The Loose Pussy

[BenWaaaaah]

My wife and I am are separated right now. I was over at her place to drop the kids off and I took a peek in her nightstand, which is where we keep lube, condoms, etc. I notice a small tube in there and it's that "tighten cream" you can get that supposedly shrinks your who-hoo for 24 hours. Her cousin had a sex toy party and she got this plus a vibrator, which is still unopened.

I'm above-average in size and we had been together for 13 years - she's never been "loose" and I would even consider her somewhat tight. I know she's been with at least one guy in the two months we've been apart and I think she's seeing him or another one now.

Question: Do you guys/gals think she has it because her new man is smaller than me or because she's sleeping with so many she's getting loose?


It's been bugging me!!!

 

[BurningVenus]

My wife and I am are separated right now. I was over at her place to drop the kids off and I took a peek in her nightstand, which is where we keep lube, condoms, etc. I notice a small tube in there and it's that "tighten cream" you can get that supposedly shrinks your who-hoo for 24 hours. Her cousin had a sex toy party and she got this plus a vibrator, which is still unopened.

I'm above-average in size and we had been together for 13 years - she's never been "loose" and I would even consider her somewhat tight. I know she's been with at least one guy in the two months we've been apart and I think she's seeing him or another one now.

Question: Do you guys/gals think she has it because her new man is smaller than me or because she's sleeping with so many she's getting loose?


It's been bugging me!!!

:welcome: Assuming your not trolling, please read the thread.

 

[Drifterwood]

My experiences speak louder than some documents, ya know?

Only for you

Your post is somewhat illogical and contradictory.

Small pussies don't get wet? Well not in my experience.

I am beginning to wonder what is so difficult for some guys to understand.

An average vagina is between 3 and 5 inches unaroused. When aroused, it will lengthen by around 2 inches. This is why you should believe a woman who says tha 5 or 6 inches is all she can take lengthwise, and why you should also believe"size queens" who say they need 9, because vaginas can be 7 inches long unaroused and then lengthen to over 9.

Then there is volume and potential space. Circumference determines volume, not length. It is potential space, because unlike the penis, the vagina can relax and contract (its a muscle). The same vagina can accomodate an 8 inch girth and grip a pencil.

Rather than a vagina becoming looser as you say, I would say that it has become accustomed to you, a bit like muscle memory. If you are a man with girth, you ought to know that when you have been with some smaller women, it is all about them relaxing to take you. They need to be able and happy to relax. On the flip side, if you are a man with modest girth with a naturally larger woman she needs to have well exercised muscles.

A loose pussy is one that is relatively more voluminous than the penis it is with and the woman has poor muscle tone. You may naturally have to work harder on your muscle tone, you may have been damaged with traumatic child birth, and as is the way of all flesh, you are not going to be as buff at 70 as you were at 21.

I think the basis of the rumour, rather comes if a woman has been with a man of girth and has been used to mainly being used to relax, and has allowed her toning to slacken. If she then has a man with modest girth, she will feel loose to him and if he is a little prick, he will run around saying she has a cunt like a bucket. At the same time, part of being an inexperienced woman is not being as relaxed as a more experienced woman. So as generally, the younger the woman, the less experienced she is, they will feel initially tighter than an experienced woman as an average sized cock causes no alarm to an experienced average sized vagina, but it might to an inexperienced woman. This is why young average sized guys think that experience equals loose. It doesn't, it means experienced and relaxed, but potentially ignorant of kegels.

Experience + toning = happypenis :biggrin1:

Well it makes sense to me.

 

[WildHoney]

:banghead2: :banghead2: :banghead2:


Honey

 

[WildHoney]

So as generally, the younger the woman, the less experienced she is, they will feel initially tighter than an experienced woman as an average sized cock causes no alarm to an experienced average sized vagina, but it might to an inexperienced woman. This is why young average sized guys think that experience equals loose. It doesn't, it means experienced and relaxed, but potentially ignorant of kegels.

I love you, you so get it.

xx
Honey

 

[WildHoney]

So, if having a child CAN perminantly alter (without kegels) the size of a woman's vagina, then why would repeated pounding by cocks be any different? There are holes in your facts I think.

Show me a cock the size of a babies head and shoulders and we can have that discussion.

 

[AlteredEgo]

If you have solutions to drenching the bed, please share. :smile:

Drench the floor instead! No, seriously. Get a nurse friend to steal a maternity pad from the hospital for you. They can be tossed in with the rest of the laundry, and removed quickly from the bed when wet. I use one so no one gets assigned the wet spot, and I also use one when I'm menstruating. One side is nearly leak-proof, the other is soft and cottony.

 

[stamrod]

So, if having a child CAN perminantly alter (without kegels) the size of a woman's vagina, then why would repeated pounding by cocks be any different?

