The first guy

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  1. D_Nathan_Hale_Yes

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    Hi all -

    I'm curious to know from you ladies: when you had your first orgasm from sex with a male partner, was it because of you or the guy? In other words, had you already had orgasms on your own and basically just made/told the guy what to do, or did he totally rock your world and give you your first on his own?
     
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    Once again, a question I can't answer! I'm pretty sure I knew how to have one before I started having sex.....

    Damn! If I'd known there was gonna be a quiz, I woulda taken notes! :wink:
     
  3. dolfette

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    orgasm during sex?
    never happened.
    never going to happen.
    orgasms are for me.
    i'm not sharing them.
     
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    I don't remember my first orgasm from sex. I've just always had them. It wasn't until years after I started having sex that I realised that being very orgasmic during sex wasn't necessarily a given for all women.
     
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    I knew how to climax alone. It was long before I could really climax with partners. Before then, when I was satisfied, I faked it so they would stop. The first time it happened with a male partner (had my first partnered orgasms with other girls) it wasn't because he was so special. It was because I was finally able.
     
  6. ManlyBanisters

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    Well the first orgasm I had during sex with a man was because I was stimulating my clit myself. Does that count?
     
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    I'm curious to know from you ladies: when you had your first orgasm from sex with a male partner, was it because of you or the guy?It was because of both. He had the skill of working my gspot and I let my walls down. I've had a really hard time orgasming with men because I just have intimacy problems. And I couldn't relax/let go In other words, had you already had orgasms on your own and basically just made/told the guy what to do, or did he totally rock your world and give you your first on his own? I've been cumming on my own since I was 12. For me, like I said, it's a combination of him being able to give me what my body needs and for me being able to relax and let him.
     
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    I kind of think sex is like mutual masturbation...I mean, when you (ericroberts) have an orgasm, you are quite literally masturbating within your girlfriend's vagina. And she may be rubbing her clit against your body and masturbating that way. As for vaginal orgasms, can't speak for that.
     
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    ... Wouldn't she be rubbing her vagina against his dick? The mechanics of it aren't really that different...
     
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    The first time I had an orgasm through penetration alone was with my most recent partner, 10 years after I started having sex. What a wait!
     
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    The difference between masturbation and sex for me is as much about where my mind is as what is rubbing what.

    When I masturbate my mind is elsewhere, concentrating on some fantasy and that mainly is what brings me to orgasm. When HB and I are having sex I'm right there, concentrating on each sensation and that's what brings me to orgasm.
     
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    I have been with at least one woman who had her first intercourse-induced orgasm with me. It seems that the trick was the way we coupled up, and the way she rubbed her crotch against my pubic bone, and the control she had over the pace and the pressure. It wasn't reallly anything I did physically except for providing the structural support to allow it all to happen.
     
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    1st marriage lasted 5 years with very few orgasms all of which were really a DIY job. Then no sex for about a year.

    Then met the man who would be husband No.2. He was very big and as soon as he went in I exploded. Probably the best ever.
     
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    never had one... :bag:
     
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    Really? So...does that make masturbation different after the fact? As in now needing dildos, etc. to get off?
     
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