The older i get, the more bi i become.

[Bill williams]

i would say as i got older my bi side has come out more...being married with a wife that barely fucks also helps. I went to a few gloryhole jerk off booths and had my dick sucked when i was in younger and i never went past that until this year i met another married guy on craigslist and he just wanted to suck me..but then when i felt his cock in my hand i realized how much it turned me on and i then when i sucked him how much i loved sucking cock...so now it kinda hit me recently how much cocks turn me on

Same thing happened to me at 41. Bi dad

 

[HungBeau]

Always been curious since I was younger, however when I hit 35 it got lots stronger and now in my 40's and want to have guys more then ever! This site makes me feel like there are lots of us like this.

 

[munkieman]

I think denial has a lot to do with it...I think everyone is bi,but its been repressed over the years to the point where "straight" is normal

Just my opinion

 

[sundancer]

I have noticed - and this is just my observation - That when we are young, we have defined lines of what we find attractive. . For me, it was bearish men. They had to be hairy and bearded. . Then as I got older, the narrow line of what I found attractive became more broad. thin men, smooth men, thin women, short men, short women, and on and on. I also found that a lot of my hangups went away. I became more relaxed. And I suspect that as we all age, we become more willing to entertain ideas we had rejected when we were younger. We released every aspect of life is gray, and very little is black and white.

 

[deleted37010]

I have noticed - and this is just my observation - That when we are young, we have defined lines of what we find attractive. . For me, it was bearish men. They had to be hairy and bearded. . Then as I got older, the narrow line of what I found attractive became more broad. thin men, smooth men, thin women, short men, short women, and on and on. I also found that a lot of my hangups went away. I became more relaxed. And I suspect that as we all age, we become more willing to entertain ideas we had rejected when we were younger. We released every aspect of life is gray, and very little is black and white.

well said!

 

[Mister2101]

There really are some great posts in this thread. Thanks for sharing. I knew early as a young man that I was attracted to men and their cocks. Repressed that desire until late in my 30's. The desire and urge never went away....and just got stronger. Finally hooked up with a very caring and loving gay man who introduced me to gay sex.....and it was fabulous....everything I wanted. Over time I overcame all my fears, shame, guilt and conflicting views to just enjoy sex with another man.....all of it, giving and receiving...oral and anal...including, finally, kissing while making love........the urge and desire just keeps getting stronger.....peace.

 

[Notaes]

Opposite. I've identified as gay most of my life and now have some interest in women. If I could get past the vagina smell, I'd be a lot more into it.

I have been married to a woman for over thirty years and I will have to say that I have never smelled my wifes pussy that what it hasn't smelled awesome and fresh and just make me want to eat her pussy all the more. It's just like hygiene for men or women. If a man does not keep himself clean he will begin to smell and so will his cock. Both my wife and I are very much into hygiene and we try to do this for ourself and for each other and we both like to be clean for the other. If a woman vagina is clean and fresh it will not smell.

 

[figgnewton]

Lincoln, Nebraska by chance?


I'm meeting a guy tomorrow morning for the second time. Met him at a public park a couple weeks ago. We just did mutual cock play, them he gave me a blow job. He has a "velvet mouth" and makes me cum pretty quick. Nice big cock as well, but I am just into hand play. We traded email addresses and have talked today.

I hope to give him a handjob tomorrow and make him cum, before he sucks me off. I'm more straight than gay. Love wanking a cock off, but after I cum, the desire diminishes a bunch. Like stroking the right guy off, but have no desire to suck or fuck. That's just me, we each have our own likes and dislikes. Not knocking anyone that likes that stuff. To each their own.

Well what was it like? I'd be scared the first time to try and if I did do oral I'd have to make him cum first, same issue sex drive would diminish. I guess after time that would change.

 

[figgnewton]

I have been married to a woman for over thirty years and I will have to say that I have never smelled my wifes pussy that what it hasn't smelled awesome and fresh and just make me want to eat her pussy all the more. It's just like hygiene for men or women. If a man does not keep himself clean he will begin to smell and so will his cock. Both my wife and I are very much into hygiene and we try to do this for ourself and for each other and we both like to be clean for the other. If a woman vagina is clean and fresh it will not smell.[/QUOT
My wife's pussy taste and smells good always.I do enjoy eating her cunt and at times dreamlike.

 

[figgnewton]

I didn't become interested in cock until I was in my 30s. It took me 10 cautious years to discover what interested me about M2M sex. Interestingly, my choices in sexual partners and porn are, in many ways, very similar regardless of gender.

For example, with porn I like homemade videos that look like real sex is happening, not a show. I'll get off equally to a guy taping himself suck off a dude from Craigslist or to a husband taping his wife get filled up by a young stud.

With women I learned in my early 20s that I didn't enjoy random hookups and one night stands. Not that I always avoided them but they never left me feeling good. I learned the same thing over fifteen years later when I realized it was more the guy I was into than just the cock.

