The Mystery Of Neglected Bottom's Cocks In Porn

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Ok, I admit I LOVE sucking cock. I know there are other gays that like sucking cock???? Why is it that in porn bottom's get the short end of the stick when it comes to their cocks. In a threeway the bottom is almost always sucking the non fucker's dick. I LOVE to see bottoms blown while getting fucked but almost never do you see this. The other peeve is if the top finishes first, IF the bottom gets off after the top he almost always has to jerk himself off. Why don't porn tops think to suck them off???? Am I the only person that is bothered by this????? One of my ultimate fantasies is to suck a bottom off while he is being bred. You never see this.
 

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I guess it takes all kinds. I'm baffled by guys who don't like their dicks touched when getting fucked, or even worse, the ones who cover it up with their hands in porn. Maybe some guys don't like to see a dick when they're fucking, so they can imagine it is a woman...…..? My favorite (well, one of them, lol) is sucking my hubs cock while I fuck him, but it usually makes him cum pretty quick so I save that for a finish ;
 

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My other major complaint. Why can't we ever see someone's partner get them off? NO one cums from head or topping... they always have to jack off. In a multi partner scene it always ends up in everyone jacking off on the performer. Does this seem counter intuitive to you??? I want to see people have sex, not just jacking off.
 
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I agree, porn sex doesn't often look like real bedroom sex (not in my bedroom anyway ;)). There is so much direction for a "money shot" which is what leads to all the jacking off I think. IMO, best scenes are the ones where both parties cum from fucking. We don't always cum at same time, but if he cums while I'm fucking him its great and I just shove it back in and pump some more until I cum, lol.
 

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I agree, porn sex doesn't often look like real bedroom sex (not in my bedroom anyway ;)). There is so much direction for a "money shot" which is what leads to all the jacking off I think. IMO, best scenes are the ones where both parties cum from fucking. We don't always cum at same time, but if he cums while I'm fucking him its great and I just shove it back in and pump some more until I cum, lol.
I know what they are going for BUT I always take it that their partner is not hot enough to get them off when they inevitably jack off to cum. Isn't that the logical assumption?I never saw anyone jack off when cumming at the baths or parks.
 
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I’m always rock hard when I am getting fucked. I am also oozing precum during the fuck session. I can’t touch my cock too much when I’m being fucked cause I’ll cum quickly. I want to enjoy that tops longer n really help milk his cum out too. Believe I’d love to be sucked when I’m being fucked but I’ll explode way too quickly
 

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I’m always rock hard when I am getting fucked. I am also oozing precum during the fuck session. I can’t touch my cock too much when I’m being fucked cause I’ll cum quickly. I want to enjoy that tops longer n really help milk his cum out too. Believe I’d love to be sucked when I’m being fucked but I’ll explode way too quickly

I stay pretty hard while getting fucked also, but for me it is more about my cock so I'm jerking it most of the time I'm getting pumped. I'm lucky that my partner loves playing with my cock while he fucks me. He on the other hand doesn't stay as hard while I'm fucking him, but I do know how to fuck him so he'll cum even soft so we can often cum together :grinning:. That is one small thing that is ok about getting older, we can fuck a lot longer without cumming that we used to ;)
 

