The Disconnect Between What Women Say And What I Have Experienced

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Women say here and in most discussions about sex in other media that penis size is relatively unimportant when it comes to having great sex. That has not in any way been my experience at all.

Every woman I have been with has said I have a large cock and “ it” many times becomes the center of our sex play. They are fascinated by it and every single one has said how much pleasure they get or have gotten from it due to it’s size and girth. Some years ago my partner and I used to play at swing clubs and I can say without doubt the noises coming from a woman when I fucked her were much different than the noises she would make when fucked by a smaller man, much more guttural and animalistic with me, and I am pretty certain they had more orgasms with me, and my partner, a very discerning and beautiful woman is absolutely convinced that bigger cocks make orgasm easier through direct intercourse. I can honestly say that on more than one occasion I had women queue up to be fucked by me. Obviously a sex club that is not a normal sexual situation for most people, so reading a lot into it is shaky grounds, but still.

On more than one occasion former partners have said I have ruined them for other men. Now that could just be ego massaging pillow talk, and certainly women probably engage in that more than we sense, but if it happens time and time again, I have to think there is a nugget of truth there.

I am willing to wager that most well endowed guy’s experiences are a lot like mine. I tend to believe that in this case both could be true, having a larger cock and knowing how to use is a gift, but determining the real value of such a gift is still left to your partner.

Well hung guys, what are your experiences and how do they track with what most women say as a rule?
 

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Presuming that the women are telling the truth; and we as males are open to logic and self reflection.

Then the fact that most men are not hung, only average . If so then most women are having sex with the predominant average males. Ergo, If the sex is satisfactory; or even great then the average guy has the ability to satisfy a woman. To say it backwards, a woman can be satisfied by an average man

Disclaimer ; I do not have a big dick , so my experiences are not only based on LPSG women postings; but real life
 

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of course size matters to women, any women that says otherwise is either too afraid to speak the truth in fear of hurting men's egos, afraid of the backlash from men who may not measure up, or simply lying to pass the question.

allow me to elaborate. when i say size matters, i'm not saying it has to be 9x6... not at all... i'm saying that it has to be "big enough". that "big enough" is different for every women. some women will be perfectly fine with 5 inches while others will only accept 8+. which women you run into is your own personal luck. as @ronin001 mentioned, the average guy has the ability to satisfy a woman. dick size has always been a guy-issue and perpetuated by the minority of size-queen-women out there.

to answer the OP, i've had my fair share of women's positive reactions to a bigger one (and the fact that i'm asian seems to give it an extra value, oddly enough) and also my fair share of women not being able to comfortably be with me too. i've seen both ends of the spectrum including some wild size queens.

as for women, generally speaking, i don't take any of their words at face value. i take everything they say with a grain of salt. experienced women are very cunning and the smarts one are beyond interpretation. men are pretty simple and are easily swayed by women with words. i think our egos get the better of us sometimes. even if i keep hearing the same thing over and over from different women, i still don't commit it as truth but only to the point that all women think and do alike. if a lot of women are lying to you then does that mean it's the truth because a lot of them keep saying the same thing? think about it...

i'm not being a misogynist here. i don't hate women, in fact, i love women. it's just over time and experience, as well as a lot of psychology books, and some field-testing, i've learned that women are very complex creatures in comparison to men and very hard to handle emotionally and sometimes physically. many times i wonder why we men even bother at all but i digress.

big dicks only fuel ourselves as men in our own minds and self-competitions with other men. most women don't care or have ever seen a big dick since a big one is also on the rare side of things too.
 

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Was just hanging out, having fun with a friend I sometimes hook up with. During post-sex pillow talk she was telling me about recently being with a guy who was by far the biggest she'd ever been with (and she's had over 50 partners). She came in less than a minute.

I think men are insecure because they intuit that "size matters." I'd say my personal experiences have tended to confirm it, including several women who explicitly say it does. Yet most of the official stuff you read from therapists and the like say it doesn't. I feel this has more to do with society trying to help men be satisfied with their lot in life. After all, it is true that you can still have great sex with a small one (mine is average and I'm pretty satisfied with my sexual experiences, even if they'd be even better if I was bigger).

Some people can push this stuff out of their mind and be content. Who cares if the rich guy down the street can travel the world, live in a beautiful house, and drive a fancy car, as long as you have enough to live a relatively comfortable, happy life. Others obsess.
 
