3.I do agree that after a divorce alot of men get taken through the ringer but alot of women don't want it. In several states they are required to hand over to much. And also alot of women are made to take the child as a standard state practice and wether they want it or not the states require that the father pay child support. Point: my brother got a divorce and his ex didn't want child support because she knew he couldn't afford it,she didn't want him financially hurting, the state made him pay even though she went to them and told them she had her own money. So lets not listen to this man on shit like that shall we.
Here he also stated that women initiate 80% of divorces. Did he bother to look up what the 80% divided down to? Nope. Several are because of physical or emotional abuse or both, other are because they are being cheated, several are just because they grew apart, and again others are because they realized that they were being taken advantage of. Did he think about that or even look into why, nope.
And once again assuming that single mothers don't know how to find decent men because of an initial attraction to a guy is bullshit. That is like faulting a guy because he has a thing for blondes or asian girls. You cannot help what your initial attraction is for. But that does not mean a person cannot look deeper or in another direction. And this also seems to make no sense. As a decent man should he recommend giving yourself to her as a potential date to see a decent guy. This guy is not a decent man actually. He is telling you that all single mother play the victim, are sluts, but never put put at the same time and that they are hard working and care for their own ( he did word it like that but he did say they work all of the time and spend time with their kids), and are only out for good guys because their biological clock is ticking and that they want to take a man for his money and basically trick you into being the father for their kids basically dumping them on you.
If you are dumb enough to go out with a single mom and propose to her and not expect to act as a father figure to her kids and help out financially you are a egotistical moron. Plain and simple. Don't be that dumb. You are better than that.
4. He then blames her for not getting up earlier to ready herself. Has he tried to be a single parent? I doubt it. Once again that is even hard enough to do when you don't have kids or a spouse. This man is shallow. Don't be this guy. Be a better man than this. PLEASE! Be a better man. There is no real education in these videos.
He then says that if you commit to her she is basically asking to be a house wife which is completely unfounded. Most single mothers wouldn't dream of giving up their jobs because they need to know that if anything happens to this relationship she and her children will still be ok. She will more than likely drop some hours so she doesn't feel like she is dying because in a committed relationship you help take care of each other, in many ways, not always the same. And you both discuss it before hand. Of coarse you will help with the finances because that is what married people do. And once again if you commit to a single mother than it is no surprise that you will be their father. This is not something anyone of you want to take lightly. So ge needs to stop acting like this would be a surprise and stop acting like a victim to a decision he should have truely thought about before commiting. Most single moms will not date a guy unless they think they would be ok with her having children and what that entails.
This guy is an idiot. Let us watch some more and see what else he says that he didn't seem to truely think through shall we...
5. Bad boys are sexy. But that doesn't mean we all want to marry them. Like guys (sorry trying not to generalize) having a thing for hot and crazy. Same thing. It doesn't mean you want to marry them it conjures up sexual attraction. Once again that does not mean that these are the only types of peope girls or guys are attracted too. And if you are so shallow that you cannot see these kids for who they are that you get hung up on the fact that you are not the birthfather and so decide they they are lesser somehow then it actually shows that you are not a decent guy. Which this guy seems to be. So what if they were not produced with your sperm. So because of this these kids aren't worth it? What kind of self righteous bullshit is that?
Also in alot of these case the mothers already have homes and their own cars and 50-50 the men move in with the women not the other way around. Single moms are not leaches.And then he has the nerve to mock these children and calls them bastards. Once again if you are willing to probably be a father don't propose but don't drag her along. Don't be this shallow prick. You are better than this.
And what was that rant about everyone loving sex about?! She never said sex she said fun. Obviously his mind is in the gutter. And then she acts like she doesn't use birth control or condoms and is spreading STD's?! Where did that accusation com from? Out of his ass thats where.
Now he goes into a tangent about how they need to blame the woman putting make up on her. And once again act like she is playing a victim. She has already admitted to being attracted to the wrong type of guy and is searching for someone who is good. There is nothing wrong with wearing make up and she isn't playing a victim. The media isn't even making her out to be a victim. This guy I swear. Lets continue watching shall we...
And for the record I have 6 brothers so I am well acquainted with the plites of men. And even though they have been screwed over in many relationships does not mean that the women arent either. Relationships aren't easy. You just have to feel your way through them. So his childish mokery is ridiculous and petty. Not everyone is compatible. So yes there alot of failed relationships out there. And she may or may not be the problem but the same could be said for the guys. I am not seeing a double standard here in terms of advice being given. My brothers have hooked up with some "crazy pusy" which is the chick version of a bad boy. And yeah they got pregnant. But he should have worn a condom. It isn't like vaginas magically produce them. There were 2 people there doing the sexy time and it wasn't just the girls. My brothers were just as responsible as they were. The girls never asked for child support and they never took advantage of them. It just happened. However that being said they were all adults about it and they all did their part. Just because a chick gets pregnant doesn't mean she wanted to either.