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I have never ever posted anything on this site, mostly out of fear of being taken as a "annoying guy who problematizes everything"... But here's my first shot...
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This format of porn seems to strive for a reproduction of a sexist male over female domination, power, control, in which both parts have somehow predetermined roles, in which the guy/top fucks, gets pleased, do whatever he has/wants to do, even in disregard of the female/bottom pleasures - even pain cuz "you gotta take the dick and be happy/grateful that you are getting fucked"; so sucking and jacking off to the partner is a bottm/female thing, thus not meant for the top/male; while the bottoms are meant to be submissive, to take it and not complain, to suck, to ride, and not demand to be touched or have desires if they aren't what is expected of them, or if they are not what the tops want from them;
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These roles are perpetuated through culture, and through porn, which is hwere most boys "learn" or assume what "sex" is like, and internalize it, so, it's not even open to questioning most of the times... "it's how it is, then it becomes a cycle in which porn is made out of these assumptions, and for people who have these assumptions, so that they will understand them as correct and like it as it's what they grew up idealizing and liking...
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that's my guess to which it's so rare to see some let's say, "equality" in the mutual pleasing and acts during sex in porn, and in real life too cuz as said, its a cycle of perpetuation of such notions...
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// A not necessarily related matter is the taking it off and jacking over the botto to cum, well, i guess that's just more graphic for the video purposes... but also maybe that's because you know best how to make yourself cum from years of masturbation, and being overly active sexually speaking, your sensibility tends to deteriorate (well, mine tends to; and many boys i've known, even my boyfrined who used to be/still is... addicted to masturbation); also sometimes the ass is too swoolen...? i mean, not judging wahtever people do to their asses, but if someone is used to taking too large a dildo regularly, an average penis won't get the same pressure as it would form a "normal ass" let's say...; i have fucked some boys whose asses i could barely feel a thing cuz my dick is average and well, i barely touched his walls...
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Then as a personal statement, i get so very turned off when i get to have sex with someone (being versatile as i am) and they have htese pre conceveid limiting ideas and preferences that they never ever happened to question, of top and bottom; like tops that wouldn't touch my dick; or bottons that wouldn't let me touch theirs... Of course i respect their agency over their bodies and desires, but it surely was frustrating... =/
I love to fuck and see the bottoms dick, suck it, jack it off, sawp from fucking the ass to sucking it or the dixk or both; and as the bottom the same, i love a top that sucks my dick, licks my ass, jacks me while fucking me etc. or even better i love swapping roles;...
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Sorry i wrote too much, i didn't mean to offend anyone. Nor be annoying, but surely have been. If I broke any rules, please let me know.
 

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I have never ever posted anything on this site, mostly out of fear of being taken as a "annoying guy who problematizes everything"... But here's my first shot...
.
This format of porn seems to strive for a reproduction of a sexist male over female domination, power, control, in which both parts have somehow predetermined roles, in which the guy/top fucks, gets pleased, do whatever he has/wants to do, even in disregard of the female/bottom pleasures - even pain cuz "you gotta take the dick and be happy/grateful that you are getting fucked"; so sucking and jacking off to the partner is a bottm/female thing, thus not meant for the top/male; while the bottoms are meant to be submissive, to take it and not complain, to suck, to ride, and not demand to be touched or have desires if they aren't what is expected of them, or if they are not what the tops want from them;
.
These roles are perpetuated through culture, and through porn, which is hwere most boys "learn" or assume what "sex" is like, and internalize it, so, it's not even open to questioning most of the times... "it's how it is, then it becomes a cycle in which porn is made out of these assumptions, and for people who have these assumptions, so that they will understand them as correct and like it as it's what they grew up idealizing and liking...
.
that's my guess to which it's so rare to see some let's say, "equality" in the mutual pleasing and acts during sex in porn, and in real life too cuz as said, its a cycle of perpetuation of such notions...
.
// A not necessarily related matter is the taking it off and jacking over the botto to cum, well, i guess that's just more graphic for the video purposes... but also maybe that's because you know best how to make yourself cum from years of masturbation, and being overly active sexually speaking, your sensibility tends to deteriorate (well, mine tends to; and many boys i've known, even my boyfrined who used to be/still is... addicted to masturbation); also sometimes the ass is too swoolen...? i mean, not judging wahtever people do to their asses, but if someone is used to taking too large a dildo regularly, an average penis won't get the same pressure as it would form a "normal ass" let's say...; i have fucked some boys whose asses i could barely feel a thing cuz my dick is average and well, i barely touched his walls...
.
Then as a personal statement, i get so very turned off when i get to have sex with someone (being versatile as i am) and they have htese pre conceveid limiting ideas and preferences that they never ever happened to question, of top and bottom; like tops that wouldn't touch my dick; or bottons that wouldn't let me touch theirs... Of course i respect their agency over their bodies and desires, but it surely was frustrating... =/
I love to fuck and see the bottoms dick, suck it, jack it off, sawp from fucking the ass to sucking it or the dixk or both; and as the bottom the same, i love a top that sucks my dick, licks my ass, jacks me while fucking me etc. or even better i love swapping roles;...
.
Sorry i wrote too much, i didn't mean to offend anyone. Nor be annoying, but surely have been. If I broke any rules, please let me know.
Goof points indeed. I hate this viewpoint!!!!
 
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