My theory is that so many men discover they are bi later in life for two reasons. First is the cumulative effect of porn. Watching hours of pounding, spurting penises while playing with your own creates some pretty strong mental associations. Second is that you learn to be less fearful what others might think. In my 20s, when I was buzzed and crazy horny after visiting a strip club I would never let myself consider letting a guy suck me. I'd reject the thought as soon as it came. Nowadays I'd seriously consider a similar offer.

What you said is so true. Life has so many hang ups and sex is the biggest one. Socially or religious it's a taboo. I'm more open minded now but still a closet sexual thinker.

 

[happyc02au1]

I only became interested in bi in my mid-40s.
We used bi in our fantasies and my wife became interested in seeing me being sucked off by another guy.
This became reality a few years ago and I loved it!!
We finally progressed to me sucking other guys as well.
Then, about a year ago, we played with a bi friend she watched as he fucked me up the ass.
The feeling was exquisite!!
I think she got a bit scared though, (maybe a step too far).
I would love to feel a cock inside me again but don't want to push the issue.
I would never do it behind her back.

 

[happyc02au1]

Spent the day with my g/f today. Had a great time. Went driving and looking at new fishing spots (she loves to fish), ate lunch and stopped by a local winery to drink a bottle on the way home. Had a great time and I love her very much. I'm 60 and she is 53. We fucked on a picnic table today, at a very remote spot. Trouble is, I still like occasional cock play, and I have that set up for tomorrow AM.

If not having the urge for cock play a few times a year, I would ask her to marry me and I think we would be great together. We have been on and off together now for 12 years or so. These days it is more on than off, and we spend many days just fishing together as friends, more days than in bed together.

Just don't think it would be fair to be with her, then sneak off for some cock play every couple months. She has told all and said she let a female friend "please her once". Her sister is gay, but she tried it once and not her cup of tea. I've never gotten the balls to say I enjoy trading handjobs with other guys. Somehow, I can't come clean to her and say I like cock play as well. I know she would understand and still be my friend, but I just can't come out of the closet as being bisexual.

It's kind of a bitch when you get older, after suppressing the urges for many years. Thought they would go away, but they never did. I'm just "slightly" bi, because I only get into mutual handjobs, not sucking or anal. Tough just the same. The never ending itch that needs scratched now and then.

Why don't you introduce the idea into your fantasies while fucking. See what her response is.
She doesn't need to know anything that has happened up until now.
Just see if she is interestd

 

[Cecil56]

Well what was it like? I'd be scared the first time to try and if I did do oral I'd have to make him cum first, same issue sex drive would diminish. I guess after time that would change.

That was a few weeks ago. We played with each others cocks for a minute or so, then he got down on his knees and sucked me off. He spit my load on the asphalt by my work and then jerked off and let his load get dumped beside mine. Would rather of jerked him off before I came, but that was the way it happened.

Now to last Sunday. 37 YR old guy answered a Craigslist post of mine for mutual masturbation. Met at a park together and walked into the woods. He had to piss because of a couple beers. Then we fondled each other's cocks and balls. This was dry play with both of our cocks cut. Maybe one minute into the game, he said I'm gonna cum. so I jacked his dick and he shot a nice load. That was hot!

Then he started stroking my cock. I don't cum that easy standing up in the woods, so I got the lube out, Shot my load and we walked out of the woods. Talked about him glazing a window that day and me doing yard work. Nice guy, sent him an email about getting together again tomorrow. Hope to hear from him. If not, maybe it was a one shot deal for him. I'm good either way.

 

[bothsidesnow73]

First same sex desires came to me @ the age of 41 (2 years ago.)

 

[Cecil56]

Had a funny one this morning to share, a first for me! Stopped at Sam's Club in Council Bluffs, Iowa of all places to fuel up before heading to work. Guy pulls over a couple spots away for fuel. Caught him looking at me, so we met eyes as I looked back a couple times. Then he was rubbing his crotch and looking at me. Kind of creepy in a way, but inviting for sure.

I had to get for work and pulled out of the lot. As I left and looked back once more, he had his cock out of his jeans and was stroking.
Not having time to mess around then, I headed to work. I just could not believe how he could be that brazen! (looked like he was pretty well hung)

 

[SlamminSammy]

I definitely have become more bicurious as I get older, started about 7 years ago.

 

[conntom]

Wow.....so many guys in the same boat as me.

Right now I would jump at the right chance to give a hand job and make a dick cum right before my eyes...I might even want to suck one.....

 

[Johnstorm]

I used to just dream about tasting a nice cock but as I get older I can't stop thinking about taking one in my tight ass. I want to bend over and feel hand on my hips as I get purloined from behind. Any one interested?

 

[chrisrobin]

tight ass you say, bent over - hopefully naked, yeh, interested in a fuck, would love to pull you on my hard rampant cock anf fill your cavity with thick warm juice

 

[Cletus5]

I too am having bi fantasies again -- did have a suck buddy in college. It was great as we both dated and then come back to dorm and get to suck off each other after sex with dates .... Delicious - we were best en in each other's weddings -- he was killed in accident after 4 years. I have never had a cock until two months ago --- it was good and I crave it again - but need to be really discrete. I would love to have a bi mmf and then a someone to see regularly