My brother and there babies mothers tried to make it work but they never worked out. This did not mean they become enemies. And like a responsible adult wether they intended for a baby or not, like real men, my brothers did/ do work hard to try to be in their kids lives and provide in ways that they can and spend time with their children when they can. Having an open understanding in situation in situations like these is key. Everything will not be perfect. People need to try to really be understand of both sides which this guy is clearly doesn't.
Here he also stated that women initiate 80% of divorces. Did he bother to look up what the 80% divided down to? Nope. Several are because of physical or emotional abuse or both, other are because they are being cheated, several are just because they grew apart, and again others are because they realized that they were being taken advantage of. Did he think about that or even look into why, nope.
And once again assuming that single mothers don't know how to find decent men because of an initial attraction to a guy is bullshit. That is like faulting a guy because he has a thing for blondes or asian girls. You cannot help what your initial attraction is for. But that does not mean a person cannot look deeper or in another direction. And this also seems to make no sense. As a decent man should he recommend giving yourself to her as a potential date to see a decent guy. This guy is not a decent man actually. He is telling you that all single mother play the victim, are sluts, but never put put at the same time and that they are hard working and care for their own ( he did word it like that but he did say they work all of the time and spend time with their kids), and are only out for good guys because their biological clock is ticking and that they want to take a man for his money and basically trick you into being the father for their kids basically dumping them on you.
If you are dumb enough to go out with a single mom and propose to her and not expect to act as a father figure to her kids and help out financially you are a egotistical moron. Plain and simple. Don't be that dumb. You are better than that.
4. He then blames her for not getting up earlier to ready herself. Has he tried to be a single parent? I doubt it. Once again that is even hard enough to do when you don't have kids or a spouse. This man is shallow. Don't be this guy. Be a better man than this. PLEASE! Be a better man. There is no real education in these videos.
He then says that if you commit to her she is basically asking to be a house wife which is completely unfounded. Most single mothers wouldn't dream of giving up their jobs because they need to know that if anything happens to this relationship she and her children will still be ok. She will more than likely drop some hours so she doesn't feel like she is dying because in a committed relationship you help take care of each other, in many ways, not always the same. And you both discuss it before hand. Of coarse you will help with the finances because that is what married people do. And once again if you commit to a single mother than it is no surprise that you will be their father. This is not something anyone of you want to take lightly. So ge needs to stop acting like this would be a surprise and stop acting like a victim to a decision he should have truely thought about before commiting. Most single moms will not date a guy unless they think they would be ok with her having children and what that entails.
This guy is an idiot. Let us watch some more and see what else he says that he didn't seem to truely think through shall we...
5. Bad boys are sexy. But that doesn't mean we all want to marry them. Like guys (sorry trying not to generalize) having a thing for hot and crazy. Same thing. It doesn't mean you want to marry them it conjures up sexual attraction. Once again that does not mean that these are the only types of peope girls or guys are attracted too. And if you are so shallow that you cannot see these kids for who they are that you get hung up on the fact that you are not the birthfather and so decide they they are lesser somehow then it actually shows that you are not a decent guy. Which this guy seems to be. So what if they were not produced with your sperm. So because of this these kids aren't worth it? What kind of self righteous bullshit is that?
Also in alot of these case the mothers already have homes and their own cars and 50-50 the men move in with the women not the other way around. Single moms are not leaches.And then he has the nerve to mock these children and calls them bastards. Once again if you are willing to probably be a father don't propose but don't drag her along. Don't be this shallow prick. You are better than this.
And what was that rant about everyone loving sex about?! She never said sex she said fun. Obviously his mind is in the gutter. And then she acts like she doesn't use birth control or condoms and is spreading STD's?! Where did that accusation com from? Out of his ass thats where.
Now he goes into a tangent about how they need to blame the woman putting make up on her. And once again act like she is playing a victim. She has already admitted to being attracted to the wrong type of guy and is searching for someone who is good. There is nothing wrong with wearing make up and she isn't playing a victim. The media isn't even making her out to be a victim. This guy I swear. Lets continue watching shall we...
And for the record I have 6 brothers so I am well acquainted with the plites of men. And even though they have been screwed over in many relationships does not mean that the women arent either. Relationships aren't easy. You just have to feel your way through them. So his childish mokery is ridiculous and petty. Not everyone is compatible. So yes there alot of failed relationships out there. And she may or may not be the problem but the same could be said for the guys. I am not seeing a double standard here in terms of advice being given. My brothers have hooked up with some "crazy pusy" which is the chick version of a bad boy. And yeah they got pregnant. But he should have worn a condom. It isn't like vaginas magically produce them. There were 2 people there doing the sexy time and it wasn't just the girls. My brothers were just as responsible as they were. The girls never asked for child support and they never took advantage of them. It just happened. However that being said they were all adults about it and they all did their part. Just because a chick gets pregnant doesn't mean she wanted to either.
My brother and there babies mothers tried to make it work but they never worked out. This did not mean they become enemies. And like a responsible adult wether they intended for a baby or not, like real men, my brothers did/ do work hard to try to be in their kids lives and provide in ways that they can and spend time with their children when they can. Having an open understanding in situation in situations like these is key. Everything will not be perfect. People need to try to really be understand of both sides which this guy is clearly doesn't.
