are you happy with it? you know... he goes down on you, you cum. you blow him till he's hard. fuck until he cums. sex over. are you happy that your orgasm is proudly gotten out of the way before real sex starts? or would you rather your orgasm was the grand finale, instead of his. that once he was done he turned to toys, tongues or fingers? there are frequently threads about how after she cums she doesn't want more, so how do i make her want more? but never the other way around. why not just get her off after sex? why do men get to roll over and sleep after orgasm, while women are expected to carry on and satisfy? why not the other way around? so tell me, what do you think about the order of things?