I ask because a lot, if not most, people aren't. That's just a fact we can all agree with. What exactly do you not feel confident about? How is improved or gotten worse around the years? Please use this thread as a place to find relief and similarities with others, not as a tool to bash or flame someone. Anyways, I've dealt with a couple. At first, it was definitely the fact that I am not circumcised. If you didn't know, being uncircumcised in America is something that has pretty much always been bashed because it's misunderstood by the masses and since it has to do with sex, it charts towards the weird and the gross. I couldn't tell you how many times throughout middle or high school (and still sometimes to this day) have I heard how supposedly gross a foreskin is. This had me traumatized more than anything when I was breaking into sex. I assumed I was one of the very, very few in my school who wasn't circumcised and I felt that if I were to expose myself to a girl, she would tell everyone and ridicule me. I later realized through trial and error that most girls don't realize that I wasn't circumcised. Maybe I have my relatively short foreskin to thank for this. I've never been called out and I've been in situations where girls whom I had some kind of sexual interaction with claim they think foreskins are gross and would never touch one. Little did they know they had one down their throat or up their ass, LOL. Honestly it's gotten to the point now where I really feel comfortable about it because most girls don't really notice it, and if they do, they just don't care I guess. Anyway, moving on...second was size. This was something I absolutely did not worry about at first. This wasn't because I thought I was big, I just really gave it absolutely no thought whatsoever. If I gave it any thought, I just assumed I was "normal" sized, there were maybe some bigger but that's it. Then one day, after a few different sex partners, I got the impression that one of them told my friends that I had a small dick. At that moment in time, the entire scenario made sense..after analyzing things and filling gaps with my own best guesses, I made the conclusion that she told people I had a small dick. This is when everything came crashing down and the only reason why I'm on this site. I honestly thought I had a tiny dick and it destroyed my self esteem for months. My ego is still bruised. Some of you may look at my pic and ask yourself why I was so crushed/convinced she said this, but then again I feel my picture isn't accurate. When I measure my dick, I get over 6" but less than 7". This is pretty much average size. My picture makes it look like it's close to 8", but that's because the bottom inch or so of my "shaft" is actually my scrotum. Meh. So here's where I'm at now. I joined this site and things got much better since. A lot better, actually...I feel very happy and comfortable with my penis. Oh, until I find out in one way or the other that some girl I want to get with is a size queen. I hate to admit it but this turns me off completely because I don't want to face what I did earlier (which was roughly a year ago). I'm obviously not totally over my size worries, but I feel very comfortable now with any girl as long as she doesn't give me the impression that she's all about big dicks. I just hope I can finally get over it all ASAP.