All this talk about sex everday has me wondering. What's the fastest any of you women have ever had an orgasm? And men, what's the fastest a woman has ever had an orgasm with you? I've never had an orgasm with any of my partners. If hurts at first every time, then it neutral, then it starts to feel kinda good, then it fades away to nothing. Fingering isn't pleasurable and oral sex does nothing either and anal is pure pain. Is there a sort of type of female erectile dysfunction? I also was wondering if you would tell me what made you have an orgasm so fast or guys tell me what you did to make her cum.