I used to think that watching “gay” porn was watching an unnatural act. After now watching more porn than I care to admit, I now know that labeling any porn as “gay” or “straight” or “bi” is boiling it down to the act. Instead all porn is “human sexual” porn. It’s not about the sexes involved, it’s about the connections made as human beings regardless of whether a multitude of penises or vaginas are displayed. What I realized when I’m watching movies with men only is that the same desires, pleasures, lusts, and moans radiate themselves as men love one and other that men and women display in their lovemaking. There’s little difference in the reactions of being loved. The mechanics obviously vary, but the joy, the unbridled lust remain the same. And it is this that we as human beings should celebrate. That we have a gift of loving each other, for making each other, regardless of sex, feel closer to a higher power. Two men truly loving each other, two women honestly caring for one another, a man and a woman making love- it’s all beautiful. All variations and permutations are valid and incapable of being judged. Any attempt to deny them is preposterous at the very least.