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My only partner was my wife, whose only partner was me. So I have no first person input.

But she worked in an all female environment for years alongside some very sexually active women, who weren't bashful with their recaps.

Basically, unless he had a Circus Penis that fell way outside normal parameters, his size was quite far down the list of important factors in their enjoyment of the encounter. And a very large penis was more often a problem than a prize.
 
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Seems like quite a manifesto to say you have a such a phenomenal pussy slayer big cock.

I have a fairly average size cock; luckily I have never come across any ruined women on the three continents and assorted parts of Oceania I have dabbled in.

Truly we are not worthy....ahh fuck I kill me
 

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I can relate to your stories from both sides of the dick size chart. haha. I am, by no reasonable definition small. I'm 7" long, not bone pressed, and over 6" around. There are guys out there bigger than me, and many smaller.

I've had women do the same thing, say that I've "ruined other dicks" for them..etc etc. Fast forward some time in those women's lives, they are married to men smaller dicks than me. So, when women say that, they are stroking your ego. Have you ever told a women that she's the most beautiful woman in the world, or that she feels incredible, or how amazing her body is.

Also, it's the fantasy of it all. I've had friends of my ex's call me up some time after wanting to hook up because they heard how big I was. I used to indulge them because...why the hell not right!? haha. But at a certain point, that wasn't what I wanted any more.

So, those are just some experiences of me being the biggest guy in a women's life.

Now, I've got a friend who is a legit python. Him and his brother are both shockingly large. I watched women flock to this guy because of the reputations of his dick, and I've seen a vast majority of them leave him for essentially the same reason. It's not his fault, his the kind of guy who actually wants to be in a committed relationship, and all these women want from him is to experience the novelty of his dick. Obviously, the guy has had some long term girlfriends, but after a while most leave him either because they get jealous of other women hitting on him, or because his dick isn't comfortable to them. I bring this up because I've slept with or dated 5 of the same women he has, and every single one of them said they broke up with him or didn't stay with him because of his dick. Now, are they lying to me to make me feel better, or they being honest? If all of them, unprompted are saying the same thing, then there must be something to it.

Flip it around, try to imagine the physically perfect women for you. It would be different from mine, and any other guys. Now, think about the size of her breasts, is there really only ONE size of breasts that you could be happy with? Like, you just can't deal being with a woman who has C cups because you NEED her to have D? Probably not. Does she NEED to have everything exactly to the spec sheet of a physically perfect women in your mind in order for you love her? Probably not. The more I've learned as I've grown up is that as much as I think I know what I want, I don't have a clue until I find it.
 
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I can relate to your stories from both sides of the dick size chart. haha. I am, by no reasonable definition small. I'm 7" long, not bone pressed, and over 6" around. There are guys out there bigger than me, and many smaller.

I've had women do the same thing, say that I've "ruined other dicks" for them..etc etc. Fast forward some time in those women's lives, they are married to men smaller dicks than me. So, when women say that, they are stroking your ego. Have you ever told a women that she's the most beautiful woman in the world, or that she feels incredible, or how amazing her body is.

Also, it's the fantasy of it all. I've had friends of my ex's call me up some time after wanting to hook up because they heard how big I was. I used to indulge them because...why the hell not right!? haha. But at a certain point, that wasn't what I wanted any more.

So, those are just some experiences of me being the biggest guy in a women's life.

Now, I've got a friend who is a legit python. Him and his brother are both shockingly large. I watched women flock to this guy because of the reputations of his dick, and I've seen a vast majority of them leave him for essentially the same reason. It's not his fault, his the kind of guy who actually wants to be in a committed relationship, and all these women want from him is to experience the novelty of his dick. Obviously, the guy has had some long term girlfriends, but after a while most leave him either because they get jealous of other women hitting on him, or because his dick isn't comfortable to them. I bring this up because I've slept with or dated 5 of the same women he has, and every single one of them said they broke up with him or didn't stay with him because of his dick. Now, are they lying to me to make me feel better, or they being honest? If all of them, unprompted are saying the same thing, then there must be something to it.

