The Don't Cum Experiment

Discussion in 'The Healthy Penis' started by Falcon9, Aug 21, 2007.

  1. Falcon9

    Falcon9 New Member

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    Not gonna touch it, not gonna cum. Not gonna get any outside help either. Made up my mind. I am abstaining. Starting now.... I wonder what will happen. I am taking notes and will document the progress here.

    Any other volunteers? Can you stop in the name of science? Good! Report back here with your findings so others will learn what it is like. This could be the start of something really BIG... this is totally unchartered territory...
     
  2. WildHoney

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    For how long!!!??? ....I seriously considered it for one second, and decided to just watch your journey instead.

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  3. lafever

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    I`m with Wild Honey on this one, and i really don`t like to take sides on any given issue butt, i`ll be watching too. And in the near and not so distant future don`t go jumping off any buildings, ok?



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    Yea, in order for me to stop, I would have to stop using the internet and find something to do. I have way too much free time on my hands
     
  5. Calboner

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    I abstained once for a fairly long time, or rather tried to abstain over a fairly long period of time, with a few lapses before I gave the whole thing up. The worst effect was that I had wet dreams. I don't recall how often they occurred, but I think it was less often than once a week. Often the dreams had no apparent sexual content (e.g., I remember that in one I was trying to blow snot out of my nose -- unh, unh!).

    I think that your body just needs to discharge semen, and if you don't do it yourself during your waking hours, your body will eventually do it for you while you are asleep.
     
  6. WildHoney

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    Calboner, are you still abstinent now? Why did you do it in the first place? Did it change anything?

    I find my sexuailty fluctuates naturally, possibly because I lack masses of testosterone.

    I seem to self regulate. I will be like a 16 year old boy for a few weeks, then no interest in masturbating for a month. Sex is a large part of my life, but masturbation is a fleeting thing.

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  8. hans_talhoffer

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    well i've been kinda abstain for a long while. when i have sex i stop before i cum. sooo i really only gave up cumming. however last week i moved away to college and well i have a girlfriend and we decided to stay together sooo i'm guess i'm going abstian until i see her again which is gonna be a long while and i don't plan to masturbate sooo i guess i'll volunteer to record some of my "findings" too.

    all i know right know is when i don't cum for a whle i'm much more potent and sexually driven, i'm also a bit more moody. i'm curious to see what happens when i don't do any sexual thing though
     
  9. lafever

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    Honestly speaking, if i obstain from sex it`s because i`m being stingy with my stuff. :rolleyes: Also, i love being a tease, there i said it.


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  10. Fire Agate

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    the longest i went withough blowing a load was 16 days, it was pure torture. i wanted to play with it so bad. but i'll give it a go, i did cum yesterday so i guess i'll start today. i'll try to beat my record of 16 days, and will report back to this thread about sucess/failer. :smile:
     
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    For christ's sake HG, you're gonna have to take your gallery down in order for any of us to stand a chance of making it past day one... :rolleyes:

    So far I'm 'master of my domain'... but I'm not officially starting for another 15 min. :tongue:
     
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    What is the point?? Why? "Stingy," with your precious bodily fluids is right out of Dr. Strangelove. It's healthy for a man to ejaculate frequently. It helps to keep everything in working order, the prostate in particular.
     
  13. lafever

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    To get back on subject thread, As quoted in the song bust a move,"Don`t hang yourself with a celibate rope.":cool:

    And as far as being stingy with my stuff, thats dirrected to the laddies, a women doesn`t always want what can be had easilly or at will, theres no challenge involved, how boring is that, really? It`s no fun taking candy from a baby. The allure is in what you can`t get. :rolleyes:


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    I once went for 6 months without cumming or jacking off it was pure hell and i would never do it again
    if i go more than 2 days without cumming i cum soft
     
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    I tried it before, once it gets to the 3rd day or so, I end up having a massive wet dream...so it doesn't really work I guess.
     
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    I was celibate for eight months, and it was no biggy. I found through out that period, without trying really, a more close bond with friends, as I wasn't out cruising, or looking for fun elsewhere. I focused on my whole body and well being, I suppose directing the energies I put into sex into my self care.

    I did find a "natural peace"...sounds crazy when I type now but I checked my diary for that period and honestly, after the 5 month mark, the routines of sexual behaviours were so sublimated for me I was quite content in enjoying non sexual relationships... the most interesting thing I note from my diary is how other friends and fuck-buddies reacted- anything to a challenging stance, provoking a reaction, to disbelief and rejection, like I was crazy. I guess they had an ulterior motive- who can say, I was (am now) pretty highly sexed, and was uncomfortable with the quality of the encounters I was making.

    The physical aspects I didn't mention in the diary so I can't help with those consequences, but yes, you'll find a "nocturnal emission" once in a while will occur...it did for me- (I'd never experienced one before!)
     
  17. Falcon9

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    Follow up report #1
    Elapsed time: 1 day and 2 hours

    So far, so good. Everything seems ok. Maybe this is the calm before the storm? This would normally be a good time in the morning for me but I made up my mind yesterday and so far, everything is under control. I don't think just touching myself counts so I might cop a feel. I am sure I will when I am in the shower. I mean, you have to wash your stuff so I will have to touch myself then.

    Thanks Veep, you might be right, I can see how the pics could cause problems (uh, just don't look?) And... WildHoney, thanks for watching, but I have to say, you aren't making this any easier! Your avatar alone is going to give me ideas that could put this entire experiment in jeopardy.
     
  18. Fire Agate

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    so far so good for me, i did wake up to a huge boner though. but didnt play with it
     
  19. HungDaddy

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    i guess i should join this thing to see who gives in first haha lol, the game is on gentlemen lol
     
  20. Eva

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    How long do I have to be Queen of the Castle?
     
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