1. Welcome To LPSG
    Welcome to LPSG.com. If you are here because you are looking for the most amazing open-minded fun-spirited sexy adult community then you have found the right place. We also happen to have some of the sexiest members you'll ever meet. Signup below and come join us.


The I MISS JASON ELS THREAD

Discussion in 'Et Cetera, Et Cetera' started by HellsKitchenmanNYC, Apr 4, 2010.

  1. HellsKitchenmanNYC

    HellsKitchenmanNYC Expert Member

    Joined:
    Oct 31, 2005
    Posts:
    5,713
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    126
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    New York
    I was thinking today when some things went wrong on my pc again when Jason came and helped me out. I think he also caused some trouble....lol. It's been a few months now since Jason passed and it still seems weird that this has happened. I turn on my Yahoo messenger and his name is still there, his name is still on my cell phone, I still have alll my emails and cell phone pics of us...the ones Nick8 hates...lol.
    I don't know know why exactly that I'm posting this thread to you folks other than I was having one of those moments of missing someone and since you all know him too I think we could just give ourselves a collective hug in missing our friend. the NYC mafia will never be the same again w/o him.
     
  2. luka82

    luka82 Sexy Member

    Joined:
    Nov 1, 2007
    Posts:
    5,060
    Likes Received:
    36
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    somewhere
    I was just thinking about him this morning....
    I was going threw my LPSG friend`s list and I saw his name stand there!
    So I remembered...
     
  3. D_Gunther Snotpole

    D_Gunther Snotpole Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Oct 3, 2005
    Posts:
    13,643
    Likes Received:
    53
    Yeah, I've had thoughts about how much I miss Jason.
    Dude couldn't play a game if he wanted to.
    Which had a downside.
    But basically the biggest of big upsides.
    And that's what I remember.

    I sometimes stumble on some thread where Jason posted extensively ... and I remember how, sure, he wanted to be understood ... but basically he just wanted to get his version down, and you could do with it as you pleased ... accept it or not.

    Jason was almost indifferent,in a good way, to any response you might have.

    But eager to help if you had questions about what he'd said.

    He was off on some planet, so not quite merging with you, ever or at all ... and yet perfectly content that you filled whatever space you filled ... never having any sense that there could ever be a zero-sum game about respective size or oomph or strength of presence.

    Not at all charismatic, yet entirely likeable, once you 'got' him.

    Not that he made any effort to see that you 'got' him.
    Not knowing what that could mean.
     
    #3 D_Gunther Snotpole, Apr 4, 2010
    Last edited: Apr 4, 2010
  4. Mem

    Mem Sexy Member

    Joined:
    Jul 4, 2006
    Posts:
    7,917
    Likes Received:
    34
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    FL
    I miss him too. Every time I see his avatar in a post I get sad.
     
  5. HellsKitchenmanNYC

    HellsKitchenmanNYC Expert Member

    Joined:
    Oct 31, 2005
    Posts:
    5,713
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    126
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    New York
    I'm thinking about our discussions about carnivorous plants as he loved them and so do I but he knew knew much more about them even tho I'm the Plant Doctor! The one thing I got from Jason, well not he one thing, but after he passed was his carnivorous plants book. I love it.
     
    #5 HellsKitchenmanNYC, Apr 4, 2010
    Last edited: Apr 4, 2010
  6. 798686

    798686 Guest

    I miss him too - he brought a lot of balance and common sense to the board, and could help stabilize you if you went off on one slightly. :/
     
  7. Rugbypup

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 25, 2007
    Posts:
    3,121
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    138
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Wellington (WGN, NZ)
    Oh no... I didn't know till reading this now.

    I remember him saying he was unwell, but can anyone tell me what's happened?

    ...

    My apologies all, the consequence of dipping in and out of this site from time to time is that you miss a great many things that happen.

    I have just read and caught up on the previous threads that explain what Jason was going through and what happened.

    I must apologies for my ignorance of the situation, Jason was friend to many and like so many here, to some many here, even if in name alone, he was a familiar part of the LPSG furniture.

    I didn't know him very well and certainly do not have the words to do justice to the man that those here close to him can and have done. This isn't to say I'm not shock and saddened to hear of his death. I remember him being unwell and even wishing him well last year but I was truly ignorant as to the extent of his illness.

    How very sad.

    My sympathies and condolences to his friends here and his family and friends in the real world.
     
