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I'm not posting as its impossible to post anything on here now without getting wrong. But his post about hom struggling with his mental health was rather sad and touching. He basically was talking about how deeking validation from men for attention and validation was leading him to feel depressed. Just a common theme especially with gay men.
It would have meant more if he didn’t go straight back to thirst trapping a week or so after making that post. It came across very attention seeking and looking for validation when he originally posted that in hindsight.
 

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It would have meant more if he didn’t go straight back to thirst trapping a week or so after making that post. It came across very attention seeking and looking for validation when he originally posted that in hindsight.
Unfortunately there is alot of that in our community. I'm not saying everyone but the majority of gay men always seem to seek validation though the means of empty sex or getting their body out on twitter. Alot put on a front but behind closed door it's a different story filled with loneliness and feeling the need they need to act this way to get to get come sort of "connection" with another man even if it means them convincing themselves it's more than what It is.
 
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Unfortunately there is alot of that in our community. I'm not saying everyone but the majority of gay men always seem to seek validation though the means of empty sex or getting their body out on twitter. Alot put on a front but behind closed door it's a different story filled with loneliness and feeling the need they need to act this way to get to get come sort of "connection" with another man even if it means them convincing themselves it's more than what It is.
Agree. Fittest wizard has a lot going for him so hopefully he grows out of the validation b***s***. He’s awesome! You can tell it from his vibe and his friends.
Validation seeking = manipulative relationships that usually fail.
 
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Agree. Fittest wizard has a lot going for him so hopefully he grows out of the validation b***s***. He’s awesome! You can tell it from his vibe and his friends.
Validation seeking = manipulative relationships that usually fail.
There is nothing better than when you can sit with a gay man who acts like this and you just say " you don't need to be seeking empty validation off people you will never know" and it totally changes their perspective. We are to busy asking for dick and hole pics and foget their an actual person who probably just needs someone to tell them their beautiful without all the other BS.
 

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Some of them are just attention whores because they want to be in the spotlight all day. Let’s not actual if the gay community isn’t filled with those types of gays.
 
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