"Frankly it'll be weird but hell, if I get married and my wife makes tons of money and I can be a stay at home dad...I don't think I would mind too much."
Of course you won't.
The problem is *she will*.
They cannot help it; women have a built-in emotive drive to be taken care of by their man.
It's not so bad until you have children.
Then she will resent the living hell out of you if she works and you don't.
Even if you do work, if she makes substantially more money she'll still resent you - and she's can't help it. It's not a choice; it's built-in emotion.
Most people do NOT have a career. Most people have a job that pays the bills.
Feminism is good for lesbians and high-powered career women which is only about 15% of women; for most women it's a raw deal. It means both partners have to work now just to make ends meet and she misses out on a good chunk of motherhood.
(The bottom-line effect of feminism is sky-rocketing real-estate prices - "keeping up with the Jone's.")
(Do not confuse feminism with women's suffrage.)
"Hopefully if I ever have kids the job I have now will allow for me not to miss those special little moments when they are small and cuddly."
Look how dettached from reality young women are (because they are fed BS their whole lives about how they can 'have it all').
They actually think they can be a mother /and/ work - that they can work and "not miss those special little moments".
- If she works then when her toddler falls down and scraps their knee they will cry for their >care-taker< not their biological mother. That's the "special-moment" you will get to partake in.
More tenaciously, men's right have been trampled.
Women have reproductive rights and option that we do not.
Women (I am *not* kidding) are allowed to rape boys and then sue them once they turn 18 for child-support and they get it (multiple cases in multiple jurisdictions.)
One example:
GlennSacks.com
That is how far the insanity has gone now.
If you have a son and you give two shits about him, instruct him not to marry.
The first tool in the box is marriage-strike.
Dont Marry
No man in America should ever marry again until the laws are fixed.
In 95% of cases custodial custody has been awarded to the woman.
That is the custody that matters; the one that determine which side of the child-support table (and payment) you are on.
In any other area of life, if there was a 95%:5% discrepancy an affirmative-action plan would be put into place to correct the obviously sexist system.
On top of this, studies have demonstrated that children that grow-up in single-father homes fare far, far better in life than children that grow-up in single-mother homes.
The reason, like it or not, is because money matters and women, generally speaking, are incompetent. They cannot take care of themselves much less provide in excess for their children so single-mother spend their child-support money on >their< expenses; on their rent/mortgage, food, gas, etc... etc... (the /steal/ from their kids to compensate for their low-quality jobs.)
When Dad has custody all the money stays in one-place and doesn't get split to support two households and if the kids are young they go to day-care where they are taken care by educated and experienced child-care professionals; not frustrated and exhausted mothers.
Once you understand all of that, you final come to understand the real reason we have "child-support" is so that men that bang these incompetent women have to pay. If they don't pay, then the state has to pay them (welfare). Money. Money. Money.
It's incompetent-mother-support.
If you don't pay the incompetent mothers then their brats grow-up destitute and become hoodlums. So the choice is pay for their first 18 years of life or the next 20 (through prison).
So ironically the next great step that is necessary for men's right is to fight for competent mothers. That means she has to finish her education.
That means she can't have a child as a teenager nor young adult.
It means promoting Family Planning.
We went forth. We multiplied. That mission is accomplished.
She has 10,000 eggs; all of them cannot become children.
She now has the tools and the right to control when and if she procreates.
Abortion is the only method that is 100% effective.
Even if she is abstinent she can be raped.
If she does not control when and if she procreates then her entire life is dictated by when and if she gets pregnant.
It is insanity, utterly incompatible with the post-feminist world.
Rights come with responsibilities.
America has the highest-rate of teenage pregnancy in the first-world.