or go to a sex shop for a desensitizing lotion you apply after you've finished wanking.

    Also, try wearing snug fitting underwear that reduce stimulatioh of your glans during the day. that friction is what brings sex into your brain constantly and raises your desire to masturbate.
     
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    The urge to pee is to sterilize your urethra, since your cum is more basic and susceptible to bacterial growth, (ie the proteins and sugars in it) the urine will acidify your urethra and wash out any cum that managed to stick around, and its usually good at blasting through your tip. Like sometimes if you cum and go to bed, and wake up in the morning your piss will split streams, its 'cause the cum dried parts of the slit together, so pissing after cumming usually handles that as well.
     
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    It might be worth getting things checked out with your doctor if you're experiencing soreness. Also controlling the frequency of your masturbation might be a good idea and maybe even giving yourself a break for a few days would help. I'm sure that pretty much everyone here masturbates. I do - but nowadays it's only a couple of times a week on average. Certainly as you get older it's a pastime to be enjoyed in moderation. It's all very well saying you can't help yourself but you can - so long as you're in control of the habit and it's not in control of you. A starting point might be to watch less porn - which isn't the same thing as giving it up completely. Also avoiding websites, magazines etc which make you want to play with yourself last thing at night, might be an idea. Relaxing to some soft music, having a glass of wine and reading some scholarly book in an evening should help to calm you and make you less prone to the habit. Finally going to pee at bedtime and again first thing in the morning - as well as at regular intervals during the day - should help too. I expect you've found it's when you need to go to the toilet that you've been most prone to masturbating as the hands naturally gravitate towards the penis when a guy needs to pee. If your bladder's kept fairly empty you're less likely to finger yourself to excess. Let me know how you get on - and good luck!
     
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