Most gays I know have dated at least one woman in their lives, some were even married. Most of these guys also admit to knowing they were gay almost their entire lives, and only dating women as an attempt to fit the mold. To those that have been on the shit end of this situation, how did you deal with the betrayal? Are you still friends with him? After 10 or 20 years of friendship, do you still think about it and hold it against him?