The older i get, the more bi i become.

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When I was in my 20's, Male on Male activities were mainly a turn off for me. Pussy was a priority. I have evolved over the years and have not crossed that line just yet. I'm in my 40's today. I even watch Gay porn now. Go figure. Has anyone felt this way?
 

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Sure.
I think as a man gets older, more self confident, & learns that what he "knows" isn't necessarily the only truth he matures. A mature man is open to considering 'other' points of view & once you consider, you may realize you've no good reason not to be open to new experiences should the opportunity arise. Once you're open to an opportunity - I think most men like to do their 'research' on a topic so they don't end up going in unprepared. Or the short version is most men are hunters & we like to find new adventures. :)

I think that is most men. Some men are so hard wired, they've just no interest - they like what they found & are good there.
When I was younger - orgasm was supposed to come from women only. Now... in a dark room an orgasm is an orgasm, I like it however I got there.
 

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I'm now 60 years old. Did a few mutual jack-offs in my later teens and it was enjoyable. Married and lived a straight life for many years. After women get older, pussy is sure a lot harder to get on a regular basis. Guys need to get off more often than women.

I've started mutually jacking with guys again. I'm not into sucking or fucking, just jacking and watching each other cum.
To each their own.
 

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I've notice this as well, as I got older I found guys, wish I had been as adventurous when I was 20 and had more stamina ;) now I just have to let the 20 yo guys do all the hard work :D

I enjoy my little mix of guy on guy sex with regular sex with my lady
 

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I've notice this as well, as I got older I found guys, wish I had been as adventurous when I was 20 and had more stamina ;) now I just have to let the 20 yo guys do all the hard work :D

I enjoy my little mix of guy on guy sex with regular sex with my lady


I know what you mean. I met this one guy at the gym when I was about 24. He caught my eye and was very friendly. I was not really interested in sex with him. He was confident to reveal he was gay. A big deal back then. Maybe he clocked me before i knew who I was. I let the opportunity go. If I could go back in time........
 

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I don't know if others feel like this, or if this makes sense to anyone, but I'm very dominant and in control during sex. I love women so much, but I feel that maybe in the right circumstance with the right person, I could cross over bi if I was the dominant the entire time. But I highly doubt I could ever bring myself to be penetrated or dominated by another man. I could maybe allow myself to cross over bi in a cuckold situation with a woman involved, as long as I was the dominate. Again, I don't know if others feel like this, but it's what I feel. For what it's worth.
 

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From what I've read here on LPSG, I think this is fairly common (and it is definitely true for me). In my own situation, midlife crisis played a role. As I got older, I realized that windows of opportunity were closing. If I wanted to explore new directions and have these experiences, I needed to act. Perhaps true for others as well.
 

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I always used to like girls until a switch went off in my early 20s when I went to a nude beach and I got bone watching the buff guys at the nude beach. It was the first time I saw nude guys and my cock was jumping. My BFF said to me...I never knew that you were into guys?
 

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i would say as i got older my bi side has come out more...being married with a wife that barely fucks also helps. I went to a few gloryhole jerk off booths and had my dick sucked when i was in younger and i never went past that until this year i met another married guy on craigslist and he just wanted to suck me..but then when i felt his cock in my hand i realized how much it turned me on and i then when i sucked him how much i loved sucking cock...so now it kinda hit me recently how much cocks turn me on
 

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Spent the day with my g/f today. Had a great time. Went driving and looking at new fishing spots (she loves to fish), ate lunch and stopped by a local winery to drink a bottle on the way home. Had a great time and I love her very much. I'm 60 and she is 53. We fucked on a picnic table today, at a very remote spot. Trouble is, I still like occasional cock play, and I have that set up for tomorrow AM.

If not having the urge for cock play a few times a year, I would ask her to marry me and I think we would be great together. We have been on and off together now for 12 years or so. These days it is more on than off, and we spend many days just fishing together as friends, more days than in bed together.

Just don't think it would be fair to be with her, then sneak off for some cock play every couple months. She has told all and said she let a female friend "please her once". Her sister is gay, but she tried it once and not her cup of tea. I've never gotten the balls to say I enjoy trading handjobs with other guys. Somehow, I can't come clean to her and say I like cock play as well. I know she would understand and still be my friend, but I just can't come out of the closet as being bisexual.

It's kind of a bitch when you get older, after suppressing the urges for many years. Thought they would go away, but they never did. I'm just "slightly" bi, because I only get into mutual handjobs, not sucking or anal. Tough just the same. The never ending itch that needs scratched now and then.
 

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I'm now 60 years old. Did a few mutual jack-offs in my later teens and it was enjoyable. Married and lived a straight life for many years. After women get older, pussy is sure a lot harder to get on a regular basis. Guys need to get off more often than women.

I've started mutually jacking with guys again. I'm not into sucking or fucking, just jacking and watching each other cum.
To each their own.
I am older and now looking more and more at cocks. Some are awesome and love watching solo J0 video's. I've never been with a guy nor do I plan on it ( never say never ) but I'm comfortable watching guys jerk off and cum. It does seem as though as guys get older we still need sexual gratification. BTW I do wonder what it would feel like actually jerking off a guy. That's in my bucket list. I liked your honest post and that's why I replied.