In early years, I experimented with other guys - mutual jerk-off, sucking, frottage, fucking but never being fucked, no kissing but massage allowed. I got married at 24 and stayed that way for 30 years - raised two boys - and never thought about men during that time, at all. When she died, the desire to be with other guys returned. I'd rather have the friendship and companionship (with benefits) than another woman. So far, have never gone further than being sucked. So, where I was on the spectrum has varied a lot in different phases in my life.
The older i get, the more bi i become.
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Ditto for me age 63. When I was younger would'nt even consider it. Much different now. Women are not as open about sex as men. We just want to get off in most cases.
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The urges to have sex with men get stronger for me every year. I'm 66 and still going strong and enjoying my time.
Totally agree. You and go into an adult bookstore private movie booth . They usually have glory holes between the booths. Within the first 5 minutes you can get a blowjob without having to pay, buy anyone dinner, drinks, have 2 or 3 dates before even having sex. You can have 3 or 4 Blow Jobs in a hour and there is no small talk. Then back up your straight lifestyle. There are no places like that with women. A lot of normal married men go to these places. Lots of wedding bands. The convenience is amazing. It can also get addicting. Be careful not to become addicted. I have never caught any disease in the 30 years I have visited these places. I always look first to see who is on the other side before using the glory hole. Married men seem to be less promiscuous and have been a good choice for me.
I've always enjoyed going to arcades and theaters since I was young. It was always a laid back atmosphere where I could stroke and exchange oral with other normal men. The majority were older men and I had plenty of conversations with guys that only started exploring that side of themselves once they got older or were sexually frustrated with their wife. Now that I am older and wanting to explore more that scene is almost completely gone.
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I agree. This internet has made the old porn book store obsolete. But on the flip side... of you want your cock sucked or want to suck a cock I believe one can accomplish that more readily with the internet. I have
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As you age, you worry less about what others think. Perhaps you were too worried about society's negative judgment of you, while you were in your 20s to have pursued any kind of homosexual sex.
I was out to Lincoln a few months ago for a Brad Paisley concert. He plays a mean guitar!
I agree that the urge gets stronger the older we get. My interest in cock certainly has. I have never been even remotely attracted to men. But put a nice cut cock in my face, and it's going to get sucked. 
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For the American guys, please try and remember there is a world outside the USA....In Britain we have Lincoln, Boston, New York, Newark, Washington, Birmingham, Portland, Woodstock, (the original ones)....plus too many more to mention, so lets all use the countries abbreviation too, UK, USA etc, clears up any confusion.
Interesting thread. I'm 68 and leaning more and more bi. Did some mutual j/o in my teens but thats as far as it went. May have done more back in my drinking days, cant remember. Been courious for many many years, but havent acted on it. But I've found watching gay and bi porn has been a turn on more and more. Been married for over 50 yrs now. Over 40 to my current wife. Sex was great but now its been 10 to 12 years since we last had sex. That may and probably has a lot to do with leaning more bi. But then again maybe not. Not really interested in men, not attracted to them. Not wanting a relationship. But I've found seeing certain dicks a turn on sort of. Some not. I guess I'm still trying to figure it out. Any how great thread and glad to see I'm not alone with feeling like this.
. Been courious for many many years, but havent acted on it. But I've found watching gay and bi porn has been a turn on more and more. Been married for over 50 yrs now. Over 40 to my current wife. Sex was great but now its been 10 to 12 years since we last had sex. That may and probably has a lot to do with leaning more bi. But then again maybe not. Not really interested in men, not attracted to them. Not wanting a relationship. But I've found seeing certain dicks a turn on sort of. Some not. I guess I'm still trying to figure it out. Any how great thread and glad to see I'm not alone with feeling like this.
