The downside to size

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I’m bi, but generally have far more sex with women than men. I’m about 8 inches x 5.75 and definitely a grower. I recently had sex with a fairly petite girl and it took approximately 45 minutes just to get IT in. She got very nervous when she saw me hard and even said she hadn’t expected that from how I looked in pants. I did oral, took my time, but the penetration act was SLOW. The crazy thing is the longer it took the more turned on I got as I kept asking her if I should just stop and she kept begging me not to.

Anyone else had an experience like this?
 

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Most of the time man. I’m 4.5 inches soft.m but almost double my size hard. The penetration can take forever sometimes especially with petite girls. (My favorite). Just gotta take it slow and use lots of lube.
 

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It took me 2 years to go balls deep in my wife. It was 2 1/2 years before I was able to cum in her and most of the work was from a BJ and finishing in her.
It was 3+ years before she could take a full night of fun. Now 20 years and 1 kid later I still bottom her out. The piercings actually allow me to go deep without causing her as much discomfort.
The first time I entered her she yelped. Then she tried sitting on me screamed then. She then guided me into her and was shocked by what was happening. Went 2 hours with my head just pushing in, my corona was still visible. I got deeper each night.
She did not have Hyman but was a vergin.
 

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Most of the time man. I’m 4.5 inches soft.m but almost double my size hard. The penetration can take forever sometimes especially with petite girls. (My favorite). Just gotta take it slow and use lots of lube.
It's amazing that there are still guys around who think it's macho not to use lube. I'm glad I'm not beer-can thick, but I still know there are times when lube is needed
 

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Lube is almost always a hep with anal and there are some women who don't lubricate much naturally either. I don't get any enjoyment from struggling to get into a hole and hurting my partner in the process. But I get huge enjoyment from being inside so....
 

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I recently had sex with a fairly petite girl and it took approximately 45 minutes just to get IT in.

I hear you. I have perennial problems getting IT in. Even for the simplest issues, they can rarely resolve them over the phone, and won’t stray from their desks into another department. I’ve never had to ask for their help with sex, though - but I can’t afford one of those lifelike sex robots.
 

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If I don’t use lube it is a slow long entry, but she will be soar the next day. It helps that I do leak a lot of Previn, but I still use lube to avoid that issue.

She will be soar... like an eagle?

And I wondered what had happened to Andre Previn...
 
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I’m bi, but generally have far more sex with women than men. I’m about 8 inches x 5.75 and definitely a grower. I recently had sex with a fairly petite girl and it took approximately 45 minutes just to get IT in. She got very nervous when she saw me hard and even said she hadn’t expected that from how I looked in pants. I did oral, took my time, but the penetration act was SLOW. The crazy thing is the longer it took the more turned on I got as I kept asking her if I should just stop and she kept begging me not to.

Anyone else had an experience like this?

Yes my first time with my current partner. I have very similar stats to you (half an inch shorter). First time was actually impossible. We then had it a few times with me partially in. Ancient history now although she can still be very tight on me and finds some things painful. And lube is a part of life.
 

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All depends on the girl. I’m 8.5x7. Too much for some and just right for others. I have even had a few that could handle a lot more girth. You just never know what you are gonna get. I have also found sometimes it fits well with a women and then another time it doesn’t fit so well. It’s always a process of warm up and lube. That’s why I prefer size queens. They warm up faster and can usually handle my size a lot better
 

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I’m bi, but generally have far more sex with women than men. I’m about 8 inches x 5.75 and definitely a grower. I recently had sex with a fairly petite girl and it took approximately 45 minutes just to get IT in. She got very nervous when she saw me hard and even said she hadn’t expected that from how I looked in pants. I did oral, took my time, but the penetration act was SLOW. The crazy thing is the longer it took the more turned on I got as I kept asking her if I should just stop and she kept begging me not to.

Anyone else had an experience like this?
I’ve had it very snug, but not like that. Sounds pretty hot, but maybe not all the time

Doesn’t sound like a downside so much as a great time with you getting so turned on
 

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Many times. Sometimes it takes extended foreplay (which I love). Sometimes it takes multiple hookups for a woman to get used to it. Sometimes our bits just don't fit no matter what.

In addition to extra foreplay, cunnilingus and lube I recommend a vibrator like a fingertip or stick model. Some women bring their own but I don't mind giving them away as gifts.
 

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My wife said that she would often use her Ex's huge cock stimulate herself as in this video (this is not her of course. Unfortunately she never recorded herself with the huge Ex). Is this a technique that is very commonly used by women when they try to get a big cock inside them? This is such a turn on for me - my wife often explains how she would use his big cock like a big dildo exactly as in the video. She enjoyed that there was "so much cock to play with"... Because I am so small this has NEVER happened to me.

 

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My wife said that she would often use her Ex's huge cock stimulate herself as in this video (this is not her of course. Unfortunately she never recorded herself with the huge Ex). Is this a technique that is very commonly used by women when they try to get a big cock inside them? This is such a turn on for me - my wife often explains how she would use his big cock like a big dildo exactly as in the video. She enjoyed that there was "so much cock to play with"... Because I am so small this has NEVER happened to me.

Nice video! The best way for me to fit in tight women is when they lay on their side. My cock is fairly round but that position for initial entry seems to work when others fail. I think it’s mental too...when they give up or are mentally defeated and scared it’s just not going to fit.