i feel the exact same way. i always thought i was average at best. and i still think i am. when i measure it's just over 7 in long and 6 in around. it was scary when i first tried to used condoms and i went through 4 and none fit. i thought i was just an idiot who didn't know how to use them properly. then the girl i was with went and bought some magnums...and it worked ok!