The Injustice Of Having A Tiny Dick
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Gay men are just generally into bigger dicks. Myself included. I mean how can i hate on them when i do the same thing myself. I'm not into guys with cocks my size. How can i expect them to be into mine? Some guys get into the size difference which is hot, but in the end most never call me back....and no it isn't my bod or personality. I know it is my cock...
That's a generalisation. Most are into average or above average cocks.
You're a guy with a hot small cock who only wants big cocks and it's clear you're after SPH.
I totally get this....I have/had the same thoughts. It serves no good purpose if we dwell on it. One could also say being gay is an injustice, but we know that’s not a healthy state of mind. We can’t change our penis size but we can change our attitude, if we want to. Life’s too short to feel bad...
If you're going to put guys with bigger cocks on pedestals and reject other guys who have smaller cocks like yourself, then you're feeding the same prejudices and bigotry which you claim to be oppressed and harmed by.
Basically if you're hot and there's sexual chemistry people will fuck you regardless of how big your cock is. Of course if you're too small or too massive it may be a physical obstacle.
Totally agree that most of the time chemistry trumps physical attributes, and leads to way better sex. But I’ve got to say, sometimes I just want a top that’s going to rearrange my guts...
They do with emotionally mature people.
There's a real maturity and emotional intelligence problems with gay men and gay culture is the cause of it.
Ironically I learned that chemistry is the trump card from guys into fisting.
I get that. Chemistry with a top has led to some great ass play sessions with toys for me, regardless of their size. A Dom top is a Dom top, even when they’re not ‘hung’.
I'm straight, so wouldn't know, although that's what I've always assumed. However, I've been cruised and propositioned by guys who've seen me naked at the gym. I know it's probably a minority but there seem to be some guys who are turned on by fit, good-looking guys with small dicks.
But I take your point. I had overlooked that you were gay. Your sexual preference isn't indicated. I based my reply on my experience as a straight guy, where apparently size, although important, isn't a killer issue for most women.
It's because you're fit and good looking. That trumps big cocks with most gay men.
Size queens are usually only after the cock. I've seen heaps of average and unattractive older guys score young hot things because they're hung - and that's the only reason they got picked up. So looks aren't important to big cock hunters.
that's the thing - i mean i even admit it. I like big cocks. I don't like small dicks. Im not feeding into anything. It is just a preference. I'd 1000% rather be with a slightly less attractive guy with a big cock than a hotter guy with a dick like mine. I think that's pretty close to what most gay guys prefer. to be honest there is no way i'd be with a guy with a cock like mine, but i wouldn't say that's feeding into anything. Just a preference, but to be honest it seems to be a perference of 99% of gay guys.
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I'm so tired of your "idealization" argument, specifically as people here - including myself - have told you point blank we like your dick. You just choose to disregard those statements because it doesn't fit into your self-pitying narrative. It's also incredibly frustrating because there are MANY people in this world who don't idealize the size of a dick one way or the other. So you're asking them to create an issue where there was not one before. I've told you time and time and time again that, based on your body and dick alone, I'd sleep with you. But again, you just write it off because it suits you to continue placing such emphasis on size. Not only that, but you want the idealization, but you don't want anyone to have a kink about it. You don't want a sexual partner, you want a robot to bleep out pre-programmed phrases like "I idealize your dick above all others in the galaxy. Your dick is the most perfect dick I have ever seen." You're asking for something very specific that most men just simply do not get. I have never had anyone say, "I idealize the size of your dick" to me. Even as a gay man I'VE heard women talk about their preferences running smaller and how big dicks aren't all they're cracked up to be, etc etc. I've told you myself how smaller ones are advantageous to me.
What issues, exactly, do you think my dick has solved for me? 0. None. Nadda. And if your life is so blessed that the only issues you have could be solved with a couple extra inches of dick, then yes by all means, I'd switch with you in a heartbeat. Hell, I'd swap now without the glory your life must be because I can tell you point blank my dick has never solved a single issue for me. Not one. And I know my value as a human and a sexual partner is far greater than dick size. And I know you're gonna say, "Well it's never created an issue for you either", so I'll nip that in the bud right now. It has. Being uncircumcised led to high school taunting and people who didn't want to sleep with me. And other grown-ass adults who don't understand it and think it's ugly. This whole website is littered with judgment about uncut dicks and gossip and false stereotypes. And I know you're gonna say, "Well at least you can change that", but I didn't WANT to, nor did I ever feel like I should have to. It was tougher when I was 20, but now that I'm a grown adult, I don't give a fuck if someone doesn't want to sleep with me because of it. It's their loss, not mine. If that is the only hangup people have that causes them to not sleep with you, then why be desperate for their approval? I'm not trying to say that small dick judgment doesn't exist, but you gotta move beyond that at some point. There are millions of people out there who either like what you have or do not care one way or the other.
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Just to piggyback off this a little: We're friends with a straight couple who is in the middle of getting a divorce right now. I saw the man's dick back during our more drunken, headier days when we all hopped into a hot tub. Yeah, it was pretty damn big. It also often showed in his pants. But now, his soon-to-be ex AND his mistress have both said separately that he's a "two-pump chump", that he's a selfish lover, and that it doesn't feel good.
And I know this sounds like the start of a gay porn, but I have slept with twins. (Way back in the day, and not at the same time.) One had a huge dick and the other had a small one. The hung one was a shit lover, and the whole experience was rather unspectacular. The smaller one rocked my fucking world. I would still to this day choose him over his hung brother. Having a big dick is NOT the be-all, end-all to life's issues that people seem to think it is. And if all you want is bragging rights, then you want a big dick for the wrong reasons.
Yeah, you may say you like it, but in reality, all other things being equal, none would want to be small, including you. Yeah, its fine and great, as long as it is somebody else's problem and you are not the one having to deal with it.
Many people in the world do not care either way, really. You realistically believe that they have a preference for EVERYTHING ELSE, height, body type, build, hair, eye color, personality, economics, etc etc etc, but just miraculously and all of a sudden, all else being equal, there is absolutely no preference whatsoever when it comes down to sex and penis size? Really??
Read the threads of best reactions gotten by men with big dicks and tell me nobody ever says that, a reaction small guys will never get.
Your dick may have not solved any problems, but it has not given you any either. Your circumcision status aside, which you prefer, is something you can control and many actually like and desire. Not true with small.
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