Flip it around, try to imagine the physically perfect women for you. It would be different from mine, and any other guys. Now, think about the size of her breasts, is there really only ONE size of breasts that you could be happy with? Like, you just can't deal being with a woman who has C cups because you NEED her to have D? Probably not. Does she NEED to have everything exactly to the spec sheet of a physically perfect women in your mind in order for you love her? Probably not. The more I've learned as I've grown up is that as much as I think I know what I want, I don't have a clue until I find it.
“Broke up with him because of his dick”

Like they didn’t like it OR too many women were coming after it?
I come from a family of well endowed men and my mind is stained with imagines of women flying through states to come see my one of my well hung uncles. I have images of EXACTLY what the OP said.. women queuing up for big D; sitting on the couch waiting for their turn. So in the back of my mind I’m like is this what women want? All u need is big D and you’re set? Lol
 
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“had women queue up to be fucked by me. “

I’ve seen women queue up at my uncles house but they would disguise their intentions by socializing with everybody there but I knew what was up. When it came time for sex we could hear through the walls with those dames sounds you mentioned “animalistic, guttural sounds” and sometimes crying. Lol
Women are liars I guess. Average men like me have to find women that are in it for more than just sex because I don’t have a big D and I don’t want them to settle.
Women say here and in most discussions about sex in other media that penis size is relatively unimportant when it comes to having great sex. That has not in any way been my experience at all.

Every woman I have been with has said I have a large cock and “ it” many times becomes the center of our sex play. They are fascinated by it and every single one has said how much pleasure they get or have gotten from it due to it’s size and girth. Some years ago my partner and I used to play at swing clubs and I can say without doubt the noises coming from a woman when I fucked her were much different than the noises she would make when fucked by a smaller man, much more guttural and animalistic with me, and I am pretty certain they had more orgasms with me, and my partner, a very discerning and beautiful woman is absolutely convinced that bigger cocks make orgasm easier through direct intercourse. I can honestly say that on more than one occasion I had women queue up to be fucked by me. Obviously a sex club that is not a normal sexual situation for most people, so reading a lot into it is shaky grounds, but still.

On more than one occasion former partners have said I have ruined them for other men. Now that could just be ego massaging pillow talk, and certainly women probably engage in that more than we sense, but if it happens time and time again, I have to think there is a nugget of truth there.

I am willing to wager that most well endowed guy’s experiences are a lot like mine. I tend to believe that in this case both could be true, having a larger cock and knowing how to use is a gift, but determining the real value of such a gift is still left to your partner.

Well hung guys, what are your experiences and how do they track with what most women say as a rule?
 
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“Broke up with him because of his dick”

Like they didn’t like it OR too many women were coming after it?
I come from a family of well endowed men and my mind is stained with imagines of women flying through states to come see my one of my well hung uncles. I have images of EXACTLY what the OP said.. women queuing up for big D; sitting on the couch waiting for their turn. So in the back of my mind I’m like is this what women want? All u need is big D and you’re set? Lol

They broke up with him because his dick wasn't what they actually wanted, it was a novelty to be played with for a little while then brushed aside. The other reason they broke up with him was because it just simply didn't feel good.

Yes, there may be a line of women waiting for their chance, but how many of them want anything more? What is your uncles getting out of this? Do they have a fruitful relationship, adding to the quality and character of their lives, or do they just get fucked a lot? I'd be willing to bet that all the women "lining up" to fuck your uncles are either one of two types of women. 1- Women with low self esteem who feel like they need to validate their life be getting with a guy with a big dick. or 2- Women who like to have fun, and aren't interested in any sort of meaningful relationship at all. It's the same two reasons why men want to fuck around all the time too, either to make up for insecurities so they need to have sex with the hottest women they can to prove they are a man, or because they just don't want to have a relationship. I'm not saying that being in a relationship is what everyone needs to be in, but in my experience, the people who base too much of their being on one thing, be it the size of their dick, the amount of money they have, how strong they are, what ever it may be, end up being pretty damn depressed later in life because there isn't always a lot of substance to look back in those experiences.

I don't mean to sound judgmental or anything, I'm mainly trying to say that that's not all women want. That's not all that a quality women will want to stay with you. If a big dick is all you have to offer her, then it doesn't matter, the magic will wear off.
 
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Yea true... self esteem is at the root of most of our actions. That’s exactly why I screwed so many chicks in my 20s I wanted that feeling,... wanted to be esteemed that I can knock down any woman I wanted. Women want to claim a big D to feel “big” about themselves too probably... there’s always a emotional component . Good points...

They broke up with him because his dick wasn't what they actually wanted, it was a novelty to be played with for a little while then brushed aside. The other reason they broke up with him was because it just simply didn't feel good.

