Got to say its true didn't know I was bi till about 40 and still dying for contact at 60 even more now but meeting people is hard here haven't tryed much but got to say very attracted to cocks ..
The older i get, the more bi i become.
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Thanks, maybe you should try giving a handjob? If you don't like it, just stop and apologize. Just my suggestion.
I too have found that I'm becoming more and more inclined to get together with men than women. Frankly, it's a matter of convenience . Can you imagine chatting with a woman on line such as Adult Friend Finder IM, for a short while and say .... "OK we live 200 miles apart, how about if we both drive for an hour and a half to meet half way between,... and we split the cost of a room" I dought it she'd agree to it because she thinks she has everything I need/want. Not anymore. Now...if say the same to a guy? He'd be all "Hell Ya! Name the city and the name of the motel"
And as I'm getting older I'm hearing a lot of married guys complaining that their wives aren't putting out. At all. The last guy I sucked off (with no reciprocation expected) told me he hadn't had sex with his wife for nine years. While I was sucking on him I ask him what was she doing for sex? And he said with a really confused and surprised look on his face.... "I don't know?" .... (the question mark is not a typo).
Up until the last few years I didn't like too play with married men unless their spouses know about it. but lately I changing my mind. To many guys not getting layed ( how do you spell that anyway?) because the wife has turned into a rib thumper.
And as I'm getting older I'm hearing a lot of married guys complaining that their wives aren't putting out. At all. The last guy I sucked off (with no reciprocation expected) told me he hadn't had sex with his wife for nine years. While I was sucking on him I ask him what was she doing for sex? And he said with a really confused and surprised look on his face.... "I don't know?" .... (the question mark is not a typo).
Up until the last few years I didn't like too play with married men unless their spouses know about it. but lately I changing my mind. To many guys not getting layed ( how do you spell that anyway?) because the wife has turned into a rib thumper.
My wife thinks you just should get hard at a drop of a hat no foreplay at all but really you got to rev the motor before you go down the track sheesh also has been a total turn off on her part but get a guy with a hard on and I get so hard I can't believe it more interested in male to male sex I guess ....but when I have sex its all out on my part I make sure the person I'm with gets satisfied ....guess thats the gemini in me ...
Lincoln, Nebraska by chance?
I'm meeting a guy tomorrow morning for the second time. Met him at a public park a couple weeks ago. We just did mutual cock play, them he gave me a blow job. He has a "velvet mouth" and makes me cum pretty quick. Nice big cock as well, but I am just into hand play. We traded email addresses and have talked today.
I hope to give him a handjob tomorrow and make him cum, before he sucks me off. I'm more straight than gay. Love wanking a cock off, but after I cum, the desire diminishes a bunch. Like stroking the right guy off, but have no desire to suck or fuck. That's just me, we each have our own likes and dislikes. Not knocking anyone that likes that stuff. To each their own.
figgnewton
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When you're with a JO bud what do you talk about before you actually have sex and After the fact ? You are correct, men just enjoy sex with no hang ups. Recip would be nice but I'd probably would do the guy first and bigger than me would be awesome.
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BTW I don't think I'd do anything now due to STDs. Probably 30 years ago would of been the right time unless I knew for sure the guy was a first timer like me.
Interesting thread. Feel same as figgnewton, but strange interest in mutual JO, or actually jerking a cock off. Very straight, and this interest/desire diminishes if I let off some sexual steam.
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but the interest just keeps coming back doesn't it. ;-)
I didn't become interested in cock until I was in my 30s. It took me 10 cautious years to discover what interested me about M2M sex. Interestingly, my choices in sexual partners and porn are, in many ways, very similar regardless of gender.
For example, with porn I like homemade videos that look like real sex is happening, not a show. I'll get off equally to a guy taping himself suck off a dude from Craigslist or to a husband taping his wife get filled up by a young stud.
With women I learned in my early 20s that I didn't enjoy random hookups and one night stands. Not that I always avoided them but they never left me feeling good. I learned the same thing over fifteen years later when I realized it was more the guy I was into than just the cock.
My theory is that so many men discover they are bi later in life for two reasons. First is the cumulative effect of porn. Watching hours of pounding, spurting penises while playing with your own creates some pretty strong mental associations. Second is that you learn to be less fearful what others might think. In my 20s, when I was buzzed and crazy horny after visiting a strip club I would never let myself consider letting a guy suck me. I'd reject the thought as soon as it came. Nowadays I'd seriously consider a similar offer.
For example, with porn I like homemade videos that look like real sex is happening, not a show. I'll get off equally to a guy taping himself suck off a dude from Craigslist or to a husband taping his wife get filled up by a young stud.
With women I learned in my early 20s that I didn't enjoy random hookups and one night stands. Not that I always avoided them but they never left me feeling good. I learned the same thing over fifteen years later when I realized it was more the guy I was into than just the cock.
My theory is that so many men discover they are bi later in life for two reasons. First is the cumulative effect of porn. Watching hours of pounding, spurting penises while playing with your own creates some pretty strong mental associations. Second is that you learn to be less fearful what others might think. In my 20s, when I was buzzed and crazy horny after visiting a strip club I would never let myself consider letting a guy suck me. I'd reject the thought as soon as it came. Nowadays I'd seriously consider a similar offer.
figgnewton
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- Heat,
I think there are a number of factors involved in finding you are drawn to same sex interactions as you get older:
1. We have less hangups about sex in general
2. We have more security overall and don't feel as threatened by what others might think
3. We find same sex friendships/relationships easier and less loaded with "responsibility" And in fact, we may find the "relationship" (however brief) actually caretakes us, or at least our need(s).
4. In a way, it's about reconnecting with ourselves -- if not our own gender.
1. We have less hangups about sex in general
2. We have more security overall and don't feel as threatened by what others might think
3. We find same sex friendships/relationships easier and less loaded with "responsibility" And in fact, we may find the "relationship" (however brief) actually caretakes us, or at least our need(s).
4. In a way, it's about reconnecting with ourselves -- if not our own gender.
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I think I've always been bi. I think my interest in guys has increased lightly since i entered my 40s
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This is a very typical thing. When young, if we're bi we probably repress and say never. As we age we mellow. Then we find out how many others, even people we know who are doing bi and gay things. Then you relax.
Most of the world is bi and gay.
Most of the world is bi and gay.
I wish this was true that most people are Bi. It doesn't appear that way.
Yes. Happened to me at 41. After I sucked my first dick I just could not quit.
