the idea that sex is a gift that women give to men,

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Might need a little mouth to mouth resuscitation...like in your avatar :)...Was that kiss a gift or a mutual thingie? Or just one for the cam for us to appreciate? :)
urm... he told me to. and when it comes to thing sexual, i just do as he tells me. and if i hesitate he might just make me. my sex life is NOT a model for how things should be but it suits me.
 
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I like clay models....you moulds them to suit your wants and needs. Don't forget now and then to reverse the tables...now and then:)
 

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non-sexually speaking, it's all respect and reciprocation. i'm not a marionette to him. there's a balance there. if he makes me cry he'll kiss it better. it's fucked up but it feels right.
 
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non-sexually speaking, it's all respect and reciprocation. i'm not a marionette to him. there's a balance there. if he makes me cry he'll kiss it better. it's fucked up but it feels right.
All things being balanced. Maybe there are times, rare or not, deep in thought, when he will cry, and you can kiss it better.

Very happy for you young woman :) :) :)...3 smilies
 

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It's give and take. Nobody should feel pressured or like they should do anything. It can work both ways, men aren't always up for it too. If both are in the mood then great, if one isn't then I think the other should be understanding about it.
 

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Why shouldn't I see myself as a gift?

My mum sees this in a similar way to you. I think she sees my way of looking at it as undervaluing myself. I don't think I am. I'm just coming at things from an entirely different angle.


I like clay models....you moulds them to suit your wants and needs. Don't forget now and then to reverse the tables...now and then:)

You're supposed to reverse things :eek:. I'm obviously doing it all wrong :tongue:.
 
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You're supposed to reverse things :eek:. I'm obviously doing it all wrong :tongue:.[/QUOTE]

I like things wrong side up sometimes :). I had a thought the other night of a mechanics hydraulic hoist elevated with the stainless bowl positioned underneath legs/feet, strapped to the hoist and myself with latex gloves on giving a service to the 'model' above :) Instead of a vehicle, I can see something else :biggrin1:


Feel safe in the knowing I be sitting in front of the pc....http://youtu.be/L-bU8mhogv4
 

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I'm quite comfy with knowing I'm of worth, that being intimate with me is something special, etc. I don't just fuck anybody. I don't let just anyone touch me. I still don't think sex is a gift.
 

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Fundamentally, all things should be mutual. Whether you consider yourself submissive, dominant or nothing at all; where sex is concerned you should both get something out of it. Looking at it from a cold-hearted perspective, sex still needs to provide something. Perhaps you both hate sex, but want a child - that makes it worth it. A prostitute gets money; the customer leaves happy. Even when pleasure isn't involved, if there isn't a benefit of sorts (a sense of security etc) - something's wrong. For this example, assume physical pleasure is the only important factor for the people concerned. Let's say your partner comes home, demanding sex. If you don't feel like sex but submit to that demand, it's basically rape. Or, at the very least - the relationship is one-sided. I'm repeating myself now, but both parties should benefit from it in some way.