The Gay Eye Contact/Cruising Thing

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by closetbi, Oct 29, 2010.

  1. closetbi

    closetbi New Member

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    Can someone please explain this to me. It's happened and at moments I just catch myself like SHIT look away. Does the eye contact/stare thing really work? If I'm too shy to approach a guy, is it wise to watch him, smile/wink maybe? I feel like there's some kind of underground gay code that I need to catch up on.
     
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    I've been trying to figure it out as well.
     
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    surprise: Your avatar is a perfect example as to how to deliver proper eye contact & expression when cruising gay men. OK, maybe not.. but it's definitely funny given the thread topic. :biggrin:
     
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