By your logic it seems that my cock would be shrinking from fucking an overly tight pussy constantly. The vagina is a muscle that fills with blood and changes shape when it gets aroused. Doesn't this sound familiar? Yes, its basically how a penis acts. Both of them get larger, but even then, the penis may be a very tight fit for a given pussy. So what's your justification for the pussy getting stretched and looser and the cock not getting smaller and compressed due to greater external pressure?

The fact is that if you shove a large hard cock into a tight pussy, both will flex a bit to make everything fit. But after you pull the cock out of the pussy, any damaged/compressed tissue (on either side) will heal itself and the next time, the blood should rush into the same pockets and crevices so that the cock and pussy both return to their intial states.

Barring jelqing techniques or some really crazy pussy stretching (i.e. childbirth), I doubt there's much deformation on the penis or pussy from simple fucking no matter how big the guy is. Logic backs up that conclusion, and the comments of many experienced people in this thread back that up.

 

[WildHoney]

...ok I like young guys again now..thanks for saving the day Stamrod

..now let me make those videos for you ( I just saw your pics )

xx
Honey

 

[AlteredEgo]

...Tight pussies don't get soaking wet.

This is false. I'm 100% positive on this, being the possesor of a tight vagina. I'm always a little wet, and have been wet since long before sexual maturity. I do not remember an age when I was not wet. Sexual arousal just makes me wetter. Sometimes I'm much wetter than others, and have been known to make a puddle.

You can always feel a tight pussy and you most certainly can not get three fingers into a tight pussy without stretching the hell out of it first. There is a big difference between trying to work one finger into a pussy and being able to slide three in with zero effort and a little room to spare.

You only have this experience from your point of view. No matter what you perceive, you can never know for sure the level of arousal in another person. Sometimes three fingers is easy for me right away. Sometimes, two is nearly more stretch than I want to deal with. Different day, different situation. When I was having regular sex with my 10"x6" ex, foreplay was not always necessary. SOmetimes, on the other hand, we'd try for a quickie, and he'd hurt me very badly, either by me not being relaxed and wet enough for the girth, or me being very wet, and easily taking the girth, but not very relaxed, and unprepared for the length. Is there a big difference? Yup. The difference is recent experience, arousal, and relaxation.

About a year ago, a fairly inexperienced girl tried to cram a dildo (we'd bought and used years ago when I was with my huge ex) into me with no warning, while I was actually kind of bored from her bedroom laziness and completely unaroused. Pain so intense I turned down what would have been stellar sex with a man who knew just how to work me for several days following. If you had seen me trying to accomodate that toy when I was bored, you'd probably agree that I was pretty tight. If you had seen me in the heat of the excitement of fucking a woman with a double-ended dildo for the first time, you'd have thought I was quite loose.

You know, my girlfriend has had two kids and by doing (or not doing) kegels, she can make it exactly as loose or tight as she wants...

This is not possible. Kegels do not tighten a vagina. There is no non-surgical way to do that. Kegels provide tone and flexibility, and only to a portion of the whole love-tunnel. Sorry.

 

[Drifterwood]

WHY SOME WOMEN ARE TIGHT

• OMFG you are sooooo huge (men stop reading at this point)
• Excuse me, you missed my pussy and you are fucking my ass.
• Actually, I'd rather not be here right now.
• You haven't turned me on
• Yes, she is very small
• Call her Arnie

WHY SOME WOMEN ARE LOOSE

• Sorry, I thought you were still using your finger.
• I'll have a sour cream kegel, please.
• Why are you fucking your grandmother?
• Yes she is big, but a candle can fill a cathedral with light.
• It's called being horny, douchebag.

 

[stamrod]

This is not possible. Kegels do not tighten a vagina. There is no non-surgical way to do that. Kegels provide tone and flexibility, and only to a portion of the whole love-tunnel. Sorry.

Exactly, Kegels are a muscle exercise. The pussy and penis chage shape due to being aroused and filling with blood. Just because both male and female organs are composed of alot of smooth muscle doesn't mean exercising those muscles will increase the size of the muscle. When aroused, the swelling of the organ compresses the muscles anyways.

Yes she is big, but a candle can fill a cathedral with light.

Lol, that's one I haven't heard before.

 

[kazooplayer]

From the third article you posted :

"The vagina is a muscle that will expand, and yes, it is possible to stretch and expand this area."

 

[Belly_Dancer]

Only for you

Your post is somewhat illogical and contradictory.

Small pussies don't get wet? Well not in my experience.

I am beginning to wonder what is so difficult for some guys to understand.

An average vagina is between 3 and 5 inches unaroused. When aroused, it will lengthen by around 2 inches. This is why you should believe a woman who says tha 5 or 6 inches is all she can take lengthwise, and why you should also believe"size queens" who say they need 9, because vaginas can be 7 inches long unaroused and then lengthen to over 9.

