The Obsession With Comparisons....

[Rewardheragain148]

Just got off Pornhub they have a collection of Craigslist encounters on there..

Some of the dudes were massive and that made me feel like “damn, I’m screwed”...

I definitely gotta stop comparing myself and accept this penis I’m stuck with smh

 

[Mule]

I definitely gotta stop comparing myself and accept this penis I’m stuck with smh

Accept what you have, for sure. But more importantly, focus on the things that actually matter to a real-world, non-porn lover: Attentiveness, honesty, a sense of fun, receptiveness, a willingness to learn, etc.

 

[Rewardheragain148]

Accept what you have, for sure. But more importantly, focus on the things that actually matter to a real-world, non-porn lover: Attentiveness, honesty, a sense of fun, receptiveness, a willingness to learn, etc.

Well said

 

[HorseHung40's]

I asked my wife about this.

She said that she does not respond to, and, specifically avoids discussions that lead to any sort of comparison, where the end result is damage to a person's self esteem.

In her women's tae kwon do club, it is also a piece of practical advice that she has passed on to other women, who train with her.

All too often, their connections to a comparison become emotional. Sadly, these are situations into which women need not invest any emotion. They just need to move on.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I asked my wife about this.

She said that she does not respond to, and, specifically avoids discussions that lead to any sort of comparison, where the end result is damage to a person's self esteem.

In her women's tae kwon do club, it is also a piece of practical advice that she has passed on to other women, who train with her.

All too often, their connections to a comparison become emotional. Sadly, these are situations into which women need not invest any emotion. They just need to move on.

wise woman

 

[spaj8987]

Life improves significantly when you figure out that the only valuable comparison is between your current self and your former self.

Problem is, that's what most of the men on the site think they're doing. They see themselves as being their dicks instead of their dicks just being a part of them. We all know much of how sexism negativity effects women (there are parts we haven't gotten to yet but i'm confident we will since there's no putting that particular jam back in the bottle). There is though, ways sexism negativity effects the men who believe in it. This is one of them. Most of these guys tie their penis directly to their identity. And the amount of people they seemingly can please either by sex, pictures or so on or the amount of people they can make feel like shit amps up their egos along with their sense of self worth. And that's it. So to them they're doing exactly what you just said.