B_Hung Jon
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This has been an interesting discussion but I prefer to speak about it all from my own life experience and what guys, who are my friends actually do. As I've said before, I've had drunk buddies come on to me big time at parties when they think no one else sees them. It's a game of sorts. They try to kiss me, grope me, pull me toward them and eventually are squeezing my butt. Some have gone so far as to try to pull off my jeans and just go for my dick. Yes, and they all think of themselves as completely straight. I don't mind the whole thing because they're drunk, and I can just brush off their behavior as poor judgement and push them away. But the reality is still there. I've also had buddies try to feel my dick when I was sleeping (which freaks me out BTW). They follow it up with some lame excuse. To me this is all internalized homophobia which doesn't allow men to explore their sexual desires in an open and healthy way. And yes, all the cultural baggage that comes being perceived as gay or bi is just not worth it to these guys. When I have challenged guys' groping behavior after the fact, they usually pretend that they don't remember or were too drink. Luckily a few of my friends have actually acknowledged the truth and have either apologized or admitted to some sexual attraction.
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