I have seen a lot of posts on here about guys showing 100% Straight and around 90% straight and getting hell when they talk about thinking of other men or maybe some mutual JO or Oral, and are told that maybe they are more gay than that. But do we ever see any completely gay or 90-80% gay people getting shit because they dont moved towards saying they are more straight? If any guys on here are 100% gay and have hooked up with women or find their bodies attractive please let me know why you arent somewhat straight. Even if you are 90%, please do tell why not more!
My first impulse was to be rude. But I thought better of it, and decided to point out that we live in a heterocentric world in which it is still thought that heterosexuality is seen as the base and the norm and in which homosexuality is still often regarded as stigmatic. Therefore it is still a frequent occurance to encounter people who think of themselves as heterosexual when they do infact harbour homosexual desires.
If some of the gay members of LPSG are sometimes less than patient with posters who define themselves as 100% heterosexual while expressing a desire to or an enjoyment of same sex sex it's because of the implied insult this represents.
I class myself as 99% gay because roughly 99% of my sexual experiences have been with other men, and I have never really fantasised about women. I don't however rule out having sex with women again at some point entirely. If I claimed I was 100% gay and ignored the fact that I have had sex with women before and might do so again in the future it would imply that I thought that those heterosexual sex acts and possibilities were somehow of less significance or secondary worth than my gay sexual experiences.
The same is true of those who claim 100% heterosexuality while ejoying or expressing desire to enjoy homosexual sex, they imply that somehow these past experiences of same sex sex or fantasies about it "don't count" or aren't as significant or real.
If a guy posts that he likes getting wanked off or sucked off by other guys and yet pretends that he's 100% heterosexual he's denying reality and insulting homosexuals at the same time. Of course how homosexual a guy wishes to say he is is up to him but others will react, and have a right to, if he then gives them reason to think he's not as straight as he says he is.
What's your problem with people reacting to the posts and public information of other members ?
I have no problem standing over my own posts, and the percentages I make public regarding my sexuality, I'm expect others to do the same.