Yes, there may be a line of women waiting for their chance, but how many of them want anything more? What is your uncles getting out of this? Do they have a fruitful relationship, adding to the quality and character of their lives, or do they just get fucked a lot? I'd be willing to bet that all the women "lining up" to fuck your uncles are either one of two types of women. 1- Women with low self esteem who feel like they need to validate their life be getting with a guy with a big dick. or 2- Women who like to have fun, and aren't interested in any sort of meaningful relationship at all. It's the same two reasons why men want to fuck around all the time too, either to make up for insecurities so they need to have sex with the hottest women they can to prove they are a man, or because they just don't want to have a relationship. I'm not saying that being in a relationship is what everyone needs to be in, but in my experience, the people who base too much of their being on one thing, be it the size of their dick, the amount of money they have, how strong they are, what ever it may be, end up being pretty damn depressed later in life because there isn't always a lot of substance to look back in those experiences.

I don't mean to sound judgmental or anything, I'm mainly trying to say that that's not all women want. That's not all that a quality women will want to stay with you. If a big dick is all you have to offer her, then it doesn't matter, the magic will wear off.
 

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I think in the moment there can be factors at play like curiosity, excitement, etc. The fantasy of it can be fun, I suppose.
And maybe it’s fun for them to talk about.

I overheard a girlfriend tell her friend, “You know it was good sex if you’re sore the next morning.”

Conversely, I had a girlfriend say, “If it was any bigger I wouldn’t have dated you.”

And not too long ago my wife said, “I probably would’ve been better off with a guy who was average or slightly below. You would’ve been better off with a woman who likes big ones but I’ve never met such a woman.”
 

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I've never had any complaints about my size one way or another, but I think a lot of men are afraid of their wife/girlfriend having a very bland, vanilla, ok experience, where they just starfish and their minds are somewhere else. Every guy would like to leave a lasting positive impression sexually on a woman, one thing with a very large cock both in girth and length is the woman is actually feeling something (and probably pretty intensely) and if turned on and aroused will really get off on all their nerves getting touched and rubbed both wide and deeply by a big cock. I'm not talking about seriously painful sex, where a cock is way too big or cervix pounding sex, but just very full satisfying sex at a pace she can handle. What's are guys comments of my views?
 
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I find it very amusing that these types of threads get started and responded to by guys making wild claims & NO PICTURES.
Lol!
"Six inches, bone pressed"... Yeah! Pressed to which bone? Your tail bone?
"Seven inches".... Yeah? You start measuring from the spleen?

Lol
 

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I find it very amusing that these types of threads get started and responded to by guys making wild claims & NO PICTURES.
Lol!
"Six inches, bone pressed"... Yeah! Pressed to which bone? Your tail bone?
"Seven inches".... Yeah? You start measuring from the spleen?

Lol

I've got 48 pictures in my profile, have a look sometime.
 

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I find it very amusing that these types of threads get started and responded to by guys making wild claims & NO PICTURES.
Lol!
"Six inches, bone pressed"... Yeah! Pressed to which bone? Your tail bone?
"Seven inches".... Yeah? You start measuring from the spleen?

Lol

I had pics on years ago, but I thought women would be interested and maybe I might get a hookup. I was so wrong. Since mostly only guys look at the pics, I don’t see the point, unless you are bi or gay. I am not interested in fishing for praise. Also not interested in gay men’s inquiries, which was common.
 
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I had pics on years ago, but I thought women would be interested and maybe I might get a hookup. I was so wrong. Since mostly only guys look at the pics, I don’t see the point, unless you are bi or gay. I am not interested in fishing for praise. Also not interested in gay men’s inquiries, which was common.

That's fine, but I think it's just useful to show what your penis looks like and show other characteristics to answer people's curiosity. I think you would be sadly mistaken if you thought there were any websites where women would go just look at dick pictures then try to hookup with that cock...maybe a couple where the guy is involved, but very, very few women would choose a hookup on a dick picture alone.
 
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That's fine, but I think it's just useful to show what your penis looks like and show other characteristics to answer people's curiosity. I think you would be sadly mistaken if you thought there were any websites where women would go just look at dick pictures then try to hookup with that cock...maybe a couple where the guy is involved, but very, very few women would choose a hookup on a dick picture alone.

I have outgrown answering people’s curiosity. Yep I was mistaken too.
 
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