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You are certainly not alone. I’m 66. Been married 47 years. When we were young we fucked every day. Sometimes twice a day. Now I’m lucky if we fuck once a month. I enjoy all types of porn and master bate when ever I get the urge. I have even dabbled with bisexual activity. Oral only. I believe if our sex life hadn’t diminished so drastically I would never have crossed the line.Interesting thread. I'm 68 and leaning more and more bi. Did some mutual j/o in my teens but thats as far as it went. May have done more back in my drinking days, cant remember
I am in total agreement with 4pleasure7.75. I could have written exactly what you posted. Have given a few blow jobs, very infrequent, but as many have posted, once you do it, there’s no turning back. Never thought about a cock in my mouth til I turned about 65. Little sex at home so have turned to giving instead of receiving.
Same here. Wife is menopause and lost interest. I’ve been shaving balls and shaft for years, I said it’s for less rash in Texas heat and humidity, she bought that. She doesn’t know I wear rings or cam online or use prostate probe or estim. When I travelled it was hours of jerking in hotel I miss that. Even flashing the maids. !
She’s worried she’s too tight (I doubt that, I’d love it) and too dry (easily lubed up). I’ve dabbled in bi activity mostly receiving, there’s a nude men’s health club here ok it’s a high end bath house. Pool sauna steam jacuzzi GH, open jerk rooms, swings
I did learn to deepthroat, a guy said think of it as eating a bite of sausage, which it kinda is, you don’t get on sausage do you? Powerful feeling to do that to a guy.
Women could have they ever they want if they learned to deepthroat.
A guy I met aboard ship picked me up on the Over 21 Only deck while I was on a cruise. We had sex almost every day of the two week cruise and I found the more we did it the easier and more enjoyable it became. Once the cruise was over I thought it would all be over as we lived more than a thousand miles apart. I was wrong.
The guy I met lived in Chicago and I live way south of there! Some time back I got an email saying he would be visiting a city a couple of hundred miles away and asked if he could come visit. I jumped at it! He came and stayed at a nice motel not far from my place and we met several times there. I think the big thing was that we could be friends and have a sexual relationship. The big difference is that we can chat about all kinds of things, joke about different topics and be performing oral sex on each other at the same time. It was/is just really comfortable.
Long story short, he bought a place here to come to for about a quarter of the year. We see each other while he is here at least four to five times a week and have had one other guy join us every now and then. I have found that I really LOVE anal - top and bottom - and that has become a fairly regular feature of our meetings.
I am married and my wife knows the guy well now and knows the relationship includes sex. She was slightly worried about it at first but is totally comfortable with the relationship and has even seen him nude a couple of times now. Her comment the first time she saw him naked was, "I can see why he turns you on. He's a great looking guy dressed or undressed!"
Yes, the more I see him, the better it gets. He will be in town as soon as this health epidemic runs its course. I can't wait!
The guy I met lived in Chicago and I live way south of there! Some time back I got an email saying he would be visiting a city a couple of hundred miles away and asked if he could come visit. I jumped at it! He came and stayed at a nice motel not far from my place and we met several times there. I think the big thing was that we could be friends and have a sexual relationship. The big difference is that we can chat about all kinds of things, joke about different topics and be performing oral sex on each other at the same time. It was/is just really comfortable.
Long story short, he bought a place here to come to for about a quarter of the year. We see each other while he is here at least four to five times a week and have had one other guy join us every now and then. I have found that I really LOVE anal - top and bottom - and that has become a fairly regular feature of our meetings.
I am married and my wife knows the guy well now and knows the relationship includes sex. She was slightly worried about it at first but is totally comfortable with the relationship and has even seen him nude a couple of times now. Her comment the first time she saw him naked was, "I can see why he turns you on. He's a great looking guy dressed or undressed!"
Yes, the more I see him, the better it gets. He will be in town as soon as this health epidemic runs its course. I can't wait!
As a younger guy, when I was first approached by an older married man in a sexual way I thought it was pervy. Now that I’ve lived a little and have been to spas with steam rooms, etc and seen that guys usually lean more bi if the situation is comfortable I’m not bothered by it anymore. I actually think it’s cool!
