This brings up an interesting question for me. Is it too far to get a vicarious thrill from what's meant to be a harmless outlet for entertainment when one feels oppressed and has nowhere to put that anger?
Opining on your question: It's only too far if the vicarious thrill usurps moral integrity (assuming it exists) and festers further hate that affects innocents. I don't believe it's all on our conscious to decide; our subconscious may be in opposition, unbeknown to our conscious, and may begin to influence or manifest where it sees opportunity over time. With that said, I like seeing an oppressed person or people put down their oppressor(s), no-holds-barred, but only if it doesn't exacerbate into an ongoing blind crusading vengeance as it often seems to. There's a certain satisfaction when I see an oppressed individual--especially one outmatched--exact purposeful extreme violence while maintaining the balanced discipline & restraint to know where and when to end it, with no collateral damage, and put the grudge to rest while doing so, moving on to healing, peace, and prosperity. I will never advocate blind compassion, because there are bad seeds that need to be dealt with and made examples of accordingly, passionately. I believe in "if you act like an asshole, this is how you get dealt with: you get fucked--fucked hard---without KY".
When is it implying how one should think/behave and when is it nothing more than a fantasy which can't be fulfilled in reality?
It goes back to the original topic... This conversation is rather interesting.
Interpretation is always subjective, if and how an individual can relate to it. Naturally, without proper guidance and discipline, if an individual feels oppressed and sees a portrayal of any kind matching their beliefs and ideals, fantastical or realistic, they will likely feel elation toward validation of a type. It's subjective how a distressed individual will act on it, influenced by their sense of moral chastity or integrity; I'd liken it to striking sparks amid volatile vapor: maybe there's enough vapor to combust at that particular time and location, or maybe they already sequestered the volatility (via enlightenment), purposefully allowed it to spark in a non-volatile location. I'd wager that your typical violated folk are lost to the concept of exercising restraint or compassion toward the offending propensity. It's helpful to be mindful that we are animals genetically conditioned to
survive &
flourish in the most direct, effective method we can comprehend and are capable of enacting, even if it comes at a detriment to the present or future of others. In the context of modern society, this manifests itself deeply. We have a primal coding to react to certain situations, which is often not applicable to what modern society mandates as acceptable. Assessing the artificial, forced evolution and devolution of our primal survival instincts (emotions) within modern civilised living is a very interesting topic in itself. It's also interesting that logic is trusted to simply trump emotion, when the opposite is the commonality. Basically, emotional training, restraint, needs to be
influenced with logic
and compassion. Strong-arm tactics are archaic and will never succeed without brewing resentment and creating more problems. There is nothing more empowering than true inspiration and conviction; in theory, control wouldn't be necessary if the true value of appreciation for life & liberty is impressed onto others from a young age. Blame the upbringing (or lack of) for why a person is how they are.
The only way to not allow horrors (sexism, racism, etc) to flourish is to never relent and give into facilitating them to happen in any way. As unpleasant as it sounds, victims must be willing to sacrifice their safety at any cost in order to stand up against exploitation, as it's the only way to ensure abusers have nothing to work with. Remaining passive amid wrongdoing, no matter how significant or seemingly insignificant, allows tyranny. "Give me liberty or give me death" is a belief & lifestyle any respectable being should adopt on a low-level; it's not merely some high-sounding phrase from olden time pertaining to some temporary struggle long ago; it's always been, and will be, relevant. The more difficult occurrence to deal with is how sophisticated greed & malice is evolving; it's bled into our culture and law/governance as it goes largely unchecked, obscured by the duplicity crafted by abusers who have gotten smart with their shit to keep it alive and out of plain-sight, and manipulate others to (blindly) carry out their deeds, and craft a culture around it. Preventing & ousting this occurrence is the movement of the now and the future.
Pardon the discourse, but these are people issues that are far deeper than male-female discrimination, and part of something greater that I'm working on, of which you might see in upcoming years