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ok ladie please tell what the friend zone is , why u have one and what make u put a guy int the friend zone
I think you're going to have to ask other men what a friendzone is.
ok ladie please tell what the friend zone is , why u have one and what make u put a guy int the friend zone
er... a zone in like how they put General Zod?
er.. it's just sectioning off people into zones of dateability. it's normal. not every woman I meet and become friends with I would want to date, for various reasons. Could be looks, character/personality, interests, goals, what have you. Men and women who complain about the friendzone IMO have false entitlements. Human beings aren't entitled to anything in life.![]()
Friends zone is another way of saying I don't find you sexually attractive, but I still want to continue the friendship.
I disagree. I have many male friends who are very attractive, and if I weren't in a committed relationship I might want to be more than friends with them. I happen to value my partner much more.
Like I said in the other topic (if I remember right)
It's understandable that people who have their feelings of attraction rejected will be upset about it. It's especially upsetting if you still hang around them as friends with you're underlying emotions being denied.
People get upset when someone they like reject them. People get more upset when that person they like still exists in their lives. It's almost like their feelings are being taunted and teased.
It's not anyone's fault. But I do think people have the right to feel upset when they want a romantic or sexual relationship with someone and are rejected. Feelings sometimes don't go away.
Some women and men might say "That person should be HAPPY that we're still friends! How dare he expect sex from me!" But this is somewhat warped perception of the ideas of attraction and rejection. It's not a "sense of entitlement" that makes someone whine about being in friendzone. It's having strong feelings for someone and having those feelings crushed.
Like I said in the other topic (if I remember right)
It's understandable that people who have their feelings of attraction rejected will be upset about it. It's especially upsetting if you still hang around them as friends with you're underlying emotions being denied.
People get upset when someone they like reject them. People get more upset when that person they like still exists in their lives. It's almost like their feelings are being taunted and teased.
It's not anyone's fault. But I do think people have the right to feel upset when they want a romantic or sexual relationship with someone and are rejected. Feelings sometimes don't go away.
Some women and men might say "That person should be HAPPY that we're still friends! How dare he expect sex from me!" But this is somewhat warped perception of the ideas of attraction and rejection. It's not a "sense of entitlement" that makes someone whine about being in friendzone. It's having strong feelings for someone and having those feelings crushed.
Being in the friendzone sucks, it hurts to be told you are not good enough to date but ok to be friends. Makes you feel like less of a man. Then you see the same girl dating men that are not nearly as good as you are.
Being in the friendzone sucks, it hurts to be told you are not good enough to date but ok to be friends. Makes you feel like less of a man. Then you see the same girl dating men that are not nearly as good as you are.
You've really got it all wrong. There are many things that go into being friends and just as many that go into being lovers. Those things, however, are different, but neither is the lesser of the other. I have to say that some of my best relationships with women have been as friends and not as lovers. If you are lucky, you will find the one that is both...that's the keeper!