    #7 Rugbypup, Apr 4, 2010
    Last edited: Apr 4, 2010
  8. nudeyorker

    nudeyorker Cherished Member

    Joined:
    Nov 6, 2006
    Posts:
    22,753
    Likes Received:
    478
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    NYC/Honolulu
    Jason was one in a million. He was one of the few people who understood you could be friends with someone and argue and disagree. Many of our conversations here got taken to the mat on the telephone.
     
  9. Northland

    Northland Experimental Member

    Joined:
    Oct 22, 2007
    Posts:
    5,924
    Likes Received:
    24
    I miss him each and every day.


    There were moments where he could piss me off (and I suspect I did the same to him, as evidenced in the words of some PMs). In our final exchange, I finally apologized for an incident a month earlier. A month later he was gone, I'm glad I made the proper move, even if it was far later than it should have been. He accepted it and his final words to me, "I look forward to your return! Be well, Jason". Typical of him, to let bygones be bygones- a lesson many would do well to learn, myself included and to keep focus on the road ahead.

    When I got the news, I completely fell apart, then I sensed his presence a few days later.

    A bright light for all of us, and although able and willing to fight, he also had the clearness of mind to step out of the way when he sensed it was bound to be a futile fight with useless rants and taunts.

    I miss everything about him including the texture of his voice.
     
  10. Wish-4-8

    Wish-4-8 Experimental Member

    Joined:
    Dec 29, 2008
    Posts:
    2,721
    Likes Received:
    22
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    LA, California
    I miss the eloquence of his words and his class. Often, I ask myself before I post, "How would Jason of said this?" Seriously. And I didnt know him as well as some members, but his effects are everlasting. (at least to me.)
     
  11. basque9

    Gold Member Verified

    Joined:
    Jun 1, 2006
    Posts:
    5,897
    Albums:
    43
    Likes Received:
    268,342
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Baltimore (MD, US)
    Verified:
    Photo
    I think about how Jason and I shared a common battle at the same time! Mine succumbed to surgery and chemo and I have been back about a month. Jason, I am sad to say, fought the heroic fight...but did not make it back! I am truly sorry for that! I will remember him as a friend who condensed most clearly in my mind when I realized his struggle! May God grant him eternal peace!
     
  12. B_Nick8

    B_Nick8 Banned

    Joined:
    Jun 29, 2007
    Posts:
    11,422
    Likes Received:
    211
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    New York City, by way of Marblehead, Boston and Ge
    I miss him many times a day every single day. I wonder when that will begin to ease.
     
  13. Dave NoCal

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Sep 5, 2006
    Posts:
    2,614
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    2,157
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Sacramento (CA, US)
    I miss him too, although I didn't know him very well. I like to think he derived real benefits from his time here.
    Dave
     
  14. ghb69

    ghb69 Sexy Member

    Joined:
    Aug 30, 2009
    Posts:
    1,139
    Albums:
    6
    Likes Received:
    57
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Johnstown (PA, US)
    I miss him also, and remember him as a friend who liked food and enjoyed life, family, and friends.
     
  15. SilverTrain

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Aug 25, 2008
    Posts:
    4,608
    Albums:
    8
    Likes Received:
    1,202
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    USA
    Definitely an enduring loss.
     
  16. HazelGod

    HazelGod Sexy Member

    Joined:
    Dec 11, 2006
    Posts:
    7,158
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    26
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    The Other Side of the Pillow
    Agreed. Jason was a wonderful presence in these online communities...a calm, unassuming voice of reason in a realm often marked with needless strife and childish posturing.
     
  17. luka82

    luka82 Sexy Member

    Joined:
    Nov 1, 2007
    Posts:
    5,060
    Likes Received:
    36
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    somewhere
    You do not how much a person is wise until you lose such a person...
    Jason was soooooo good for this forum, a true contributor...
     
  18. HellsKitchenmanNYC

    HellsKitchenmanNYC Expert Member

    Joined:
    Oct 31, 2005
    Posts:
    5,713
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    126
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    New York
    Ahhh what can I say. Jason will be eternally missed and some of us are going upstate this weekend for his memorial. It will be totally bittersweet. Sad that we loved him and will miss him and bitter that medicine could not help him. There won't be another Jason ELs believe me!
     
  19. D_Andreas Sukov

    D_Andreas Sukov Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Oct 6, 2008
    Posts:
    2,862
    Likes Received:
    8
    He was definately one of the people from this forum that i would want to sit down and talk to in real life. But then, i think we can all say that about him.
     
