Oh, and I noticed you ignored the girlfriend question...
Yeah, I did, because it has absolutely nothing to do with the topic at hand, and it was obviously thrown out as an attempt to insult me. Throwing insults at someone you're arguing with is a pretty barbaric thing to do and it just makes you look really stupid so I suggest you reassess how you argue.
I'm talking about how people influence people. Not how men influence women, or women influence men. Because there should be no distinction right? If you're equal to us?
Basic logic
People get pleasure from something
that something happens to be coming from another person
People make the other person mad or not in the mood to give that pleasure
the person pays the price
with a punishment
the punishment is not receiving that pleasure
It could be two men for all I care. Maybe one of the men really loves apples but the only way for him to get apples is through this other guy. He makes him mad and he's cut off from his apple supply. Altering his behavior so that he can get apples.