Then there is volume and potential space. Circumference determines volume, not length. It is potential space, because unlike the penis, the vagina can relax and contract (its a muscle). The same vagina can accomodate an 8 inch girth and grip a pencil.

Rather than a vagina becoming looser as you say, I would say that it has become accustomed to you, a bit like muscle memory. If you are a man with girth, you ought to know that when you have been with some smaller women, it is all about them relaxing to take you. They need to be able and happy to relax. On the flip side, if you are a man with modest girth with a naturally larger woman she needs to have well exercised muscles.

A loose pussy is one that is relatively more voluminous than the penis it is with and the woman has poor muscle tone. You may naturally have to work harder on your muscle tone, you may have been damaged with traumatic child birth, and as is the way of all flesh, you are not going to be as buff at 70 as you were at 21.

I think the basis of the rumour, rather comes if a woman has been with a man of girth and has been used to mainly being used to relax, and has allowed her toning to slacken. If she then has a man with modest girth, she will feel loose to him and if he is a little prick, he will run around saying she has a cunt like a bucket. At the same time, part of being an inexperienced woman is not being as relaxed as a more experienced woman. So as generally, the younger the woman, the less experienced she is, they will feel initially tighter than an experienced woman as an average sized cock causes no alarm to an experienced average sized vagina, but it might to an inexperienced woman. This is why young average sized guys think that experience equals loose. It doesn't, it means experienced and relaxed, but potentially ignorant of kegels.

Experience + toning = happypenis :biggrin1:

Well it makes sense to me.

WHY SOME WOMEN ARE TIGHT

• OMFG you are sooooo huge (men stop reading at this point)
• Excuse me, you missed my pussy and you are fucking my ass.
• Actually, I'd rather not be here right now.
• You haven't turned me on
• Yes, she is very small
• Call her Arnie

WHY SOME WOMEN ARE LOOSE

• Sorry, I thought you were still using your finger.
• I'll have a sour cream kegel, please.
• Why are you fucking your grandmother?
• Yes she is big, but a candle can fill a cathedral with light.
• It's called being horny, douchebag.

Drifterwood, I don't think there's a smilie depicting the kind of kiss you deserve for these 2 posts (not even among the nasty ones.) :wink:

You rock! :biggrin1:

 

[Mr.Grande]

check this out:

YouTube - Huge Vagina

 

[lafever]

I think men can some times be vulgar like that because chances are their trying to cover themselves from something that was said to them from a particular woman, like for instance, this one is probly the greatest male deflater of all time, as quoted by woman from around the world, "Are you in yet? I can`t feel it." So then what happens is they have to jump the gun for fear of being ashamed, wether or not she`ll tell her freinds or not, more than likely they will and guys know this, like when a woman gets a cock that blows their mind, chances are their gonna tell atleast tell one of their girlfriends, so they`ll call that girl a slut or loose because it was probly like watching paint dry for the woman their trying to slam, they go and blab to all they know so that if word gets out he`s itsy bitsy he`ll say, told you she was a slut. Which to me, when i hear a guy talk about girls like that i go in an oppossite direction, who needs friends like that if their gonna say bad things about you behind your back so they can feel like their cool, their just trying to protect their over sensitive ego`s by trying to tear someone else down.

lafever

 

[Not_Punny]

....when i hear a guy talk about girls like that i go in an oppossite direction, who needs friends like that if their gonna say bad things about you behind your back so they can feel like their cool, their just trying to protect their over sensitive ego`s by trying to tear someone else down.

lafever

Hear, hear.

I truly believe that what people say about others reflects more upon themselves than the people they're "talking bad" about. :wink:

 

[LemacST]

I wonder how big a girl's vagina would have to be to NOT feel my 6.5"x5" dick...

I look at my dick and I know there's much bigger out there, but...what girl would NOT be able to feel it?

I understand if some girls could not feel a very small penis much (like, less than 5" with pretty small girth) but are there really girls out there who are so blown out that they could not feel anything that is short of huge?

To go back to the original topic, though...I think it's a bit rude to state there's penises of all sizes (tiny, small, average, big, huge) but only one standard vagina size, which "can expand but can return to 'regular' size with kegels". Women come in all sizes down there, from tiny, to small, to average, to big, to huge. I can only hope in the future that people acknowledge this and don't pin everything on the guy...the door swings both ways. There ARE big/"loose" vaginas as there are small penises out there, along with every size in this genital spectrum..LOL.

 

[Not_Punny]

Partially true, partially not. What we are saying is that women have the advantage of being able to adjust their size. Then again, maybe I haven't understood anything.

Have you read all 10 pages of this thread?

 

[stamrod]

Everyone's different. There's a huge range of sizes on both sides. The major argument on here, or at least the latest one, was about whether a pussy gets stretched out due to taking a big cock too many times. Based on this, you would be able to infer how sexually active (read: slutty) a woman is based on the looseness of her pussy.