  20. HellsKitchenmanNYC

    HellsKitchenmanNYC Expert Member

    Joined:
    Oct 31, 2005
    Posts:
    5,713
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    126
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    New York
    I must tell you Jason's memorial today was very moving and happy/sad. Lovely readings and rememberences and songs from family and friends in an 1810 church followed by a lovely reception at his mom's beautiful place. His family truly is wonderful. In a way it was by turns sweet and hard to take at the same time. You know what I mean it's hard really to put into words when someone you loved dies.
     
  21. DaveyR

    DaveyR Retired Moderator

    Joined:
    Jun 15, 2006
    Posts:
    5,423
    Likes Received:
    21
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Northumberland
    I'm glad that the memory of Jason lives on through this forum as I'm sure it does in many other ways too.
     
  22. D_Gunther Snotpole

    D_Gunther Snotpole Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Oct 3, 2005
    Posts:
    13,643
    Likes Received:
    53
    I really miss Jason.
    And he's proven irreplaceable.
     
  23. Mem

    Mem Sexy Member

    Joined:
    Jul 4, 2006
    Posts:
    7,917
    Likes Received:
    34
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    FL
    I'm glad that you were able to honor his memory.
     
  24. silvertriumph2

    Gold Member Verified

    Joined:
    Aug 26, 2007
    Posts:
    5,688
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    7,263
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Eastcoast USA (NYC-Manhattan)
    Verified:
    Photo

    I awoke this morning thinking about Jason and the memorial planned for this weekend.
    I had not realized it was actually today that it was to take place...for some reason I
    thought it was to be on Memorial Day, this coming Monday.
    I am glad the memorial was a nice one and I am sure that it was one that he would
    have enjoyed, since so many of his friends and family would be there. How nice that
    it was in an old 1810 church.
    REST IN PEACE, Jason...
    You will always be missed.
     
  25. HellsKitchenmanNYC

    HellsKitchenmanNYC Expert Member

    Joined:
    Oct 31, 2005
    Posts:
    5,713
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    126
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    New York
    Exactly. I think Jason would have (and I'm sure he saw it all) loved everything everyone said and sang. A speech from his cousin was so touching and so funny and a few of his college pals...actually everything everyone said was touching. There were some pieces earmarked in the program that Jason handpicked. I don't know how Jason's dad held it together as well as he did talking about part of Jason's ashes being spread in his beloved Ireland. You could NOT help but get choked up when he was talking. All you wanted to do all day was hug everyone.
     
  26. Calboner

    Gold Member Verified

    Joined:
    Aug 16, 2007
    Posts:
    8,982
    Albums:
    5
    Likes Received:
    7,226
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    USA
    Verified:
    Photo
    Basque, I didn't know anything about that. I noticed that you were absent from the forum for a while, but I ascribed it to loss of interest, and then when you started showing up again, I didn't puzzle myself further about the matter. Anyway, I hope that the remission is permanent.

    As for me, I've got a close friend -- hell, he's my closest friend, no question, especially now -- who is dying of brain cancer. He has gotten the best possible treatment, but I don't think that he is going to live to celebrate his 53rd birthday in November (or if he is alive then, it will be the most heart-breaking birthday I've ever seen, because there won't be much left of him in soul or body). There's certainly no shortage of occasions for grief in the world.
     
  27. silvertriumph2

    Gold Member Verified

    Joined:
    Aug 26, 2007
    Posts:
    5,688
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    7,263
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Eastcoast USA (NYC-Manhattan)
    Verified:
    Photo

    I wish I could have attended today...just to have been a part of the continued celebration of Jason's life. But, since I couldn't, I will do it in private.
    Hells, I need a hug right now...so i'm sending one to you...and to all who appreciated Jason. It's on it's way to all of you now!
     
  28. basque9

    Gold Member Verified

    Joined:
    Jun 1, 2006
    Posts:
    5,897
    Albums:
    43
    Likes Received:
    268,342
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Baltimore (MD, US)
    Verified:
    Photo
     
  29. Tattooed Goddess

    Gold Member Verified

    Joined:
    Oct 17, 2007
    Posts:
    14,099
    Albums:
    4
    Likes Received:
    25,092
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    United States
    Verified:
    Photo
    I was going to send this privately, but you don't accept PMs. I hope you are doing much better this days. I hate to think of anyone from this forum having to go through chemo and surgery to survive. But im glad you are here, still here, and posting.

    It's been a little over 2 months since we burried my Aunt due to cancer and it was probably one of the hardest things have had to watch.
     
  30. silvertriumph2

    Gold Member Verified

    Joined:
    Aug 26, 2007
    Posts:
    5,688
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    7,263
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Eastcoast USA (NYC-Manhattan)
    Verified:
    Photo
     
  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Dismiss Notice